Doña Chiquitita
@dona-dvet.bsky.social
#intersex woman, SA survivor, Hidalga, Hija de la plaga de gobiernos. {Soldata, instruista, resaniganta, переводчик, Gesundheitsforscherin, מקובל, صوفي} (🔞MDNI) pan, poly, no shaming no lists, sometimes nsfw or a tad spicy; it’s MY prerogative
created June 23, 2023
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Doña Chiquitita (@dona-dvet.bsky.social)
I have worked in public health circles for over 15 years and I assure you these administrators are almost entirely older (near retirement), white men, some older white privileged women, and replacing them is a must
Doña Chiquitita (@dona-dvet.bsky.social) reply parent
They were raised with this hate and they are misogynistic, toxically masculine men who lived with and in extreme privilege all of their lives! If you want to put a stop to this hate you have to root it out at its basic levels not just in court but in employment Fire them all …
Doña Chiquitita (@dona-dvet.bsky.social)
Cold hard fact: The real reason hospitals are ceasing affirming care for 19yr olds and under has nothing to do with the January EO, which was at its core blatantly illegal and unconstitutional! It has EVERYTHING to do with one simple fact - hospital administrators are mostly boomer aged white men
Doña Chiquitita (@dona-dvet.bsky.social)
Wish cis people didn’t think we’re all drag queens Cis people: we’re not all, most aren’t, like that
Doña Chiquitita (@dona-dvet.bsky.social)
What really really hurts: Non binary person saying to me that if I was still “presenting” male they’d fuck my brains out but now that I’m “presenting” female (same fucking body by the way) they’re not interested … (Presenting in quotes bc I’ve always been obvious no matter what clothes I wear)
Doña Chiquitita (@dona-dvet.bsky.social) reply parent
Ima do it … wish me luck
Doña Chiquitita (@dona-dvet.bsky.social)
Think about wearing white after Labor Day … 😂
Doña Chiquitita (@dona-dvet.bsky.social) reply parent
“Take me to bed or lose me forever”
Doña Chiquitita (@dona-dvet.bsky.social) reply parent
Like by “not be“ I mean out of public and “horizontal” … or partially horizontal 😉
Doña Chiquitita (@dona-dvet.bsky.social)
Oh shit … I gotta go to a luxury dinner date next week and I don’t know what I’m going to wear … not sure my formal dress fits well anymore … I’d better stop eating today 😂 It’s literally as place you CANNOT show up to in jeans or informal skirt … or they won’t let you in
Doña Chiquitita (@dona-dvet.bsky.social) reply parent
If we’re gonna be up/out late, yes. But if we’re gonna not be, then let’s say 5:00 🥰
Doña Chiquitita (@dona-dvet.bsky.social) reply parent
And then kiss me some more …
Doña Chiquitita (@dona-dvet.bsky.social)
If you’re a guy and wondering if I’m into you .. Yes Just shut up and take me out to dinner already
Doña Chiquitita (@dona-dvet.bsky.social)
If you’re trans masc/non binary and wondering if I’m into you .. YES just shut up and grab my hand and lead me to bed already
Doña Chiquitita (@dona-dvet.bsky.social)
If you’re a lesbian and you’re wondering if I’m into you and afraid to ask … YES So just shut up and kiss me already
Doña Chiquitita (@dona-dvet.bsky.social)
Protein packed junk food isn’t gonna make anyone healthy .. what it will do is cause a lot of elevated liver enzymes and kidney failure bc people will eat too much !
Doña Chiquitita (@dona-dvet.bsky.social)
My guess is they just ran out of diapers and they were on back order … took 3 days to arrive.
Doña Chiquitita (@dona-dvet.bsky.social)
Lesbians: 1: (God she’s hot! I’ve gotta get with her). Hi, how are you? 2: (Fuck, she’s amazing, I’m soaked) I’m okay, how about you? 1: (Does she want me too?) Yeah, just living each day 2: (I’ll bet she hates me…) I get it, wanna get a coffee? 1: (wish there was someone who wanted me) 👍🏼
Doña Chiquitita (@dona-dvet.bsky.social) reply parent
omg, so familiar
Doña Chiquitita (@dona-dvet.bsky.social)
Bald eagle just flew over my backyard at about 15ft above the ground just after I opened the back door to go outside 🥰
Doña Chiquitita (@dona-dvet.bsky.social)
Te amo también 🥰 Do you trust me? Can I trust you? Can we decide Tuesday evening? Por favor té amable conmigo
Doña Chiquitita (@dona-dvet.bsky.social)
You seemed so much taller than me today … 🤔 am I shrinking?
