JabberKate (@jabberkate.bsky.social) reply parent
Good. You've got this!
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Good. You've got this!
JabberKate (@jabberkate.bsky.social) reply parent
There is such value in resting (and napping) to make you ready for the work ahead.
JabberKate (@jabberkate.bsky.social)
Not one of my family has asked me how I am or how my day was despite me asking them. Peeved, somewhat!
JabberKate (@jabberkate.bsky.social) reply parent
JabberKate (@jabberkate.bsky.social) reply parent
A dog as a TA. I bet that was the best TA.
JabberKate (@jabberkate.bsky.social)
Blown away by watching the Irish Baroque Chorus and Orchestra perform Handel's Alexander's Feast tonight. We are so lucky to have amazing musicians! The conductor, Peter Whelan, was fabulous.
JabberKate (@jabberkate.bsky.social) reply parent
I'm very much in my 'kids are old enough to look after themselves' and 'perimenopause' era that I'm working on doing more for me.
JabberKate (@jabberkate.bsky.social)
Went to the National Portrait Gallery today and there was so much resting pitch face. Don't feel so bad about my pictures now.
JabberKate (@jabberkate.bsky.social) reply parent
I had been looking for a social group, and I think I looked at the same ones as you. I found that digital learning session an odd one. I'm looking for a group for queer people under who aren't much up for a tonne of drinking /clubbing.
JabberKate (@jabberkate.bsky.social) reply parent
Oh, it'd be fun to make up some code, but I CBA.
JabberKate (@jabberkate.bsky.social) reply parent
It's a fun conspiracy theory, at least. Pepperoni has to be the most popular, right?
JabberKate (@jabberkate.bsky.social) reply parent
Loving that thought right now. Trying to explain to someone that a 4 out of 10 pain scale is a standard for me, and them just not getting it.
JabberKate (@jabberkate.bsky.social) reply parent
What's the pizza index?
JabberKate (@jabberkate.bsky.social)
I wish I'd gone to Manchester Pride, but the sheer volume of people just seems too overwhelming. Perhaps I might try next year.
JabberKate (@jabberkate.bsky.social) reply parent
Boo!
JabberKate (@jabberkate.bsky.social)
#CofEpeeps Can anyone recommend a liberal Anglican church to visit near South Kensington (London) this weekend?
JabberKate (@jabberkate.bsky.social) reply parent
Start shouting 'offside' whenever you fancy.
JabberKate (@jabberkate.bsky.social) reply parent
It reminded me of a t-shirt I used to have that said 'Dip me in honey and throw me to the lesbians.'
JabberKate (@jabberkate.bsky.social) reply parent
I've not read anything else from you today to know what this relates to, but yes.
JabberKate (@jabberkate.bsky.social)
Sod that, since when was remembering victims political. Oh yes, when it was in a gay night club. FFS.
JabberKate (@jabberkate.bsky.social) reply parent
And eldest child smashed it. They got amazing result and are off to college!
JabberKate (@jabberkate.bsky.social)
Oh my. GCSE results day!
JabberKate (@jabberkate.bsky.social) reply parent
You get a prize of half an hour to yourself before someone else needs something.
JabberKate (@jabberkate.bsky.social)
I'm feeling discombobulated tonight.
JabberKate (@jabberkate.bsky.social) reply parent
Praying for you x
JabberKate (@jabberkate.bsky.social) reply parent
I needed to be told that again. A member of our reasonably liberal church is spouting hate and misery. And I have to work out how to disengage from them.
JabberKate (@jabberkate.bsky.social)
Urgh, tired and stressed for no reason at all. Pfft.
JabberKate (@jabberkate.bsky.social)
Sure, Jan.
JabberKate (@jabberkate.bsky.social) reply parent
Congratulations! How wonderful!
JabberKate (@jabberkate.bsky.social)
The uniform gods have smiled on me and we have enough left from big child to clothe small child next school year - barring a pack of shirts!
JabberKate (@jabberkate.bsky.social)
Get in England! Keep winning titles and keep making sad sexist gits see how many people feel the joy in this teams success!!
JabberKate (@jabberkate.bsky.social)
Im celebrating completing a 21-mile swim over June/July to raise funds for #MacmillanCancerSupport. I've had a flare-up of my #Crohns and just had a tantalisingly short 800m to swim today to complete it. I was starting to worry that I'd not manage it, but hah! Stuff that chronic illness!
JabberKate (@jabberkate.bsky.social)
I came out to my youngest child (13) as bisexual today, as part of a conversation about why we don't use 'gay boy' etc as insults. His reaction was a simple shrug. Good lad.
JabberKate (@jabberkate.bsky.social)
Watching cricket at my local club, and heard some men talking about showing the Women's Euro final tomorrow. "I watched some of the last game, and it was almost good." "The song should be Three Irons on my Shirt" #EverydaySexism
JabberKate (@jabberkate.bsky.social) reply parent
Same. Different reasons.
