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Cheri Timko

@ctimko.bsky.social

Couples & Intimacy Psychotherapist, author, wife, mother, feminist, liberal, book & chocolate lover. Opinions are mine. https://www.facebook.com/datenightcommunity

created January 9, 2025

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And teachers!

2/9/2025, 3:48:27 AM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Mental load: women are talking about it all the time. Are men?

2/9/2025, 2:16:35 AM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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I was just talking about this yesterday. It would have a big impact if we ended red state welfare support.

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The party of “family values” is attacking our kids.

Graphic with the text: 10 TRUMP ATTACKS ON KIDS 1. Made the largest SNAP (food stamps) cuts in history. 2. Limits school lunch for kids by imposing new red tape. 3. Reduces after-school and summer programs for poor kids by requiring extra paperwork. 4. Slashes the Children’s Health Insurance Program, which provides health care for half of all kids. 5. Rips health care away by making it harder for parents to cover their kids through the Affordable Care Act. 6. Takes money away from public schools, meaning larger class sizes and fewer teachers per student. 7. Guts Head Start, which provides early childhood education, health, nutrition, and other services to low-income children. 8. Undermines public health and vaccines. 9. Freezes funds used to train teachers. 10. Shuts down parts of the Office of Civil Rights, which helps kids who get discriminated against in school.
31/8/2025, 4:01:28 PM | 1245 505 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Cheri Timko (@ctimko.bsky.social)

When someone tells you who they are, believe them.

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Our country has abandoned our children in the most cruel and inhumane way. We've left them to deal with guns on their own. I don't want to hear any more stories about the heroism of small children and teachers protecting one another. It is our failing that they are put in this situation at all.

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If EVERY couple is arguing about mental load and what is "fair," then we have a systematic problem, not an individual problem.

29/8/2025, 2:56:23 PM | 1 1 | View on Bluesky | view

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I will never get over how a handful of tech bros set billions of dollars on fire to build a plagiarism machine that doesn't work and will destroy human society when they could have used a fraction of that money to fund a new golden age of creativity and knowledge.

29/8/2025, 11:50:21 AM | 10217 2451 | View on Bluesky | view

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27/8/2025, 10:55:40 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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27/8/2025, 10:54:47 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Me, too, young sir. Me, too.

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27/8/2025, 10:53:52 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Cheri Timko (@ctimko.bsky.social)

The idea that we have lost so many inventions and solutions to big problems due to patriarchy, racism, and classism truly makes me sad. How many creative, wise people were ignored or held down by trauma or societal bonds? 😭 Maybe we are our own worst enemies.

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🤣🤣🤣

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27/8/2025, 10:44:41 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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I'm ready for a circle.

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27/8/2025, 10:43:02 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Not just politicians. Wishing there were natural consequences for lies.

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27/8/2025, 10:41:36 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Oh, the contradictions!

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27/8/2025, 10:38:37 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Let that sink in for a moment.

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27/8/2025, 10:33:46 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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27/8/2025, 1:51:14 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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🤣🤣🤣

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27/8/2025, 1:49:00 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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More and more, I think capitalism is an inhumane system. At least the way we do it in the US.

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I was going to say "because they would rather have you be pregnant," but that wouldn't be free either. Actually, they are microaggressressions built into the system.

25/8/2025, 2:08:40 PM | 2 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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24/8/2025, 10:59:22 PM | 2 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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I'm not anti-AI. But, it should be treated like a tool. It needs guardrails to protect us.

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24/8/2025, 10:57:58 PM | 2 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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No need for research on women's health.

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24/8/2025, 10:55:50 PM | 2 1 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Cheri Timko (@ctimko.bsky.social)

He or others.

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24/8/2025, 10:54:38 PM | 2 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Cheri Timko (@ctimko.bsky.social)

I choose "woke!"

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24/8/2025, 10:53:04 PM | 2 1 | View on Bluesky | view

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I'm older than my 30s, and this still applies.

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24/8/2025, 10:51:30 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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I mean, what could possibly go wrong if everyone uses AI to write their emails and tell them, "You're right!" when they rehash the argument they had with their spouse?

