chelcd.bsky.social
@chelcd.bsky.social
The Relentless Daughter caregiver, "I do the right thing cuz' it's the right thing to do", former psychotherapist, life coach on pause, thirsty for all things artsy, beautiful, social justice, The Police & Sting lover, still tap dance in grocery stores.
created November 18, 2024
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chelcd.bsky.social (@chelcd.bsky.social) reply parent
They have NO problem paying $ to have unqualified, uneducated FBI, ICE, etc., removing immigrants off the street who are just living while black or brown, committing zero crimes, attending a legal appointment as required, but have NO funding for elderly vets who are 100% service-connected disabled?
chelcd.bsky.social (@chelcd.bsky.social)
ANNOUNCEMENT!! The VA DENIED my 82-year-old mother more home care hours "as needed" again. I asked them for more hours so I could have time off to have medical tests/procedures or possible surgeries. Their answer was to put her in a nursing home. She's 100% T&P service-connected disabled USAF Vet
chelcd.bsky.social (@chelcd.bsky.social)
I second your feelings Kelly!!! WTF with these people?!!
chelcd.bsky.social (@chelcd.bsky.social)
Someone should be keeping count of all the genuine WASTING of $$ in a handful of months this administration keeps on wasting and wasting...
chelcd.bsky.social (@chelcd.bsky.social) reply parent
I'm starting to believe that people with disabled adults or children will need to start their own group home system/neighborhood or at the very least start up their own programs somehow. The states & federal system is not helping. Trump just wants the disabled, elderly & poor to die he's not fooling
chelcd.bsky.social (@chelcd.bsky.social) reply parent
But that "6 hours" is a genuine thing across all states and agencies, it's crazy. I live in MA "taxachusetts" we joke, and most people can only get 6 hours paid from an agency and if they do it or have someone else they know do it they can get up to 10 hours, BUT that program was cut by Trump.
chelcd.bsky.social (@chelcd.bsky.social) reply parent
I then did more digging & found out that they were keeping information from me, so I applied for more hours and then more. I then got to a point where they had denied more. So I can't get a day off until she dies. People don't understand you can't be 2 places at once & we have to literally do it all
chelcd.bsky.social (@chelcd.bsky.social) reply parent
If Trump has his way, he'll bring in forced institutionalization or worse. The 5-6 hours is a thing across all services for any reason. When my elderly Mom first started getting hours, it was "she can only get 6". She's a 100% totally & permanently service-connected disabled USAF Veteran. A lie.
chelcd.bsky.social (@chelcd.bsky.social)
If you need affordable furniture, but it now. Uhttps://thehill.com/business/5466577-trump-says-us-will-impose-tariffs-on-all-foreign-furniture/
chelcd.bsky.social (@chelcd.bsky.social)
Don Lemon is rockin' the streets!! LIVE ONGOING!! www.youtube.com/watch?v=jusM...
chelcd.bsky.social (@chelcd.bsky.social)
RIP <3 If only someone with this deep sense of fairness, understanding, compassion & genuine sense of justice could lead our nation. Please use your superpowers in the spirit world Judge Caprio we need all the help we can get!
chelcd.bsky.social (@chelcd.bsky.social) reply parent
Because they were born here or came here "the right way," they say & have citizenship, they think they'll be fine, & because they live in a blue state. I know what Trump's military is going to do & I know it's going to get really bad soon once the states don't capitulate & mine might be one of them.
chelcd.bsky.social (@chelcd.bsky.social) reply parent
I'd love to see someone put up a list of everyone with photos on social media. We need more in-your-face "evidence" to get people to wake the ef' up. It's not just race, it's location. I'm showing more fear than the black & brown people I know; they've taken their freedoms for granted, not concerned
chelcd.bsky.social (@chelcd.bsky.social) reply parent
I was just denied an appeal for more home care hours for my Mom. I couldn't be with my Dad when he was dying because the VA refused more home care. I had to stay awake 22.5 hrs a day for 4 mos last yr so she could rehab at home due to previous neglect & injuries in skilled rehabs. We must do better.
chelcd.bsky.social (@chelcd.bsky.social) reply parent
Hi Sarah! Regarding the VA & counseling, it's due to United Healthcare & Optum pushing a medical model discouraging long-term treatment. I'm both a former psychotherapist & the daughter of an 82 yo Mom, who is a 100% T&P service-connected USAF disabled Vet. Some states, like ours (MA), have parity.
