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💖YOU ARE WORTH SAVING suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem ENOUGH! STOP #gazagenocide 👏🏿🤎👏🏿BLM & 🌈LGBTQIA+ Ally 🥚#adopteevoices #antiadoption #proabortion #clinicescort 💔Release OUR unredacted unaltered orig birth certificates
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❤️🔥You have every right to your fury, Babara. Wishing you abd your daughter the besy.
Let me hold your hand while I tell you this, but they don't give AF about women.
I’ve had a radical hysterectomy,partial vaginal walls and all lymphs removed.The recovery has been excruciating and the attendant permanent effects are totally depressing.I’m still alive though.I’m SO glad my daughter has had the vaccine and I wish to god it was available when I was her age. I’m
💚Glad you are here Ann! #fuckcancer
🥚Hey boomers born in the 1950s-60s, are you a Hicks baby? You sure? DNA testing continues to expose the deceptions, fraud, and secrets of US adoption practices, including a Georgia OB who delivered 200 babies, sold them to adopters, and told their mothers they died. www.tiktok.com/t/ZP8BnKYN5/
Do I talk too much about alt text? Probably. Do I butt into too many conversations about alt text? Almost certainly. Anyway. Here’s a thing I wrote about the alt text bot. bsky.eustace.link/hi-bluesky-c...
Correction 13th amendment Thanks to @discchoco.bsky.social I mean really? I saw the film.
13th, but yes
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stealing this one. ;)
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💛grateful for you, Chantal, for for your voice, writing RFK is so extreme in his beliefs yet there are some medicinal plants proven to be healing, nutritious w HC provider we can supplement - not replace - psych meds #MentalHealthIs..Xedout/theelephantineveryroom/..Health
Thank you for honesty in saying this. Would you be willing to tell me more about your views about this?" Thanks!
THIS whole #thread complaining about abusive bullies does Nothing never has never will
It’s because they believe that this shit isn’t wrong just targeted incorrectly. They don’t want to dismantle power they want to be the one to pull the trigger
someone way smarter than me told me why police even ever existed only 1 reason dating back to kings queens castles protect rich people & what/who they own
"why worry about little issues like immigrants laws against trans neonazis Roe? you've lost big picture! gotta forget all those side issues only thing need worry about now is who we should run against him next time" if really answer? "OMG you're not dem you're a radical!" YES! Why aren't YOU?
love how you say this ppl working asses off daily for basic human rights screaming 4decades. wtf can we say 2eejits who who despise him but sigh npr tsk tsk don't worry he won't be pres 4ever morons who *support equality in every thing for all incl abortion lgbtqia+ STILL fucking telling me
🌱this morning in my garden☺️ view from kitchen had to go see hooray the marigolds are blooming
It seems obvious to me the only reason countries have wars & continue those wars as long as possible, deceiving ppl about the true reason why, is because wars make rich people richer
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I'm an Aries & the chart says 24 hrs at most. I will eat 3 square meals a day of broken glass, before I would ever forgive the relative who raped me as a child.
overturn #Roe bc #state'srights? respect other state's decisions? 😂 anyone here buy that? rw extremists will NEVER stop til #abortion's made illegal in all of US - then Earth GOAL: relig control of sexuality & procreation; all genitals locked in iron; need permission from govt 2access key
no haven't seen it yet am confident will def see some day have you reached out to Actors Theatre in Louisville? they are usually the theatre in our region which brings the best in new theatre
love you!
Thank you, @lisajane.bsky.social! #Adopteesky #Theatresky 🥚🧾🎭
We love it when our worlds collide through @thegoodadoptee.com. Thank you, @lisajane.bsky.social! #Adopteesky #Theatresky 🥚🧾🎭
🥚💜THIS! #adoptee "Am I commiting fraud? Or do I have a right to use my own birth name?" "Can you imagine not knowing your own identity?" #THEGOODADOPTEE starring Anna Bridgforth, dramaturged by Bob Brader.
🥚"Today, I'm doing for myself what my adoptive parents didn't do for me. I'm allowing myself to grieve my adoptee losses, whatever that looks like for me." ~~Pamela Karanova
For me as an #adoptee 🥚 this is another horrible way for greedy ppl to buy/sell humans for profit. Are they ignorant about or willfully ignoring a child's rights to know who they really are? A lifetime of never knowing is a cruel torture which isn't fixed w how rich the purchasers are.