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24/8/2025, 10:50:18 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Eating is optional in this economy.

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24/8/2025, 10:42:05 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Things Trump claims to know more about than anyone else: * grass * campaign finance * lawsuits * the visa system * construction & rebuilding infrastructure * renewal energy * trade * taxes * the economy * drones I feel much better knowing that I'm in such self-proclaimed good hands.

24/8/2025, 10:39:41 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Cheri Timko (@ctimko.bsky.social)

$3.4 billion. That's a lot of school lunches.

24/8/2025, 10:30:17 PM | 2 1 | View on Bluesky | view

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The age of the Robber Barons. When a small group of people control the laws so they can be richer than any person could spend in their lifetime or their children's. While the rest of us work harder, are sicker, & die younger. Thanks, but no thanks.

24/8/2025, 10:29:19 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Jackie Barbosa 📚 ⚾ 🍺 🌮🇲🇽 (@jackiebarbosa.bsky.social) reposted

Men: We want on-demand access to gorgeous women to use as glorified sex toys and forget about. Women: We want men who care about us as human beings and thus about our pleasure. Men: YOU ARE CRUEL BEYOND BEARING, WHY DO YOU HATE. US?

2/8/2025, 2:59:02 PM | 96 13 | View on Bluesky | view

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Maybe we should be staging a hunger strike in solidarity.

3/8/2025, 12:46:09 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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If only we could get him on the couch of a good therapist...

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Profile picture Cheri Timko (@ctimko.bsky.social)

They'll take your "defund the police" and raise you $170 billion in secret police. You'll see that the problem is not hatred,oppression, violence, and abuse--it's transparency.

27/7/2025, 9:19:18 PM | 2 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Cheri Timko (@ctimko.bsky.social)

In discussion with a MAGAt, they said, "No, I wouldn't leave my daughter in a room with Trump. What does that have to do with what kind of president he would be?" If he doesn't already know, I don't want to be the one who has to explain.

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Profile picture League of Women Voters of Ohio (@lwvohio.bsky.social) reposted

As we've been saying. #EndGerrymanderingOhio

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Profile picture Cheri Timko (@ctimko.bsky.social)

Anxiety and anger are the most contagious emotions.

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24/7/2025, 1:06:22 PM | 2 1 | View on Bluesky | view

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Just release the files already. 🙄

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24/7/2025, 1:05:28 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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24/7/2025, 1:01:52 PM | 1 1 | View on Bluesky | view

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2025 Many thanks for reminding us all how fortunate we were. What could the second half of the year possibly bring?!?

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I'm so grateful for this frequent reminder. @georgetakei.bsky.social I'm so sorry for what you and your family went through. There is no excuse and no compensation to make up for it.

22/7/2025, 3:06:32 AM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Made me snort-laugh. If only...

22/7/2025, 3:03:34 AM | 2 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Any time now.

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22/7/2025, 2:54:08 AM | 2 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Not that we need any more proof of the hate that people have towards women....

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22/7/2025, 12:15:05 AM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Always follow the money.

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A platform for the next election. This is a good start.

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22/7/2025, 12:12:27 AM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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"For too long, countless Americans with criminal histories have been permanently disenfranchised from exercising the right to keep and bear arms...irrespective of whether they actually pose a threat," said Attorney General Pamela Bondi. "No longer."

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Weird contradiction: Deport immigrants because they are inherently dangerous AND Arm convicted criminals because they have been "unfairly marginalized." DOJ is taking public comments now.

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I'm getting so tired of unqualified nominees who will destroy our government.

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I've wondered how Trump maintained such fierce loyalty from so many politicians. What dirt is he holding over their heads? Could he have used the Epstein Files as blackmail? Maybe that's another reason he won't release them. He'd lose his leverage.

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May we finally see how patriarchy hurts everyone, even those who are privledged by it, and it quietly fade into obscurity.