chelcd.bsky.social (@chelcd.bsky.social)
Joy gives a reality check on the American education system that MAGA is being fooled by. This is a pointed, intelligent, mindful, & chilling fact-filled video presented in a down-to-earth manner like a favorite aunt advising that, if you take it, it could change the trajectory of your life! Take it!
chelcd.bsky.social (@chelcd.bsky.social)
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chelcd.bsky.social (@chelcd.bsky.social)
I'm nowhere near Iowa but he's got my "vote" and ah, seriously crushing on this amazing man. Yeah, I know, he's married ;) lol. We need more men like this in politics. I got full body chills watching his promo video. His vitality is contagious & due to recent losses in my life I needed that lift.
chelcd.bsky.social (@chelcd.bsky.social)
"I'm not going to say I told you so, but I told you so!!"
chelcd.bsky.social (@chelcd.bsky.social)
Page by page, Project 2025 is in full effect. Their transphobia and genderphobia are seriously obsessive & toxic. Their false ideology that there are only 2 genders and 2 sexes is poisoning the TRUTH of what sex and gender are. Science is FACT, not ideology. www.hhs.gov/press-room/h...
chelcd.bsky.social (@chelcd.bsky.social)
I'd love to see a visual map of all the non-white "you're fireds"...just sayin'!!
chelcd.bsky.social (@chelcd.bsky.social)
Agreed. This is an insult to my 100% totally and permanently service connected USAF disabled 82 year old Mom Veteran!!! My MOM deserves a full military funeral.
chelcd.bsky.social (@chelcd.bsky.social)
this!
chelcd.bsky.social (@chelcd.bsky.social)
THIS!!! thank you fifth!!
chelcd.bsky.social (@chelcd.bsky.social)
FREEDOM!!!!!
chelcd.bsky.social (@chelcd.bsky.social)
Extended Interview! WATCH, LIKE & SHARE!! Do NOT feel defeated!! Let's do a 1980s "IN YOUR FACE!" (Remember that phrase?) style sharing of Colbert & Harris and make this video the MOST watched segment in The Late Show history!! www.youtube.com/watch?v=BD8N...
chelcd.bsky.social (@chelcd.bsky.social)
Next Trump will sue the judge for something or other...
chelcd.bsky.social (@chelcd.bsky.social)
DISGUSTING!! Destroying 10 Million $$$ perfectly good contraceptives due to the destruction of USAID. SHAME ON TRUMP!! thehill.com/policy/healt...
chelcd.bsky.social (@chelcd.bsky.social)
I was listening to NPR in my car when THIS came on :) Such a proud MeidasTouch moment! :)
chelcd.bsky.social (@chelcd.bsky.social)
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chelcd.bsky.social (@chelcd.bsky.social) reply parent
The infighting is why Trump and the psycho white "Christian" Nationalists are going to destroy our country. Diversity is amazing AND we still must find a way to unite against this TEAM born out of The Heritage Foundation. The right is united; we are not, & it will be our downfall. Criticize later.
chelcd.bsky.social (@chelcd.bsky.social) reply parent
Exactly, they're getting some black vibes. But literal white collar crime is just fine.
chelcd.bsky.social (@chelcd.bsky.social)
Jen's right! This IS a 911 HAIR ON FIRE MOMENT!
chelcd.bsky.social (@chelcd.bsky.social)
Right Sabina? Just like when Trump said if you don't test for Covid-19 then there won't be any Covid virus (statistics). Unreal. Next they will mess with all the crime statistics. If you're a scientific researcher and you pulled this kind of stuff you'd lose your job & be blackballed.
chelcd.bsky.social (@chelcd.bsky.social)
They're coming for every aspect of what makes America TRULY great. Anything that is not cloaked in the white "Christian" Nationalist Agenda will be demolished, period if there isn't some fast & furious uniting on the left ASAP to stop it!
