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@carly-xcx.bsky.social

Big fan of math, cats, and jokes. Bigger fan of intersectional feminism and LGBTQ rights. In my hyperpop era šŸ™šŸ» she/her

created November 24, 2024

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Profile picture Talia Lavin (@swordsjew.bsky.social) reposted

being trans is awesome and trans people are amazing and gender is a dumb box and anyone who makes their own crowbar to smash it from inside is a hero actually.

16/9/2025, 7:19:32 AM | 4321 923 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Kat Tenbarge (@kattenbarge.bsky.social) reposted

Feel like I’m going insane with the revisionist history that Charlie Kirk fostered open debate. He chilled speech and his targeting of professors for wrongthink led to threats, harassment, and being forced out of their jobs. His legacy is chilling speech right now, about him

13/9/2025, 5:36:48 PM | 26437 5773 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture carly (@carly-xcx.bsky.social)

I am firmly convinced that you can make any stressful situation 1000x more aggravating by adding ā€œcalmingā€ ambient music

8/8/2025, 6:52:57 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Ed Zitron (@edzitron.com) reposted

Generative AI by definition is conformity. It is an averaging of anything you ask of it - quite literally guessing what the most likely version of a thing might be. It is, by definition, mainstream, as is everything it creates old and deeply ideological, as every model trains on similar data.

6/8/2025, 2:47:45 AM | 6297 1743 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture carly (@carly-xcx.bsky.social) reply parent

I’m so happy you are doing these Buffy threads

5/8/2025, 10:05:25 PM | 2 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture carly (@carly-xcx.bsky.social) reply parent

This scene and the entirety of this episode fucking rocks. She sells it so well. You have to wonder how much of this she thought would actually make it in because she gets so goofy with it but it’s adorable

5/8/2025, 10:04:40 PM | 3 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture carly (@carly-xcx.bsky.social)

Just went on a walk and a bird pooped directly into my eye, how’s everybody else’s day going

2/8/2025, 8:27:04 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture carly (@carly-xcx.bsky.social) reply parent

That’s funny, I was just talking to someone about how I hate getting my blood pressure taken. It’s not even that uncomfortable of a sensation but something about the inflating cuff makes me feel like I’m going to go into trapped feral animal mode

29/7/2025, 3:29:05 PM | 3 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture carly (@carly-xcx.bsky.social) reply parent

Sigh yeah probably so

23/7/2025, 3:57:49 AM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture carly (@carly-xcx.bsky.social) reply parent

They are rebooting it! And I’m pretty sure Joss is not involved! No indication that the new slayer will be trans though deadline.com/2025/05/buff...

23/7/2025, 3:48:40 AM | 2 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture carly (@carly-xcx.bsky.social) reply parent

Wikipedia editors go so hard on the most specific things

22/7/2025, 1:44:11 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture carly (@carly-xcx.bsky.social) reply parent

Giles looking down and smiling to himself just so quietly proud of her

19/7/2025, 3:08:01 AM | 3 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture carly (@carly-xcx.bsky.social) reply parent

This is a fascinating angle I hadn’t considered before but I can’t help but resent the fact that you made me think something nice about this ding dong

18/7/2025, 10:54:17 PM | 3 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture carly (@carly-xcx.bsky.social) reply parent

I can’t remember if you’re a Buffy enjoyer but I am personally a diehard fan of Buffering the Vampire Slayer and everything they do. Funny, great discussion, all around wonderful people, I love them

6/7/2025, 4:21:29 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture carly (@carly-xcx.bsky.social) reply parent

It’s subtle, but the basic idea is that saying ā€œtrans womenā€ makes it clear that we are talking about a subcategory of women, rather than a whole new term. It’s clear from your post that you mean it in good faith but some people use it to imply that trans women are a distinct category from women

5/7/2025, 10:21:30 PM | 10 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture carly (@carly-xcx.bsky.social) reply parent

Fully agree with the sentiment! However just be aware that the preferred terminology includes the space (i.e. ā€œtrans manā€ and ā€œtrans womanā€), since the combined version is sometimes used as a dogwhistle to imply that trans people aren’t really members of their gender group. But yes!

5/7/2025, 9:22:41 PM | 10 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Animal Flix (@animalflix.bsky.social) reposted

The most majestic thing you will see on #bluesky today. šŸ˜‡

3/7/2025, 12:45:31 PM | 22997 4084 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture carly (@carly-xcx.bsky.social) reply parent

Same. Instant tears. It’s so beautiful when you realize how simple it can be to just love and accept someone for who they are

30/6/2025, 7:26:45 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture carly (@carly-xcx.bsky.social) reply parent

But this is a lie. White people have brought on their own destruction, and everyone else’s too, in their fervent belief that whiteness will save them. The wealthy and powerful stoke these tensions to keep attention off of them while robbing us blind. And we fall for it again, and again, and again…

30/6/2025, 7:59:59 AM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture carly (@carly-xcx.bsky.social)

I probably would have thought this was an exaggeration a few years ago, but after learning more I have started to see white supremacy everywhere. Why do people vote against medicaid? Public infrastructure? Regulation? Because they believe that they are punishing ā€œbadā€ people and will be not be hurt