Doña Chiquitita (@dona-dvet.bsky.social)
We can’t be close or show affection in uniform, I know, so I try to avoid it … problem is, that rule makes it really difficult to know if you’re doing the same or you’re just tired of me
Doña Chiquitita (@dona-dvet.bsky.social)
Why am I an evil person for loving you? Just bc I’m not monogamous and you are? How can being loving to lots of people be more wrong than loving only one person or not loving anyone at all? Can’t you see that makes no sense?? I cannot bee evil for loving … open your mind
Doña Chiquitita (@dona-dvet.bsky.social)
Thank you for the hug 🥰 I’m not worth it
Doña Chiquitita (@dona-dvet.bsky.social)
Yep … it snowed
Doña Chiquitita (@dona-dvet.bsky.social)
I love the women I work with on weekends … they’re all so kind to me and they have such wonderful senses of humor … no mean girls anywhere
Doña Chiquitita (@dona-dvet.bsky.social) reply parent
Mmmmmmm Sweet baby Jesus … my heart is pumping and my head is spinning 🥰
Doña Chiquitita (@dona-dvet.bsky.social)
Time to head up to the high altitudes for work … should be a cold day up there Maybe we’ll get some snow Girl date in 2 days to warm me back up … can’t wait
Doña Chiquitita (@dona-dvet.bsky.social) reply parent
😍
Doña Chiquitita (@dona-dvet.bsky.social) reply parent
😍🥰😘
Doña Chiquitita (@dona-dvet.bsky.social) reply parent
🥰😘
Doña Chiquitita (@dona-dvet.bsky.social)
If HRT causes shootings then why aren’t there menopausal women out there shooting up schools, huh, RFK Jr… riddle me that you joker of a fucking idiot.
Doña Chiquitita (@dona-dvet.bsky.social)
It’s been a rough week, doll, we’re both, you and I, gonna need some extra cuddling … maybe they have a soft couch on the porch with a blanket … we could just sit there and cuddle under the stars for a few hours in the cool mountain air … 🥰
Doña Chiquitita (@dona-dvet.bsky.social) reply parent
Agreed!
Doña Chiquitita (@dona-dvet.bsky.social)
What if she kissed you first?
Doña Chiquitita (@dona-dvet.bsky.social)
Woman to woman, could you really pass these up … we could do so much for each other … 🥰😘
Doña Chiquitita (@dona-dvet.bsky.social)
What if you kissed the bunny? Would she kiss you back?
Doña Chiquitita (@dona-dvet.bsky.social)
How about a little love? Can we make out?
Doña Chiquitita (@dona-dvet.bsky.social)
The big boss at work thinks crazies like Elon and Donnie are good examples of business leaders and has adopted their illegal and antisocial behaviors toward his employees … almost walked out this afternoon, for good
Doña Chiquitita (@dona-dvet.bsky.social)
Distract me from this nightmare of a country, please! I can install all the filters I want on this app and the shit never gets filtered at all … it’s killing’s me
Doña Chiquitita (@dona-dvet.bsky.social)
Jason Momoa has such a cute and mischievous smile … I love it!
Doña Chiquitita (@dona-dvet.bsky.social) reply parent
I dislike when they assume that we’re out bc we’re trying to be “seen” and trying to be activists … most of us are just trying to live the same lives everyone else gets to live … I feel like, if you clock me you should keep it to yourself
Doña Chiquitita (@dona-dvet.bsky.social) reply parent
Puuuuurrrrrrr
Doña Chiquitita (@dona-dvet.bsky.social) reply parent
Eh, hmm … your 🐈 is showing 😂
Doña Chiquitita (@dona-dvet.bsky.social) reply parent
Maybe part flame-point Siamese and perhaps some Russian blue, etc
Doña Chiquitita (@dona-dvet.bsky.social) reply parent
I hate it when they do stuff like that … I know they mean that they are trying to be supportive but they always get it wrong! 😢😱
Doña Chiquitita (@dona-dvet.bsky.social) reply parent
I love those UK English phrases and words!! Excellent
Doña Chiquitita (@dona-dvet.bsky.social)
I can’t believe I had to tell grok that I’m a woman when my profile there literally says “Hija” (Spanish for daughter) Fcking n*zi Elon.
Doña Chiquitita (@dona-dvet.bsky.social) reply parent
I think I said something similar when I was small...like, Why TF would I have to choose only one color? That's not fair...
Jamie Carter (@jctheresistance.demcast.com) reposted
WATCH as this combat veteran lays it ALL out! "We did not spend time away from family to separate others from theirs." This man is a TRUE patriot!
Jon Cooper (@joncooper-us.bsky.social) reposted
Excellent question.