JabberKate (@jabberkate.bsky.social) reply parent
Oh, the working twice as hard to prepare for your leave and then working additional hours to make up when your back is frustrating.
JabberKate (@jabberkate.bsky.social)
I had to take Monday off due to being in too much pain, but I did work today. In PJs and close to the loo, but I did manage it.
JabberKate (@jabberkate.bsky.social)
I managed a fantastic holiday away, but my bowels realised I'd had a too-good time and now I'm struggling. Bloody chronic illness. At least I've lost the holidays weight (yes, it's a dark joke!) #crohnsdisease #crohnicillness
JabberKate (@jabberkate.bsky.social) reply parent
Oh my God, yes! Going to hospital, for me, is no longer a biggie.
JabberKate (@jabberkate.bsky.social)
This work -year is just getting crappier. Please stop.
JabberKate (@jabberkate.bsky.social) reply parent
I've realised that whilst the eldest child no longer needs school uniform, he does need a suitable amount of clothes suitable to be seen out and about it for college. My bank balance!
JabberKate (@jabberkate.bsky.social) reply parent
Hopefully, the ruling coming in about schools limiting the badged uniform items might help you. Prices are obscene for some things.
JabberKate (@jabberkate.bsky.social) reply parent
We leave school shoes until a week before, but the trousers and shirts are a standard size up for us, thankfully. Combined with the handle downs from the elder child, who has now left high school, it's not too difficult. Such a good plan to get ahead of the game.
JabberKate (@jabberkate.bsky.social) reply parent
This is always the way!
JabberKate (@jabberkate.bsky.social) reply parent
I put my out of office on yesterday and it felt so freeing. Enjoy your break!
JabberKate (@jabberkate.bsky.social)
3 weeks left to go in my Macmillan 21 mile swim, and I have managed 15 ish miles so far. I'm loving swimming, but I am *so* tired with everything life is throwing at me right now!
JabberKate (@jabberkate.bsky.social)
#TinyJoys Finding a new non-alcoholic cider that I love. Spending time with people I don't normally spend time with and not being socially awkward.
JabberKate (@jabberkate.bsky.social) reply parent
That post made me smile!
JabberKate (@jabberkate.bsky.social) reply parent
Do you think cats live by your rules?
David Bowman (@dlbowman76.com) reposted
"Congregation, we shall now sing hymn 432, 'Oh, God, It's Moving Right Toward You'."
JabberKate (@jabberkate.bsky.social) reply parent
Oh, that is beautiful!
JabberKate (@jabberkate.bsky.social) reply parent
Those colours are so fresh and cheering!
JabberKate (@jabberkate.bsky.social)
I have designated today as cake day in honour of my work colleague who died a year ago today. She'd never agree to go.on a hike with her hubby unless there was a pub lunch or a cake stop.
JabberKate (@jabberkate.bsky.social) reply parent
It looks idyllic. I hope you have a glorious day.
JabberKate (@jabberkate.bsky.social)
Today's grumbles have been blown away by practising Rathbone's Rejoice in Lord Alway and Stanford Psalm 150 #TinyJoys #CofEPeeps
JabberKate (@jabberkate.bsky.social)
A lovely colleague passed away this week. She helped make some massive positive steps in terms of EDI in our workplace. We are going to be so much poorer without her. RIP #CofEPeeps
JabberKate (@jabberkate.bsky.social)
Today can eff off. That's all.
JabberKate (@jabberkate.bsky.social) reply parent
That it is.
JabberKate (@jabberkate.bsky.social) reply parent
You're all in on this idea of arson then.
JabberKate (@jabberkate.bsky.social)
It's wild thinking I was watching our local little cricket team this afternoon whilst contemplating how would fare in a war.
JabberKate (@jabberkate.bsky.social) reply parent
There is a lot going on in the world at the moment, but that doesn't mean that your problems are insignificant.
JabberKate (@jabberkate.bsky.social) reply parent
Yes, I've just woken to this news and had exactly the same thought.
JabberKate (@jabberkate.bsky.social) reply parent
I love the phrase dickhead express way - works well. I used to cycle over there as a kid and it was busy then.
JabberKate (@jabberkate.bsky.social) reply parent
I cleaned the bathroom and then needed a shower. Urgh.
JabberKate (@jabberkate.bsky.social) reply parent
No, but I do need to go there for a few things, and meatballs. I love Werneth Low, it is a glorious place. I like going up to Windy Harbour, looking over towards Compstall and pretending it's all mine!
JabberKate (@jabberkate.bsky.social) reply parent
I think you can almost see my house from there. Ish.
JabberKate (@jabberkate.bsky.social)
I would like to celebrate #Caturday, but this little sod brought a live mouse in at 3.30am and had us all dancing round to rescue the poor soul whilst the cat tried to play with it.