30/6/2025, 7:56:59 AM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture carly (@carly-xcx.bsky.social) reply parent

Oh yeah lol to be clear I only had it open because I saw this thread and wanted to know more

28/6/2025, 10:32:50 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture carly (@carly-xcx.bsky.social) reply parent

No worries! I had the wikipedia page open to that section when I saw your comment so just figured I would add that context

28/6/2025, 10:01:46 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture carly (@carly-xcx.bsky.social) reply parent

A direct quote from his current Wikipedia page: ā€œIn the days that followed, seven additional women came forward with allegations of inappropriate behavior during photo ops.ā€

28/6/2025, 8:17:51 PM | 3 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture carly (@carly-xcx.bsky.social)

How come turn it off turn it back on again fixes 95% of technology issues but every time I try it with a person I end up with a stupid zombie

25/6/2025, 1:26:37 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Alejandra Caraballo (@esqueer.net) reposted reply parent

Could you imagine the New York Times writing an article saying women were asking for too much with abortion rights and that they went too far? That's effectively what they did here to trans people despite it being the same fight for bodily autonomy.

19/6/2025, 5:24:00 PM | 910 158 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture carly (@carly-xcx.bsky.social) reply parent

She is so funny!! I was the most excited for Jason Mantzoukas but so far she has been my favorite

16/6/2025, 11:23:59 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture carly (@carly-xcx.bsky.social)

I’m gonna hear Pink Pony Club so many times today

7/6/2025, 3:12:47 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture carly (@carly-xcx.bsky.social) reply parent

Flav Stanley

6/6/2025, 1:58:37 AM | 26 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Claire (@claire.chapien.net) reposted

I believe there's a good chance this will not pass the Senate. Rand Paul (can't believe I'm praising him) will be voting no. Susan Collins, Lisa Murkowski and Jerry Moran all have "doubts"; I think we can be confident in Collins voting no. if u are in kansas or alaska, CALL YOUR SENATORS

22/5/2025, 9:00:26 PM | 22 10 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture carly (@carly-xcx.bsky.social) reply parent

Wow, written in 2011 and it still applies to the internet of today. Great read, thanks for sharing

24/5/2025, 2:21:22 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Trans Lawrence Coalition (@tlclfk.bsky.social) reposted

Res. No. 7599 has OFFICIALLY been pulled from the City Hall meeting today! Does this mean the fight is over? Absolutely NOT! We must remain vigilant. If anything changes, we will let you know. But thanks to you all, we know that we are able to respond at a moment's notice. Keep up the good fight!

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20/5/2025, 7:38:18 PM | 6 4 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Trans Lawrence Coalition (@tlclfk.bsky.social) reposted

The City Commission wants to erode YOUR rights. Demand they stop Resolution No. 7599! Join us at the City Hall on Tuesday, May 20th at 5:45 PM to protect Lawrence residents from the rise of fascism. We look forward to seeing you all next week. tlcks.org/2025/05/15/d...

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17/5/2025, 12:03:39 AM | 3 2 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture carly (@carly-xcx.bsky.social) reply parent

This is pretty rude tbh. I know people are down on the egg prime directive but that doesn’t mean telling random strangers on the internet that they don’t get to decide their own identity. If we should believe trans people that they are who they say they are, then we should believe cis people too

12/5/2025, 12:39:19 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Matt Zoller Seitz (@mattzollerseitz.bsky.social) reposted

I realize I’m just shouting into the wind here, but: please, please, please stop posting screenshots without links, or summarizing breaking news events without links. There’s a serious problem with unsourced assertions all over the world right now, don’t be part of the problem.

9/5/2025, 9:46:51 PM | 4842 898 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture carly (@carly-xcx.bsky.social) reply parent

I’m reading a book called ā€œThe Sum of Us: What Racism Costs Everyone and How we can Prosper Togetherā€ by Heather McGhee that does a great exploration of this topic. And it’s impossible not to see the parallels to the TERF bs happening now

9/5/2025, 11:50:01 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture carly (@carly-xcx.bsky.social) reply parent

Almost definitely a factor, however history also shows that people are more than happy to sabotage themselves in order to hurt ā€œthe other.ā€ Racist fear-mongering has been an extremely effective tool for billionaires to tank support for social programs in the US since integration

9/5/2025, 11:47:35 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture carly (@carly-xcx.bsky.social) reply parent

These kinds of posts with no context always peeve me. After some searching I think she probably means Steak ā€˜n’ Shake, which was in the news recently for ā€œRFKingā€ their fries by switching from frying in oil to beef tallow

3/5/2025, 3:14:38 PM | 2 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Satan (@thedevil.bsky.social) reposted

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27/4/2025, 7:47:49 PM | 5134 667 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Arthur Webber šŸ³ļøā€āš§ļøšŸ³ļøā€šŸŒˆ (@bernietranders.bsky.social) reposted

One day I hope people will understand that the law does not determine what is morally right and in many circumstances, the ethically correct thing to do is to break the law.