1st let me hurl 🤢🤮 now for the wine
ugh hope she gets away from that slimy ballsack
Night visitors in my garden🌱
about the experience of meeting someone we never know yet are deeply connected to? when had amazing chance to meet visit my B mom & 2 of her sons, couldn't stop thinking omg my children were the only ppl was physically connected to before wow! this Mom actually looks like me in joy I wept
Thanks! Even though I'm old & on medicare, am determined to find a way to work again. That way my partner & I have a chance of surviving & not wind up living in a car. (Mine, bc us in better condition 🤭) Also really hope could save up too for that trip to meet my big fat Italian American family.
There's so much loss pain grief. What makes it harder is there's no room to talk about that. When there's a death or physical injury, everyone offers sympathy encouragement offers of support. But adoption trauma is not seen or acknowledged. No hallmark cards for moms/adoptees who lost each other.
#fuckthepatriarchy
🥚my B mom overjoyed when found her yrs later cut off all contact was hurt angry bc I didn't up & move across country w husband & children to live with her tried to explain he has job kids in school our families & life are here we can still talk write visit #birthmoms are also damaged by adoption
i am so sorry it took so long to meet your brother angry & sad the sister was so cold to you found mother in 80s + 3 bros one refused to meet me or believe Mom could ever give her baby away she had no choice! was crime to her Dad's priest bc unmarried/pregnant sent to cath church baby brokers
really wish hadn't given up just depressed thought guess I'll never know but wish had done dna ASAP to all #adoptees: please search for your family and birth story they are YOURS despite secrecy & lies do whatever it takes do your dna bc 💖you're worth it
😭sexual violence against ppl mostly women is an inconvenient truth #MargaretAtwood asked male friend, "Why do men feel threatened by women?" "They're afraid women will laugh at them." asked women students, "Why do women feel threatened by men?" "They're afraid of being killed."
"tranny" 😡😡😡
nope beautiful!
#rapeculture yrs of rape by adult cousin was teen mom didn't believe me told cops here tried to report to cops in that state who said can't do anything you told adult they should've reported it then cops said NO statute limitations on rape & murder! cath church chgd SOLs bc $ 4priest kiddy rapes
thank you Sonya for getting that so much grief loss after joy of finding him am on email since w 1st cousin who sent pics of fam trees & pics looked just like my A Dad dead: father, gparents, all 4 uncles/aunts have 3 sisters & brother (he died yr ago) out W; want me to visit but can't afford
A child rapist.
🥚birth search/reunion not always happy no guaranteed success even if find usually gets messy complicated confusing last week is 1 yr since my birth brother died this week is 3 decades since our dad (his bio, mine birth) died -- murdered I never met either one #fuckadoption
1963 photo of a young #CharlayneHunterGault as the 1st #Black journalist (intern) at Louisville Courier-Journal & Times newspaper in #LouisvilleKY. The start of her long, successful career as a journalist at NYT, PBS, NPR, CNN. She had been 1st #Blackwoman student at #UniversityofGeorgia.
subject comes up ppl get bored weird awkward: Uh huh. Really? We see: Do what? Are you still going on about that? blank stare. Rarely: Yeah! I so get that. Adoption messed up my mom's whole life bc she had to relinquish her baby: She never got over it. Or: I saw my adopted sibs what went thru.
🥚 Did you know people buy & sell babies/children through #adoption most adopted people can't even get or see their own original birth certificate #thread #birthmother #adoptee
🥚💔😭😡 thank you for every single one of your words in this #thread kinda sorta opening OBCs one state at a time? nowhere near what #birthmothers & #adoptees are owed #adoptiontrauma
🥚per reviews, likely financed by adoption Big Biz mid 80s I was married w babies, began birth search yrs later found B mom 3 bros: happy reunion; she's cut off contact '21 found B dad (dna) was dead murdered in '92 Most #adoptees have no civil rights to OUR OWN identity #releasetherecords
🥚💔😭In my view Big Biz #adoption does all those things. MAKE ILLEGAL •plenary adoption (buy/sell a child) •open records - cannot change hide destroy child's birth records •identity - cannot destroy hide truth of child's origins esp parents family culture heritage ancestry •NO "Takesies-backsies"
🥚"Today, I'm doing for myself what my adoptive parents didn't do for me. I'm allowing myself to grieve my adoptee losses, whatever that looks like for me." ~~Pamela Karanova Listen to #adopteevoices
🥚Yes 🥹 thank you Kayela! 💔Creating new fake family by shredding their real family is CRUEL to mothers & children, gives the #adoptee an IMPOSSIBLE job BE anything your new parents need SOLVE infertility issues HEAL personal, marital issues REPLACE dead child BE eternally grateful 4ever
Josh Martin, Isaiah Martin’s brother tells us how his brother was arrested for standing up for The People against gerrymandering in Texas! We don’t know when Isaiah will be released. We stand with Isaiah Martin and DEMAND his RELEASE!! Don’t let Democracy die in broad daylight!!
