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Onur

@onurm1.bsky.social

Just trying to figure out what to put here… Maybe couple of emoji? 😅😊✍️ https://substack.com/@onurm1 https://www.instagram.com/nmronur1?igsh=OWNyenQ3Zng3Yzg5&utm_source=qr ♿️ 🦄 🌈 🔵

created February 10, 2024

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“Far-right people complaining about the rise of far-right in other countries is just pure irony.”

2/9/2025, 3:54:44 PM | 23 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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I only use AI for proofreading, and I don't feel guilty about it. 🙂

1/9/2025, 5:37:22 PM | 9 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Well, the reason it's going to pop is that it consumes a lot of resources and hardware.

1/9/2025, 5:31:40 PM | 2 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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AI bubble is gonna pop soon.”

1/9/2025, 5:11:52 PM | 11 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Men will literally choose a hookup-focused guy over a strong, ambitious, emotionally aware man.

1/9/2025, 2:44:39 PM | 20 1 | View on Bluesky | view

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“If I’d just shared weird stuff from my circle on that dude’s platform—he who buys companies and pushes his crazy ugly cars—I’d probably be an influencer by now.”

1/9/2025, 2:27:51 PM | 5 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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“I can write more than 300 characters, and I have a Substack for that. I’d really appreciate it if you could repost my previous post to support me.”

1/9/2025, 2:21:02 PM | 6 1 | View on Bluesky | view

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I want to start my own little paper and write stuff—well, that’s what Substack is for. Here’s the link: open.substack.com/pub/onurm1/p...

1/9/2025, 2:10:32 PM | 4 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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1/9/2025, 1:28:43 PM | 29 4 | View on Bluesky | view

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1/9/2025, 11:52:33 AM | 27 3 | View on Bluesky | view

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Becoming the very thing someone’s afraid of isn’t so bad—at least then their fear works in your favor. 🕷️

1/9/2025, 11:44:16 AM | 2 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Looks more like Andrew Tate than Andrew Tate 😆

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31/8/2025, 6:37:44 PM | 61 10 | View on Bluesky | view

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Yeah I think that’s a good idea I’m gonna do the same 😊

31/8/2025, 6:21:00 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Well, what is BAMO ?

31/8/2025, 6:14:39 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Well, you’re part right but why did they add the serious relationship statues then?

31/8/2025, 6:13:16 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Well, that’s kinda annoying or dating apps should separate casual users with others or someone who wants to make a friend

31/8/2025, 5:46:19 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Church? Well I am not straight 😆 I’m gay by the way 😀

31/8/2025, 5:18:13 PM | 3 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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No, I didn’t do that to trigger him. I was really open about it on my profile.

31/8/2025, 5:12:31 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Well, I don’t have any idea. All I want is meeting somebody cool not a freak.

31/8/2025, 5:06:27 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Yeah, I realize that and didn’t delete it now I just posted again 🙂

31/8/2025, 5:03:33 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Got called out on Tinder just for saying I don’t want to talk to someone not emotionally available. With casual sex apps everywhere, am I wrong for saying that? At the end of the day, no need to waste anyone’s time—if this is a marketplace, then let it be just that

31/8/2025, 5:01:54 PM | 26 3 | View on Bluesky | view

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Well, actually, I wanna talk to you emotionally available guys that’s the problem

31/8/2025, 4:59:38 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Living under an authoritarian leadership, I see how pro-government channels love to show a few young people who moved abroad and had a bad experience — then they use it to trash developed countries.

31/8/2025, 2:12:36 PM | 15 2 | View on Bluesky | view

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I heard this term recently and it’s kind of interesting—shrieking is when you date someone you’re not even physically attracted to because you lowered your standards.

31/8/2025, 1:06:54 PM | 5 1 | View on Bluesky | view

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Yeah, he is Turkish and he was saying something like I just wanna see it. 😆 unmatched anyway 🙂

31/8/2025, 9:21:01 AM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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All ghosts really want is to be remembered.