chelcd.bsky.social (@chelcd.bsky.social)
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AnnieForTruth (@anniefortruth1.bsky.social) reposted
Ghislaine Maxwell is not a victim. She’s a POS liar & pedophile that sex trafficked, abused & raped young girls. She is a convicted felon that needs to rot in prison serving her 20 yr sentence with absolutely no pardons. Where are the #SaveTheChildren folks right now? They are awfully quiet! 🙄😡😡
chelcd.bsky.social (@chelcd.bsky.social) reply parent
Yeah, research my ass! Wait, they ARE researching my ass! lol. but seriously, I agree with you completely, this is exactly what I've been saying for years, that I'd love to see their computers, phones, etc.,
chelcd.bsky.social (@chelcd.bsky.social) reply parent
Exactly!! If we don't unite, we are going to be beyond screwed and not in a good way! I mean, Harvard University is now going to kiss Trump's ass even more. I am so frustrated, but I'm glad I've learned all these "woke" things decades ago & got my 3 degrees. I won't be brainwashed in my mid-50s.
chelcd.bsky.social (@chelcd.bsky.social) reply parent
Oh, but wait... "It was for research purposes only" LOL
chelcd.bsky.social (@chelcd.bsky.social)
I always say, "I'd LOVE to see what's on their computer screens & phones" whenever these book banning, purity ring preaching hypocritical religious politicians doth protest too much ;)
chelcd.bsky.social (@chelcd.bsky.social) reply parent
Thank you. Yes, she was right for sure. It was so normalized back then, too. I remember in my early 20s pursuing modeling I was told to return when I'm in my 30s because I still looked too young, but wasn't young & I'd be competing with 14 yo girls who'd already modeled in Paris & Milan, so crazy.
chelcd.bsky.social (@chelcd.bsky.social)
It's interesting as my Mom told me to stay away from this back in the day and it was all the rage. This and Ford Model Mgmt.'s contests as well. I pursued modeling locally for a bit and then realized it was far too surface for my deep self even though I love the visual aspects of art & modeling.
chelcd.bsky.social (@chelcd.bsky.social)
Repulsive. Shame on this administration, every day, every hour, for a million reasons and counting!! www.theguardian.com/us-news/2025...
chelcd.bsky.social (@chelcd.bsky.social)
So, I'm realizing that I have SERIOUSLY minimized my awesomeness pretty much my entire life if this bonehead gets a position like this!!
chelcd.bsky.social (@chelcd.bsky.social) reply parent
Great photography, I checked out your link :) So much variety. Inspirational for sure, got to get back to it myself
chelcd.bsky.social (@chelcd.bsky.social) reply parent
my thoughts exactly!!!
chelcd.bsky.social (@chelcd.bsky.social) reply parent
Is this guy's name Richard? Cuz' he seems like a real Dick!
chelcd.bsky.social (@chelcd.bsky.social)
chelcd.bsky.social (@chelcd.bsky.social) reply parent
Thank you!!! :)
chelcd.bsky.social (@chelcd.bsky.social)
AOC IS what this country needs! www.youtube.com/watch?v=L7HI...
chelcd.bsky.social (@chelcd.bsky.social) reply parent
Congrats!! I've yet to publish "my book," it's a "one day" kind of thing, so I will always support fellow writers who prioritize their talents, skills & dreams into a reality! :)
chelcd.bsky.social (@chelcd.bsky.social) reply parent
Yeah, the "tech bro" club wants this district thing & it is beyond freaky! They're already doing it in other countries. I was driving, listening to NPR, & they had a segment with them & their pro-natal conference & the districts & the $$$$ there. Scary!
chelcd.bsky.social (@chelcd.bsky.social)
If you leave a verbally abusive or threatening comment, I WILL report you and block you. Period.
chelcd.bsky.social (@chelcd.bsky.social) reply parent
You've been reported. Take your verbal abuse elsewhere.
chelcd.bsky.social (@chelcd.bsky.social) reply parent
lol...lol
chelcd.bsky.social (@chelcd.bsky.social) reply parent
Hello, I'm not sure which post you're referring to, but you seem to have a lot of hostility in these words. I have a trans relative & have had trans friends, so again, you're yelling at the wrong human.
chelcd.bsky.social (@chelcd.bsky.social)
This reminds me of arresting the prostitutes and not the "Johns". Why are we only grabbing the "criminal illegal immigrants" yet the farmers, hotel owners, etc., aren't charged with anything. Supply & demand, so why one & not the other? I know, just pointing out the hypocrisy.
chelcd.bsky.social (@chelcd.bsky.social)
Um, exactly!!! lol
chelcd.bsky.social (@chelcd.bsky.social) reply parent
I feel like a different human since being off of them, & actually noticed some physical shifts while still being on them. Now rapidly aging skin (photo is from 5 yrs ago), low frustration tolerance, etc., but no more migraines at least. Trust me, I know the importance of hormones!