18/4/2025, 8:34:49 AM | 339 55 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture carly (@carly-xcx.bsky.social)

Private room karaoke is the white pizza of karaoke. If I’m not in a dive bar belting to a half-listening crowd of eclectic strangers then what’s even the point

18/4/2025, 1:02:27 AM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture carly (@carly-xcx.bsky.social) reply parent

Same, I really needed something happy to focus on this week. I’m about halfway through and it’s such a good read, I’m so proud of them and this community 🄲

9/4/2025, 2:58:33 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture carly (@carly-xcx.bsky.social)

Still going at 23 hours. It feels so good to see someone having an appropriate degree of reaction to this situation. More of this from our other representatives please!

2/4/2025, 12:00:26 AM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture carly (@carly-xcx.bsky.social)

If you haven’t read it yet, you should.

25/3/2025, 12:26:57 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture The Lincoln Project (@lincolnproject.us) reposted

Top intelligence committees need to begin an investigation into Pete Hegseth's epic Signal chat mishap. ASAP. There should be televised hearings so all Americans have transparency on how such an enormous breach of national security could take place in first place.

24/3/2025, 6:33:40 PM | 33601 9419 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture carly (@carly-xcx.bsky.social)

Great article and exactly why it’s not enough to just block these moves by Trump as they come. These aren’t individual bad actions, they’re an attack on democracy itself. It’s wild that no one is even trying to talk impeachment and goes to show how far gone we all know congress is

19/3/2025, 9:01:23 PM | 3 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Rep. Zooey Zephyr (@zoandbehold.bsky.social) reposted

Happy International Women's Day! May every woman find their way into the room where their voice is most needed—whether that's a board room, a legislature, or a PTA meeting. When we stand up and speak our values, women change the world!

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8/3/2025, 5:48:46 PM | 21232 2454 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture carly (@carly-xcx.bsky.social)

You might think Musk would have learned something from what a disaster this approach was when he bought twitter, but at this point I’m pretty convinced billionaires are incapable of learning or doing almost anything beyond cackling cartoonishly over their mountains of hoarded wealth

20/2/2025, 2:47:22 PM | 2 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture carly (@carly-xcx.bsky.social)

Speaking at my dad’s memorial service in a few hours. This is going to be intense. Universe send good vibes plz

8/2/2025, 4:15:09 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture carly (@carly-xcx.bsky.social)

Just submitted my testimony opposing Kansas bill SB 76 which would ban school employees from using students’ chosen names and pronouns. I have never submitted testimony before but this was too important. We’re not going to give up our freedoms without a fight. tlcks.org/2025/02/06/s...

7/2/2025, 4:26:20 PM | 2 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture carly (@carly-xcx.bsky.social) reply parent

I also need you to be in that writers room

6/2/2025, 7:28:02 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture carly (@carly-xcx.bsky.social) reply parent

Just hundreds of comments saying ā€œI hate Trump, but I agree with him on this! We need to protect our girls!ā€ But this is so misguided. These laws don’t protect anyone, they only invite harassment and demands for ā€œproofā€. This will hurt cis girls and women almost as much as it will trans people.

6/2/2025, 5:30:00 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture carly (@carly-xcx.bsky.social)

If you support trans rights and want to put yourself in a really foul mood a very effective way to do that is to read the comment section on any Washington Post article that touches on trans issues

6/2/2025, 5:21:55 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Buffering the Vampire Slayer (@bufferingcast.bsky.social) reposted

the apocalypse came, we beeped, and here we f*cking go. #buffy #buffythevampireslayer

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3/2/2025, 10:49:18 PM | 81 14 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture carly (@carly-xcx.bsky.social) reply parent

What kind of soup? I made tortelloni soup earlier this week and couldn’t stop thinking about how good it was the whole next day

2/2/2025, 3:13:09 PM | 2 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez (@aoc.bsky.social) reposted

If you are a federal worker being offered a buyout, I would advise against taking it. Of course, this is a personal decision for everyone and it’s your choice. But these offers are a rush job. The legality is questionable and this admin does not keep to its word. They aren’t firing for a reason.

30/1/2025, 6:02:26 PM | 136070 24636 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Buffering the Vampire Slayer (@bufferingcast.bsky.social) reposted

Fighting means a lot of things at many stages of our lives — wherever your head & heart are at today, remember to take care of yourself. There are communities like ours who are here to remind you that you’re seen, you’re loved, you’re fucking beautiful, and you have a whole army standing with you. ā™„ļø

Buffy stands in a white dress and leather jacket, a still from the episode Prophecy Girl, with a cross bow in her arms pointing off to her right side. She is in a brightly lit tunnel, looking down. An illustration of a slayer from behind, clutching a stake in her right hand. She’s looking forward with stars around her. The words JUST KEEP FIGHTING are written around her.
20/1/2025, 10:21:23 PM | 85 15 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture carly (@carly-xcx.bsky.social)

Icy sidewalks truly are my most deeply hated foe

9/1/2025, 12:49:17 AM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture carly (@carly-xcx.bsky.social)

In VA for Thanksgiving. Kind of a weird time, but it’s nice to be back.

27/11/2024, 6:00:37 AM | 3 0 | View on Bluesky | view