10/7/2025, 1:17:05 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Cheri Timko (@ctimko.bsky.social)

We've imagined what the world would look like if women were in charge. This is the beginning. First step, controlling our own lives. It boggles my mind, that in a world in danger of overpopulation, people who choose not to have children are demonized. Perhaps, instead, this is wisdom.

10/7/2025, 1:14:19 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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How can we make humanity-saving a well paid career? A question for the age. Thanks for posing it @greenhombre.bsky.social

10/7/2025, 12:54:11 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Your work is important and valuable. If others protest your passion, then they don't understand that social justice and ministry are supposed to go hand in hand. Don't shrink or edit for those who don't value your compassion.

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@amsickofpollies.bsky.social - thanks for spotting this. I reformatted it and also have a four-up PDF if anyone wants it.

What Immigration is NOT
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Are we Great Again yet?

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Of the 1000 deaths from COVID worldwide in the last 30 days, 645 were in the US. I guess if we don't talk about it, it's not really happening.

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Supreme Court ruled that mass layoffs by executive order can continue. Trump says we haven't even begun to dismantle the government. "no more than one employee should be hired for every four employees that depart"

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Concentration camp? -mass detention without trial -targeted group persecution -state of military control -harsh, inhumane conditions -isolation and surveillance -fear as a tool of control
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But, at least our "beloved" billionaires won't be inconvenienced with the cost of taxes.

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A person sitting in front of a wall of books. The caption reads,
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November 4, 2026 Election day

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Love this idea!

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I read a book about gay people and became gay and then I read a book about straight people and became straight again and then I read a book about Australians and became Australian and then I read a book about Bigfoot and became Bigfoot. Book-banners are weak knuckleheads.

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"Chatbots like ChatGPT should not replace therapists because of their dangerous tendencies to express stigma, encourage delusions, and respond inappropriately in critical moments."

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If you were too young in 2003 here is what Bush told the American people: 1) The Iraq War won’t cost a lot of money 3) We won’t need a lot of troops 4) We’ll bring peace and freedom to Iraq 5) We’ll find WMDs 6) We’ll be welcomed as liberators 7) It will be easy 8) It won’t take long All lies.

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Profile picture Cheri Timko (@ctimko.bsky.social)

Outsourcing our brain functions using AI has consequences pretty quickly. At least, that's what one of the earliest studies is finding. (Maybe that's exactly what we need to not care when AI takes all of our jobs.)

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Eating our cats and dogs, going on crime sprees while also Paying taxes that they get no benefit from and keeping many of our service industries afloat.

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The world as told in shoes.

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What about all of the federal workers who have received pay while laid off or when they were reinstated? While they deserve to be paid for being treated so poorly, I want to see what that bill looks like. The fraud and waste patrol squandering our tax dollars.

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In some cases, by the exact same people.

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Profile picture Brian Cardone (@cardonebrian.bsky.social) reposted

🚨🚨The White House is pissed off about this ad so you know what to do, share it everywhere! ICE is disappearing people just because of the color of their skin! No Warrant! No Due Process! This is not who we are as Americans! #MAGAKidnappers want an all white America, fuck that‼️

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A beautiful celebration. Marking the moment when EVERYONE was freed. Not when the first person was freed. Not when the most were freed. But when the last were freed, a celebration for all. I wish we applied this concept to many issues. The work isn't finished until everyone is included.

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Here's your waste, fraud, and abuse. Now that Elon dismantled the government agencies that were slowing him down, we will see even more of this. Which seems impossible to consider since he has had so many losses in the last few months. SMH

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This is certainly how my daughters feel.

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Love this! 💥👍💖

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Profile picture Chasten Glezman Buttigieg (@chastenbuttigieg.bsky.social) reposted

They've got enough money to throw us into another war, but not enough money to fund the suicide prevention hotline. Very "pro-life." Very "pro-family." So "GREAT."

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🤣🤣🤣

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This worker is thinning peach trees in Central CA. It takes skill to do this while balanced on top of a ladder. He's currently making CA min wage. It's hard to support his family on this. He's eager for harvesting to start when he could get piece rate and earn more. #WeFeedYou

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Obama Appreciation Day! First post.

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