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😥yes had forgotten that children their lives destroyed by soul murderers 😭🤬
It is normal to need to know ?who was I before I was adopted? ?who were my parents? ?where was I born? ?what is my family heritage & story? ?what is my family medical history? Who we really were then helps us to navigate who we really are now. 🥚#transnationaladoptee #adoption #adoptee
#listentoadoptees ESPECIALLY #transnational people who were adopted
Thank you @teenvogue.com for amplifying #adopteevoices 🥚
is even worse that the "fan" is a she . . . 😯😭😡
They coming for YOUR family. Don't come for theirs.
well all right then ;)
#childsexabuse #epstein #trump #maxwell and how many others raped little girls in that #sextrafficking criminals ring?
my brother died one year ago today and we never met because adoption destroys one family to create an artificial family using fake info for money
He's going to immediately be flooded with right wing donations and job offers. Good job on finding this Nazi jamoke a solid entryway into the rightwing grift. What is the point of doing theses debates? I find them insufferable. Stop platforming Nazis. Stop publishing on apps that platform Nazis.
😡 Ultrarich people move w privilege wealth power to take control of Somewhere, strip resources, maximize profit Dont give one flying fuck about destroying average people's lives. It's ALL about the 💰 All fine with them. #racism #whitesupremacist #racist #genocide #ethniccleansing
rip off the bandaid!!! #black #writers
So yesterday he posts an AI of Obama getting arrested and today it's MLKs FBI files. If there's one thing Trump understands, it's that his white supremacist base will ignore the pedophilia if they can focus on doing bad things to black people instead
Enjoy! #funny #comedy #davegorman #lifeisgoodish youtu.be/vunESk53r5U?...
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It is okay to not watch atrocities in real time it is okay to not watch trucks plowing into people or look at images of babies under the rubble it doesn't mean you don't care, it means you are protecting your mental health be kind to yourself, we need you for the revolution
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if my arm is badly burned? then that arm is hypersensitive to pain same w the rest of our human life, on every level
Thanks! glad we agree on that. Please, continue 2be what some call "sensitive." For me (though may not be same 4you), when ppl say I'm *too sensitive emotional thin-skinned overreactive assuming I've any choice at all about a fact Due To Trauma am phys/psych/emotonally hypersensitive
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🥚“the loss for the #adoptee is unlike other losses we have come to expect in a lifetime, such as #death and #divorce. #Adoption is more pervasive, less socially recognized, and more profound.” ~~Brodzinsky and Schechter, “Being Adopted: The Lifelong Search For Self.”
Please accept my apology. What I meant & failed to say is how DARE they label you or anyone a "bad mom?" Same cruel child-bartering system throws infants/children into foster system grinder then comes back to blame them as adults -- for not being "good enough" parents? No. Just No.
#transnationaladoptees
the large majority of children are removed due to neglect, which is often poverty and imagine what will happen as social safety nets fail - people will be homeless and unable to get any services for their babies, and the state will have to rescue the children and give them to better families
and we have a sickening abundance of #chldabandonment boxes marketed as #safehaven #baby boxes the children harvested for adoption will never know who or where they came from dna might help some but it 100% a cruel violation of the child's human right to know who they really are
infuriating yet we were all shoved down forced to submit suck it up and ironically also required to prove say 4ever we are eternally grateful well I am not eternally grateful today I am giving myself the gentle loving care plus whatever I needed then but did not receive from the ppl who raised me
adoption is legalized #child #trafficking where they literally buy & sell human beings #fuckadoption replace it with legal guardianship NO MORE *fake birth certificates *sealed original family records *destruction of mother-child bond *preying on preg ppl who are going through temp difficulties
People who do not have good parenting skills or healthy living skills are not able to give those things to children you can't give what you never got
thread on #fostercare #children #grief #trauma
Richard Barth, a big-effin'-deal social work guy, claimed the majority of foster kids agreed that they were "lucky" to have been placed into foster care I asked about the instrument used to make that conclusion and he blocked me.
of COURSE he blocked you he just couldn't handle being challenged about his lifelong assumptions delusions ppl who were foster kids have told me they said all the right things to social svcs ppl bc were too afraid of things becoming even worse if they spoke about the nightmare they lived in
😭🤬either way I hear you Doelle as a *civilized nation? gotta stop destroying children's original families, saying we love children if you don't protect me? that's not love don't say you love me if you don't protect me foster care & adoption are trauma & destroy children deeply inside forever