chelcd.bsky.social (@chelcd.bsky.social) reply parent
I've genuine questions to ask you regarding your taking estrogen. Would you please DM me? I'm curious how much you need to take. I'm cis gender was on birth control pills for 35 years for horrific menstrual cycles, never had kids, & doc refused to continue prescribing due to my age & post-menopausal
chelcd.bsky.social (@chelcd.bsky.social) reply parent
If this is a legitimate trans person's account, then they need to learn how to be more strategic & less impulsive with their speech. This literal "kill" instruction doesn't mince words. It's a major self-sabotage if you're wanting your needs met & is detrimental to the trans community! NOT promoting
chelcd.bsky.social (@chelcd.bsky.social) reply parent
OR just some perverts who decide to start kidnapping women, girls, kids...
chelcd.bsky.social (@chelcd.bsky.social)
So much for my lifetime dream of moving to California! WTF is wrong with people? Oh wait, I know.
chelcd.bsky.social (@chelcd.bsky.social)
You WOULD THINK JFK Jr. would be on top of this if anything. Can at least ONE PERSON do SOMETHING USEFUL in this administration, please? snacksafely.com/2025/06/no-m...
chelcd.bsky.social (@chelcd.bsky.social)
Mr. Tapper, You are NOT helping our CURRENT CRISIS. Why don't you focus on THIS CURRENT President's executive functioning skills & I'm speaking frontal lobe brain executive functioning deficits which are profoundly negatively affecting his decision making ability.
chelcd.bsky.social (@chelcd.bsky.social) reply parent
Love Terry, class, regardless of the sass! :) Stephen Miller is pricker than prick!
chelcd.bsky.social (@chelcd.bsky.social) reply parent
That's because he eats rainbow children for breakfast & burps for the rest of the day in delight. I mean, if he could, he would. Mr. Evil incarnate! I mean this scum makes Trump appear almost human at times, not much scarier than that!
chelcd.bsky.social (@chelcd.bsky.social)
IF I hear ONE MORE TIME that Democrats wanted "men to play in women's sports," I'm going to projectile VOMIT ALL OVER STEVIE MILLER's HEAD! Just sayin'! Discounted speech and all ;)
chelcd.bsky.social (@chelcd.bsky.social)
"We can't afford to be innocent, stand up & face, it's the enemy. It's a do-or-die situation. We will be INVINCIBLE!!" LOVE YOU PAT!!!! LET'S DO THIS!!
chelcd.bsky.social (@chelcd.bsky.social) reply parent
I like it when I hear Tim from The Bullwark call him Nutlick ;) lol
chelcd.bsky.social (@chelcd.bsky.social)
Sending love, persistence, perseverance & resilience to my fellow justice warriors!! <3
chelcd.bsky.social (@chelcd.bsky.social)
THIS is what needs to go viral. People all over MUST realize this is a SET UP, SABOTAGE & PLEASE DO NOT TAKE THE BAIT!!!
chelcd.bsky.social (@chelcd.bsky.social) reply parent
People are genuinely experiencing a spell of flat affect, a lack of empathy, and learned helplessness, which fuels the notion of defeat and a 'why bother' attitude. I have moments when I find myself idling in this space but I back the car up & get the fuck outta there! lol
chelcd.bsky.social (@chelcd.bsky.social) reply parent
Does AC/DC know about this?? ;) lol lol
chelcd.bsky.social (@chelcd.bsky.social) reply parent
I enjoyed reading your "bio." I laughed & I needed it! A rough month. My Dad died on May 6th & he would have been 82 on May 10th. My Mom turns 82 tomorrow. She has a photo from when she was in a skilled nursing center & she calls it "the fat lady". I got her to a 5.6 A1C & 135 lbs by being home :)
chelcd.bsky.social (@chelcd.bsky.social) reply parent
Regarding your profile description, I'm appalled with you!!!! ARGH!!
chelcd.bsky.social (@chelcd.bsky.social)
Couldn't have written it better myself! FYI "Ginger" You're NOT alone <3 Maintaining a Baseline Means Everything When You're Chronically Ill open.substack.com/pub/disabled...
chelcd.bsky.social (@chelcd.bsky.social)
He clearly, CLEARLY has executive functioning issues; impulsivity, lack of emotional IQ, weakening vocabulary, low frustration tolerance, compulsive behaviors, lack of awareness & insight...
