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@macwench.bsky.social

Err on the side of kindness. Love more. When life gets bad, try to remember all the good little things. Anything at all. You got this... even when you don't think you do.

created September 8, 2023

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Profile picture Macwench (@macwench.bsky.social) reply parent

I confess. And to make it even worse, I add butter in addition to the peanut butter and jelly. I fear I am irredeemable after doing this for nearly six decades.

1/9/2025, 10:51:17 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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There are two things that are important to me to try to grow. One of them is strawberries. Such fond memories of being outside with Grandpa and him letting me sneak a strawberry off the plant. I made my bed just like he did and I'm so excited to see all the babies starting. I hope he would be proud

Strawberry plants in raised bed with concrete blocks around Edge and mulch under plants. Show several new plants starting
31/8/2025, 1:17:04 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Macwench (@macwench.bsky.social) reply parent

My mom told me a long time ago to never make fun of people who mispronounce words but use them correctly. It usually meant they were a reader and not someone who picked up the word in conversation. And they were usually a lot smarter than the person making fun or feeling the need to correct them

31/8/2025, 2:17:51 AM | 103 3 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Macwench (@macwench.bsky.social) reply parent

Fixed

Hakeem Jeffries statement with but I won't do anything to fix it overlaid on it Chuck Schumer's statement with we change to I must do more to stop gun violence in America
27/8/2025, 4:00:27 PM | 1 1 | View on Bluesky | view

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Love my gladiolus with it's pretty pink flowers. #FlowerPower

Gladiolus with multi color flower. Dark pink center with white around it and light pink on the frilly edges.
27/8/2025, 3:40:54 PM | 2 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Macwench (@macwench.bsky.social) reply parent

Yes. Yes, it does. What a beautiful girl she is.

27/8/2025, 3:34:41 PM | 2 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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More sticks come back to life. I thought they weren't going to actually grow, but apparently I was not patient enough. These are some broken branches off a dying plant. I literally had the pot sitting there so I could plant something else in it. #LifeOnThePorch

Potted green plants.
24/8/2025, 5:02:02 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Pineapples are going crazy! The one in the right is about 15 years old and the one in the left is only about 5. We need to figure out where to move them so they'll quit stabbing me when I try to weed. #LifeInTheGarden

Two large pineapple plants in containers. Small decorative pineapples in containers around them
19/8/2025, 7:47:33 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Marketing tagline: "If you think Godzilla is baddass, you should meet the Mrs..."

18/8/2025, 7:13:37 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Macwench (@macwench.bsky.social) reply parent

IYKYK

15/8/2025, 2:46:01 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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But in all honesty, if there was ever a time that called for public cussing I do believe this is it.

14/8/2025, 11:41:52 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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I never imagined there were so many people who had no shame in our country. When we get to the other side of this, every one of those norms needs to become enshrined in law. Immediately. Before it's too late.

14/8/2025, 5:44:17 PM | 4 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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My granddaughter decided she wanted to wear my son-in-law's snake as a necklace. Not exactly my idea of high fashion but to each their own. I don't usually let him bring the snake over to the house because my daughter-in-law is terrified, but it's a family pet and he's good with the kids.

Elementary School age girl in pink dress with a pet snake draped around her neck.
13/8/2025, 6:55:44 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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The first radishes. I think the others are going to be even bigger! #LifeOnThePorch

Photo of radishes and onions pulled from the garden
11/8/2025, 2:38:48 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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So I tried growing some corn for us people and it didn't work out so well. Turns out growing corn in Florida ain't so easy. But this is some Seed corn for the hens so we'll see how it goes. #LifeOnThePorch

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8/8/2025, 1:58:39 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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U-Haul used to have a provision in their agreement that you could not transport people in their trucks. I wonder if Penske has the same thing in theirs? And if they know what they're being used for?