Doña Chiquitita (@dona-dvet.bsky.social)
My coworker's child says her favorite color is "Rainbow"
AKA NoBlueCheckPam✌️🫘 (@justpam.bsky.social) reposted reply parent
Or...
Doña Chiquitita (@dona-dvet.bsky.social) reply parent
Bad actors, (we all know who), WILL use these types of articles against us when they contain bad information...PLEASE be MORE careful!!!
Doña Chiquitita (@dona-dvet.bsky.social)
LGBTQNation, I love that you feature drag queens talking about #Intersex conditions, but PLEASE do NOT represent them as experts on #intersex conditions... A LOT of things you said in your article were of questionable veracity and you left OUT a great deal of VERY important information.
Doña Chiquitita (@dona-dvet.bsky.social)
3 more days
Doña Chiquitita (@dona-dvet.bsky.social) reply parent
🥰🥰😘
Doña Chiquitita (@dona-dvet.bsky.social)
I don’t know how much time is left for any of us The evil hordes are storming the castle Come dream of lovelier places and beautiful times Let me love you if only for a while We will soar with eagles And dine with princesses I will love you with all my soul
Doña Chiquitita (@dona-dvet.bsky.social)
I love the intimacy you share with me
Doña Chiquitita (@dona-dvet.bsky.social)
I don’t know what the future may hold for us but I want to try to find out Will you walk this path with me?
Doña Chiquitita (@dona-dvet.bsky.social)
Meet me in our dreams … the world there is whatever we want to make it
Doña Chiquitita (@dona-dvet.bsky.social)
You bring me such wonderful joy Thank you
Doña Chiquitita (@dona-dvet.bsky.social)
Good night
Doña Chiquitita (@dona-dvet.bsky.social)
If you refer to a bumblebee as your bumble friend ima get really confused … iykyk 😂🤣
Doña Chiquitita (@dona-dvet.bsky.social)
4 more days … please hold me
Doña Chiquitita (@dona-dvet.bsky.social)
A friend’s 5 yr old saw me walk into the room and said “she’s a very pretty lady …” I told her she’s my new best friend 😁😁😁
Doña Chiquitita (@dona-dvet.bsky.social)
I’m getting # 69 😂🤣 Of course
Doña Chiquitita (@dona-dvet.bsky.social)
Okay…wtf…i can’t find my shoes! I swear I didn’t leave them at somebody else’s house … I think … 😂
Doña Chiquitita (@dona-dvet.bsky.social) reply parent
🥰
Doña Chiquitita (@dona-dvet.bsky.social)
Joey is NOT a government official...he's nothing ... stop reposting his shit!
Doña Chiquitita (@dona-dvet.bsky.social)
My exact age should never matter to anyone! If I am an adult, then I am an adult, period If you think that where on the spectrum of "adulthood", by age, I currently find myself is important, then you are an ageist fuck and worthless as a human being AND you'll miss out big time...
Doña Chiquitita (@dona-dvet.bsky.social)
She's not on here, you don't know her, or about her ... I'm not telling either ... She's local and we are very much like this when we see each other and it is absolutely incredible and so joyful; its amazing... Intimacy takes many forms...don't narrow your definitions ...
Doña Chiquitita (@dona-dvet.bsky.social)
In the darkest hours of the night We lie together, ever tied by our souls Reach for me and you will feel my body I am here next to you on this journey The path is narrow and winding Cliffs, monsters, sorcerers, and trolls We are in danger and frightened Reach for me, I am here with you
Doña Chiquitita (@dona-dvet.bsky.social)
I feel it as much or more than many of you given my traumas … we may be “gone” soon I’m choosing to focus on spending time with people with whom I feel joy I’m actively seeking intimate partners (all types of intimacy not just sex) with whom I can create joy They can’t take that for now!
Doña Chiquitita (@dona-dvet.bsky.social)
Good night Dream of us cuddling and warm Safely tucked into each others’ embrace
Doña Chiquitita (@dona-dvet.bsky.social)
If you ask me a question about us and you see my eyes roll back … I’m not mocking you, I’m feeling the ecstasy of what you just proposed It’s a definite yes when you see that!