chelcd.bsky.social (@chelcd.bsky.social)
Can someone please remind me what country I'm in? WTF?! Texas will require public school classrooms to display Ten Commandments under bill nearing passage www.texastribune.org/2025/05/24/t... via @texastribune.org
chelcd.bsky.social (@chelcd.bsky.social) reply parent
Thanks. I at least went to the post office to inquire about the passport process, as I've never needed one but think it's a good idea to have one now. I'm not as young as I may appear, lol.
chelcd.bsky.social (@chelcd.bsky.social)
One of my most favorite people I've never met. Johnny Q is not only one of the most talented actors of my generation, his unapologetically expressed self is always a breath of fresh air.
chelcd.bsky.social (@chelcd.bsky.social) reply parent
Just the cost of an apartment each month or a mortgage is higher than the income guidelines allow. This is insane. I am starting to believe that the current administration wants the poor, disabled, aged, etc., to fall ill and die or "unalive" themselves in full despair so they can save $$.
chelcd.bsky.social (@chelcd.bsky.social)
@ocasio-cortez.house.gov @sanders.senate.gov @petebuttigieg.bsky.social @repjasmine.bsky.social @daniellemoodie.bsky.social Can you please use your platforms & powerful voices to explain that "work requirements" for Medicaid would immediately make one ineligible due to the income guidelines!! ARGH!
chelcd.bsky.social (@chelcd.bsky.social) reply parent
I'm going to get my very first passport & am seriously considering moving to Canada. My Dad just died on May 6th & he was still a Canadian citizen, coming here at 18, not speaking a word of English, met my Mom, & oddly enough, they're 3rd cousins & she's Irish & French ;) lol. I take care of my Mom
chelcd.bsky.social (@chelcd.bsky.social)
"Be loyal to your work." Treat yourself to this 5-minute joy-filled peek into this whimsical and playful artist's home. www.youtube.com/watch?v=6ike...
chelcd.bsky.social (@chelcd.bsky.social)
chelcd.bsky.social (@chelcd.bsky.social)
SMALL BIZ OWNERS WATCH THIS NOW! LIVE!! www.youtube.com/watch?v=EHUG...
chelcd.bsky.social (@chelcd.bsky.social)
Hey there Nancy Mace! I used the MEN'S room the other day in a TJMaxx while a fellow employee stood watch outside for me (cart & if anyone was going in) THAT is what standing up for women's rights looks like. When you gotta go, you gotta go Nancy!
chelcd.bsky.social (@chelcd.bsky.social)
Trump’s scattered brain creates havoc open.substack.com/pub/contrari...
chelcd.bsky.social (@chelcd.bsky.social) reply parent
Turns out you're my spirit guide today. Needed this with all the stress dealing with medical staff w my Dad dying in the ICU. I old school printed this out & it's coming with me today!! <3 to you :)
chelcd.bsky.social (@chelcd.bsky.social) reply parent
LOL LOL. Oh, I needed this laugh, much loss in my world right now.
chelcd.bsky.social (@chelcd.bsky.social) reply parent
Is everyone under the Project 2025's spell of Make America Victorian again? ;)
chelcd.bsky.social (@chelcd.bsky.social) reply parent
I just commented about that very thing! lol.
chelcd.bsky.social (@chelcd.bsky.social) reply parent
Interesting, as there are thousands of women offering legit sexual services for any kink flavor on Blue with half-nude photos on their pages, but THIS is what gets flagged? Similar to Poshmark & the not-so "underground" gals selling stinky socks & undies, slipping videos of their feet into packages.
chelcd.bsky.social (@chelcd.bsky.social)
“When it is a battle for facts, journalism becomes activism.” www.youtube.com/watch?v=yWpe...
chelcd.bsky.social (@chelcd.bsky.social) reply parent
Maybe we can get lucky & Mike Walz sings like a bird (I wish). He's the easiest target. I almost wonder, though, that maybe, just remotely, it was NOT a mistake at all on that fateful Signal day? Hmm...
chelcd.bsky.social (@chelcd.bsky.social) reply parent
Way too bummed about this :(
chelcd.bsky.social (@chelcd.bsky.social)
Would love to see how open minded they are when any other religion other than the Catholic Church want to start up a charter school & be funded by tax payers.
chelcd.bsky.social (@chelcd.bsky.social)
WTF??!! OMGWTF?????!!!! So, which one of us are going to be deported out of the country we're citizens of?