6/8/2025, 3:46:26 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Just hanging out on a lazy Sunday morning #LifeOnThePorch

Gecko on pineapple plant, peaking over the edge of a curved leaf
3/8/2025, 2:21:40 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Love that new life can come from a couple of sticks I pulled off a dying plumeria. Took about 2 years, but they suddenly started blooming this year. This is the first time I've seen leaves on them. #LifeOnThePorch

2 plumeria plants with new leaves in a single pot.
2/8/2025, 3:16:38 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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I Smelled What You Expelled Last Night #mildhorror

31/7/2025, 6:21:25 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Macwench (@macwench.bsky.social) reply parent

I feel your pain and I'm sending some money in my son's name. He was the victim of a sword heist in Tennessee years ago but they did not leave him a sword to avenge his honor.

31/7/2025, 3:46:30 PM | 3 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Had a full breakdown this morning. I miss my beloved Bigdawg so much. You would think 10 years would dull the pain, but some days no, doesn't even come close. And then I come outside and the giant gladiolus that I planted in his honor have their first bloom. Seize the little joys ❀️ #LifeOnThePorch

Blooming gladiola with pink flowers starting to appear
29/7/2025, 12:29:46 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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It's hard to balance the continual outrage about what's happening not only here but in the world and the need to maintain some kind of personal sanity. My gardens and my porch help with that, but it's only a momentary distraction. Life is hard for so many right now. πŸ’”

29/7/2025, 11:19:19 AM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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"When they finally come for you don't be surprised."

26/7/2025, 3:27:22 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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I have achieved sunflowers. These are supposed to get about 6 ft tall. Once the other flowers in my little butterflies/bee garden start coming in, I'll throw more seeds in the empty areas. So excited! #LifeOnThePorch

Small rectangular butterfly garden with plants starting to come up. Three sunflowers have blossoms on them
26/7/2025, 1:13:34 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Macwench (@macwench.bsky.social) reply parent

Me too...

26/7/2025, 10:56:20 AM | 2 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Macwench (@macwench.bsky.social) reply parent

I have a small butterfly and bee garden started and I'm letting any flowering "weeds" to grow up along with them.

25/7/2025, 10:04:11 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Macwench (@macwench.bsky.social)

In the days of my youth (and well beyond), Black Sabbath Paranoid played daily on my turntable. No More Tears is in my to 5 favorite songs. He performed just 2 weeks ago. A Rock Legend. Rock On, Ozzy 🀟 www.theguardian.com/music/2025/j...

22/7/2025, 6:38:03 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Even a broke clock is right twice a day.

22/7/2025, 3:12:10 PM | 8 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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I generally buy 5 or 10 lb rolls and break it down. We have definitely cut back on our meat consumption. Have a garden going and chickens to help offset food costs, but I don't have a very large lot, so even that is limited. Thank goodness I had chickens before the eggs went crazy

21/7/2025, 5:54:42 PM | 2 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Macwench (@macwench.bsky.social) reply parent

Can we talk about hamburger? Used to be able to buy it for around $3.49 or so and now I'm lucky if I can find any that's not almost $5. And that's buying the rolls and not the good hamburger. Also here in Florida

21/7/2025, 1:49:40 PM | 12 1 | View on Bluesky | view

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Spending more time in the yard now that the porch is pretty well taken care of. Can't do much between about 11:00 and 4:00 because of the heat index. Worth it to get up early tho may even end up with bananas this year! Makes my heart happy just to sit out here listening to the birds #LifeOnThePorch

Picture of container garden with corn in concrete bricks, apple tree and peach tree in containers, grapes growing along fence, three banana trees with laundry basket that has garlic in it and one that has spring onions in it
21/7/2025, 1:19:38 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Macwench (@macwench.bsky.social) reply parent

Well deserved.

18/7/2025, 2:08:10 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Macwench (@macwench.bsky.social)

My dad's been gone for a few years now. And I I'm just now finding out that his book is available at Barnes & Noble. Not sure why but that made my heart very happy. My dad would have been so proud.

Cover of Grandad and the kid by H William Lewis. Available at Barnes & Noble
17/7/2025, 10:22:18 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Macwench (@macwench.bsky.social) reply parent

You can't pull yourself up by your bootstraps if you don't even have any boots. And that's where a lot of people are right now. We are a wealthy enough nation there shouldn't even be a question of taking care of those that need it. But here we are.