JabberKate (@jabberkate.bsky.social) reply parent
Please let it be Dr Who in the Tardis coming to fix all of this.
God (@thegodpodcast.com) reposted
Thou shalt not force good horses to trample peaceful protesters and pretend thou art the good guys.
Rob Ford (@robfordmancs.bsky.social) reposted
This is excellent from @anandMenon1 on the latest vile nonsense from Matthew Goodwin, a man whose descent in the gutter grows ever more nauseating t.co/31mdzmfwYs
Jolyon Maugham KC (@goodlawproject.org) reposted
Am pleased to say we have now issued in the High Court our claim against the EHRC. Its position on toilets is, we believe quite clearly, unlawful. goodlaw.social/20ku
JabberKate (@jabberkate.bsky.social) reply parent
Ooh, good point.
JabberKate (@jabberkate.bsky.social) reply parent
There are lots of places that do pdf patterns, but I don't have easy access to print. Might be some sales coming up though ...
JabberKate (@jabberkate.bsky.social) reply parent
Oh no!
JabberKate (@jabberkate.bsky.social) reply parent
I did put in comments/complaints form 3 weeks ago, but got no response, so I'll have to email to ask what's going on.
JabberKate (@jabberkate.bsky.social) reply parent
The health suite is also out of action, so no access to the showers there.
JabberKate (@jabberkate.bsky.social) reply parent
Only 1 of the 4 ladies' loos downstairs is in full working condition. Of the 7 non cubicle showers, only 4 work.
JabberKate (@jabberkate.bsky.social)
Oh lord, facilities at the swimming pool are getting worse. Of the 2 (of 3) shower cubicles that still have doors, only one is working. Urgh.
JabberKate (@jabberkate.bsky.social)
Has it finished, I need to go to bed?
JabberKate (@jabberkate.bsky.social) reply parent
Here, a cheery cartoon image of a virus that has ruined lives....
JabberKate (@jabberkate.bsky.social)
I hate to say it, but I've got the popcorn out for the M*sk meltdown.
JabberKate (@jabberkate.bsky.social)
Right time for feet up, Chicago PD on, and a spot of meal planning!
JabberKate (@jabberkate.bsky.social) reply parent
I will raise that as an AOB on 'the agenda'
Bethany Black (@bethanyblack.bsky.social) reposted
Chevy is short for Chevenshulme
JabberKate (@jabberkate.bsky.social)
@thatssovillage.bsky.social T20 at Lancs tonight, and the 30m circle was um, probably at 25. Had to fix rapidly.
Punish the Villains (@internethippo.bsky.social) reposted
Me (crying): Please...I just need to message my coworkers Microsoft Teams Developers: No you don't. You want a Bunch of Bullshit that also changes week-to-week for some reason
Noodles (@noodlesnood.bsky.social) reposted
I am once again tapping the meme.
JabberKate (@jabberkate.bsky.social) reply parent
A family friend (teenager) died in a car crash close to there, but it had to be long before those signs went up. *doubts memories*
JabberKate (@jabberkate.bsky.social) reply parent
I'm with you.
Emma Mitchell (@silverpebble2.bsky.social) reposted
I'm holding a flash sale this w/e-you can bag 15% off my June botanical or bird illustration & mental health w'shops w. the code LEAFYFLASH15. Learn how creative activity & contact with nature gives us resilience to stress & trauma Plus learn how to draw twigs or wrens βοΈπΏπͺΆ workshops.emmamitchell.uk
JabberKate (@jabberkate.bsky.social) reply parent
Good church service today, including seeing our incoming vicar. Then saw a friend for coffee and now sport on TV.
JabberKate (@jabberkate.bsky.social)
And now with the hot flushes
JabberKate (@jabberkate.bsky.social) reply parent
No, we were down for a meeting to discuss implementation after management of change. It was more positive than I anticipated.
JabberKate (@jabberkate.bsky.social)
On the train to that there London and I've just gone past a house that says "Prepare to meet thy God" Whilst I am a Christian, it doesn't feel the most welcoming....
JabberKate (@jabberkate.bsky.social) reply parent
Similar, but worried about catching the early train to the London office. I hope you have a good day.
JabberKate (@jabberkate.bsky.social)
Perimenopause shizzle can do one. Over this now.
JabberKate (@jabberkate.bsky.social)
I'm deeply frustrated today at the swimming pool. 50% of the women's loos not working. The accessible loo door handle is loose, and 1 of the 2 showers with doors has dangerous loose tiles. All reported, which helps, but much of this has been this way for weeks on end.
JabberKate (@jabberkate.bsky.social) reply parent
Oh no! Now what have you done. *goes away repeating just 3 words*
JabberKate (@jabberkate.bsky.social)
Whoop - I get to keep my job!
JabberKate (@jabberkate.bsky.social) reply parent
Reform are an absolute piece of work.