Doña Chiquitita (@dona-dvet.bsky.social)
I smell you It is me I taste you It is me Every part of you I feel I’m home We are two Together are one
Doña Chiquitita (@dona-dvet.bsky.social) reply parent
Pure white love Healing and warm I ask nothing I dissolve Into you
Doña Chiquitita (@dona-dvet.bsky.social)
My eyes close, but the darkness does not come The light of your love fills my empty places You fill me with your energy Your soul touching mine Trust my touch, it is pure I want to return your love Not bc it’s unwanted But bc you deserve mine Let me in to your hidden places I will give you me
Doña Chiquitita (@dona-dvet.bsky.social) reply parent
The universe knows … it brought us together for a reason … Hold me, my love and be my partner … I promise I’m not a threat to your long term love … he’s your need for many things and I’m your need for others … keep us both in your heart … it’s more than big enough for us both
Doña Chiquitita (@dona-dvet.bsky.social)
When we go out next time … what do you say we drive out to watch the stars together and lie in the grass or on the trails and hold hands and cuddle as we ponder the vastness of the universe above our heads, marveling in al the things that had to line up for us to be where we are together
Doña Chiquitita (@dona-dvet.bsky.social)
I lost an intimate partner a few years ago bc she wanted sex and our existing intimacies were sufficient for me … I suspect she also wanted, secretly, to be the only one … it hurt very much and I still miss her I hope you’re still doing okay! I miss your masc persona, it made me feel so safe
Doña Chiquitita (@dona-dvet.bsky.social) reply parent
When I get there I’m expecting you to answer the age old question: is the universe expanding or was Einstein actually correct in his published paper that was squashed by mainstream astrophysics? You’d better have an answer for me 😊😘
Doña Chiquitita (@dona-dvet.bsky.social) reply parent
I hope his dream was not precognitive of that timeframe … he may just be riding with me in spirit while I attempt to heal from past traumas on that women’s only retreat 😭😭😭 If so … God speed my dear partner, I will see you in the heavens we spent so many years talking about together
Doña Chiquitita (@dona-dvet.bsky.social) reply parent
He dreamed we were riding horses together 🥰 He grew up with horses back east and it was a major part of his childhood Unfortunately, his health upset is major and it could turn fatal easily … sometimes people dream of the day and time of their passing … and I’m going on a horse retreat soon
Doña Chiquitita (@dona-dvet.bsky.social)
Had lunch with a long time partner (intimate but not sexual) … he’s had some major health upsets and he’s frightened but more than that he thinks he deserved it bc he wasn’t perfect 😭😭😭 he’s a very sweet man and my heart aches for him bc of his suffering I told him I’m not leaving him behind!
Doña Chiquitita (@dona-dvet.bsky.social)
Why is this coming Tuesday night sooooooo far away? It’s only been one day and I’m suffering You said “I love you” several weeks ago and I need to tell you that I love you too bc I do 😍🥰😘 My goofy autism got in the way, hang on, love, I’m ready to tell you
Doña Chiquitita (@dona-dvet.bsky.social) reply parent
*he doesn’t
Doña Chiquitita (@dona-dvet.bsky.social)
Her giant even know how it is pronounced 😂
Doña Chiquitita (@dona-dvet.bsky.social)
Well fuck …
Doña Chiquitita (@dona-dvet.bsky.social)
The waiting is the hardest part 😊🥰
Doña Chiquitita (@dona-dvet.bsky.social) reply parent
EMDR
Doña Chiquitita (@dona-dvet.bsky.social)
I surround myself with multiple partners, other queer people, and allies i trust … every day i discover more people who support us and i believe the haters are a very very small group In the end i also have decided that i will live my life while i can with those i love doing what we love
Doña Chiquitita (@dona-dvet.bsky.social) reply parent
My favs: Sarper and Rob Sorry, not sorry, babes...
Doña Chiquitita (@dona-dvet.bsky.social)
OMG ... I'm so wet right now... 90 Day Bad Boys Video: www.instagram.com/reel/DKQDq5S...
Doña Chiquitita (@dona-dvet.bsky.social) reply parent
😂🤣 That would be hilarious! Loose orange jump suit, bruises on his face, bald head shining in the sun...but best of all...the "I've lost everything" look on his face and demeanor...like he's done to the rest of us...
Doña Chiquitita (@dona-dvet.bsky.social)
I just want to feel you next to me I melt into you whenever you are near Merging, melting, mixing, I feel you All of you, in my mind, in my soul I sigh, you reach for me You pause, I reach for you
Doña Chiquitita (@dona-dvet.bsky.social) reply parent
For those asking: How do you know? They screamed it out their pickup window as they attempted to ram our little car and shove it off into the ditch in literally the middle of nowhere...my mom screaming and telling me to kill them... Welcome to rural Colorado of the 1970s
Doña Chiquitita (@dona-dvet.bsky.social)
Juicy tidbit about me: At the age of 8 yrs old, I had to pull a snub-nose .357 magnum pistol on two men hell bent on running my mom and us off the road in a very secluded and rural place. They intended on raping and killing all of us... I remind you...I was EIGHT FUCKING YEARS OLD!