17/7/2025, 9:27:32 PM | 3 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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It's obvious Trump didn't write this and they are in full out damage control mode. The punctuation is correct and there's no capitalization. Dead giveaway

12/7/2025, 10:50:38 PM | 2 1 | View on Bluesky | view

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I think it is wonderful that you sign things for free in a time where everybody's out to make an easy buck. Really speaks to how much you care about the people who look up to you.

12/7/2025, 3:37:12 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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12/7/2025, 10:28:39 AM | 345 108 | View on Bluesky | view

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From the 4th. Was watching the grandkids do their sparklers and in the middle of all the bangs and pops I looked over and noticed the neighbor's tree. For whatever reason it struck me and I wanted to share. #LifeOnThePorch

Tall street light glowing in the middle of a large, leafy tree, shining brightly in the middle and fading to darkness outside the glow.
6/7/2025, 1:01:48 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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β€œI wish it need not have happened in my time," said Frodo. "So do I," said Gandalf, "and so do all who live to see such times. But that is not for them to decide. All we have to decide is what to do with the time that is given us.”

3/7/2025, 8:41:57 PM | 165 45 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Macwench (@macwench.bsky.social) reply parent

Very dark times. I keep thinking I should be writing more of this down for my grandchildren and great-grandchildren who will never know the before. If this keeps going on it will be the only place they will ever read about it.

3/7/2025, 2:51:17 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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I just ate a banana chocolate Bomb Pop. Does that count?

3/7/2025, 2:41:24 AM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Rev. Benjamin Cremer (@brcremer.bsky.social) reposted

β€œWhoever oppresses the poor shows contempt for their Maker, but whoever is kind to the needy honors God.” -Proverbs 14:31

1/7/2025, 7:02:40 PM | 337 78 | View on Bluesky | view

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While not technically on the porch, I will concede defeat to the mother of many plants in front. I have now given them their own area and I will just let them have their space. I pull the babies out of the front foliage everywhere else. #LifeOnThePorch

Picture of three mother of many plants. Far left in white stand, Center and rusted stand and left side and hanging stand. Shows Mulch on the ground with baby mother of many plants growing under
28/6/2025, 2:55:58 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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My granddaughters brought me this palm from their uncle's house. It had been laying on is side trying to grow.

27/6/2025, 1:51:45 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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There's times the sun doesn't shine where you need it to. Like this palm, we have to reach out and find the sun where we can. I hope you find your sun and are given every opportunity to thrive. Struggles can leave a mark on us. But they aren't scars, they are the tattoos of life #LifeOnThePorch

Photo of small palm tree in planter with a bend in the trunk to the left before it starts growing straight up again
27/6/2025, 1:49:14 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Macwench (@macwench.bsky.social) reply parent

Your dad is a very wise man. Wishing peace for you and your family.

27/6/2025, 1:37:37 PM | 2 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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My plants generally reflect my mood. Which means they hadn't been doing so great before I retired. But I brought them back to the point that I'm finally going to get flowers on some of the porch succulents. I love seeing the start of New Life on my porch. #LifeOnThePorch

Succulent in planter with small tendrils starting to form the start for flowering.
26/6/2025, 3:08:30 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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POV when you had to cut down all the cucumbers because you couldn't get a handle on the bugs. Sprayed everything else with Neem oil to make sure they didn't spread. One of the advantages of living in Florida is I can replant. But damn!

Little girl with pigtails pouting
23/6/2025, 4:46:26 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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This is the dominant male on the porch. He chases down the ladies and chases off anyone that challenges his authority. But I believe he's earned it. He has the longest tail of any of them I've seen. Which means he's been able to stay away from the Predators #LifeOnThePorch

Porch picture of Gecko on back of chair. Posed sowing dominance.
22/6/2025, 7:24:18 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Macwench (@macwench.bsky.social) reply parent

Way to go, random internet person! I can see the joy in your face and it made me smile too πŸ˜ƒ

21/6/2025, 3:18:43 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Sorry I missed the alt text on this. Two geckos on back of seat. Large black male next to smaller female.

21/6/2025, 3:12:57 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Life on the porch. Just watered the plants and this little fella needed a drink too. He's probably as hot as I am this morning!

Gecko drinking from drops of water in planter on the porch.
21/6/2025, 3:11:19 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Life on porch. He's been chasing after her all morning. She's not interested...

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20/6/2025, 2:08:58 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Macwench (@macwench.bsky.social)

My daughter gave me this cactus shortly after my husband died 10 years ago. I've ignored it for most of the time. Honestly thought it was dead. But I started watering it anyway. And now it stands as a reminder - no matter how far gone you think you might be, there's always a chance for a new start.

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17/6/2025, 3:42:29 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Macwench (@macwench.bsky.social) reply parent

Hi Jon if I owed you an answer, which I don't, it would be that I believe lots of things are sins, way too many to list on a silly little app like this. How about you? Do you believe Jesus charged us with caring for The Stranger and for those less fortunate? By deed and not just by prayers for them?

16/6/2025, 9:15:33 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Yes I'm a Christian. And usually when I say that, I have to say "but not that kind of Christian" after. I firmly believe that welcoming the stranger, helping the poor, putting others before yourself is what Jesus taught. He talked an awful lot about loving other people, including those society shuns

16/6/2025, 7:23:21 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Macwench (@macwench.bsky.social) reply parent

I saw several signs with scriptures at the protest we were at. As it should be. None of what they are doing is in any way "Christ-like"

16/6/2025, 5:23:35 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Life on the porch today. I leave them alone, and they leave me alone. We've had that arrangement for ten years. Every couple of years a generation is born that doesn't remember the rules and we have to remove their nests and encourage them to relocate, but otherwise we're good.

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16/6/2025, 5:03:38 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Macwench (@macwench.bsky.social) reply parent

My favorite

Women holding sign at No Kings protest that says
15/6/2025, 2:22:17 AM | 80 7 | View on Bluesky | view

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Silence is not an option. Florida says No Kings

Two women holding protest signs in Florida No kings rally Florida
14/6/2025, 10:29:03 PM | 5 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Because there seems to be a certain empathy gene missing from people who were never poor. Not all. But sure feels like most of them.

22/5/2025, 8:27:43 PM | 2 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Gee I seem to remember an Arnold Schwarzenegger movie eerily similar to this...

16/5/2025, 2:57:52 AM | 2 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Macwench (@macwench.bsky.social) reply parent

Zuck: The average American had three friends.

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3/5/2025, 2:07:08 AM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Macwench (@macwench.bsky.social) reply parent

I work in the sign industry. We already have a 15% tariff line item for any aluminum signs. I anticipate that going up for virtually all signage since a lot of our parts and materials come from china.

29/4/2025, 7:12:25 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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@booker.senate.gov thank you.

2/4/2025, 12:12:11 AM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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wapo.st/3FYOCC3 That's the real question. Right now they're coming after the immigrants. But that's a short step away from deciding people who were born here don't deserve to be here anymore. Without a hearing. There's a name for this type of behavior and we all know what it is.

29/3/2025, 1:16:30 PM | 2 2 | View on Bluesky | view

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Sorry Mark

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28/3/2025, 10:59:10 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Just bought it with a little added because dessert is an important part of the meal. πŸ˜€ Look forward to reading it.

28/3/2025, 10:49:41 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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As I scroll through my feed, I realize the Dr. Who episode "Oxygen" (S10 Ep5) where people had to pay for oxygen is not as far off as I thought it was.

27/3/2025, 11:46:04 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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I usually just observe here, but I totally want to be a resistersister too!

27/3/2025, 9:39:36 PM | 4 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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πŸ™‹ I do not have enough hands for this

27/3/2025, 1:42:24 AM | 2 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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This makes me so angry. My husband was a heart patient who could barely get around some days. But if you looked at him you would have no idea. He just looked like an old hippie. How dare he thinks he knows more than the doctors by how someone looks.

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