31/8/2025, 8:55:59 AM | 11 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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He looks healthy 😀👹

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31/8/2025, 6:44:07 AM | 32 2 | View on Bluesky | view

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31/8/2025, 6:18:57 AM | 36 4 | View on Bluesky | view

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31/8/2025, 5:24:09 AM | 34 2 | View on Bluesky | view

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I’ll never understand why guys find emotionally unavailable guys attractive.

30/8/2025, 7:22:54 PM | 7 1 | View on Bluesky | view

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Hope life doesn’t turn me into the kind of person who’d want to rush to heaven at the last minute.

30/8/2025, 7:00:08 PM | 10 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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2️⃣ Their version of a “good son” was never about love. It was about obedience.

30/8/2025, 5:49:46 PM | 9 1 | View on Bluesky | view

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So I’m supposed to feel guilty just because my parents—who come from a conservative background and measure a ‘good son’ by their own outdated ideas—never called me one?

30/8/2025, 5:42:48 PM | 13 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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So true

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30/8/2025, 3:38:48 PM | 53 10 | View on Bluesky | view

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Where is he?

30/8/2025, 3:30:48 PM | 6 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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lol

30/8/2025, 2:29:21 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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😳

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30/8/2025, 2:12:22 PM | 30 5 | View on Bluesky | view

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The internet is basically just a memory bank

30/8/2025, 2:04:50 PM | 11 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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VR headsets may look like progress, but they’re just screens shoved in our faces. No matter how many forms they take, a screen is still a square or a rectangle.

30/8/2025, 9:47:30 AM | 14 1 | View on Bluesky | view

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Current mood 😑

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30/8/2025, 8:46:30 AM | 6 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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29/8/2025, 11:26:51 PM | 15 3 | View on Bluesky | view

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Seeing society’s ideal personality makes me feel sick.

29/8/2025, 7:28:17 PM | 4 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Are gay couples who get married and have kids even real? From the outside, they seem like fairytale heroes who actually got a happy ending.

29/8/2025, 5:44:17 PM | 9 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Even though I feel loneliness deeply, I’ve never talked to AI about it, and I’m proud of that. 🙂

29/8/2025, 5:29:18 PM | 25 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Some people see socializing as drifting around anxiously just to be accepted.

29/8/2025, 4:25:40 PM | 5 1 | View on Bluesky | view

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If you just want to support my art just repost 🙂

29/8/2025, 3:28:03 PM | 8 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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I’ve been drawing myself in different ways for a while. I’m thinking of creating a character of my own and turning a version in a wheelchair into a sort of comic book character. And I love my own reflection.”

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29/8/2025, 12:19:28 PM | 29 5 | View on Bluesky | view

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🤣🤣🥲

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29/8/2025, 11:41:27 AM | 47 10 | View on Bluesky | view

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I came up with ‘techno dandy’—mixing style with tech. Apple’s a big part of it, simple, clever, a bit ironic, and I’m really happy with it.

29/8/2025, 11:14:34 AM | 7 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Chemistry is good for all relationships, not just romantic ones.

29/8/2025, 10:36:12 AM | 17 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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But it’s not a cult, right?

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29/8/2025, 10:10:28 AM | 42 4 | View on Bluesky | view

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Just experimenting 🙂

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28/8/2025, 7:44:30 PM | 16 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Just curious—how common is this in the U.S.? Many young adults from religious families where I live end up secular, carrying past religious pressure. Is it the same there, or does society see it differently?

28/8/2025, 4:13:54 PM | 9 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Authoritarian leaders always talk about the “big picture” or claim they’re part of some grand plan—but somehow, these huge events always happen on their watch. What I’m trying to say is, they’re always the victims of their own grand conspiracy theories.

28/8/2025, 2:50:00 PM | 16 2 | View on Bluesky | view

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Authoritarian leaders do nothing but strengthen the groups they marginalize through oppression.

28/8/2025, 2:02:43 PM | 14 1 | View on Bluesky | view

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Being able to depend on somebody feels different for me—as a gay man with cerebral palsy, it’s not about physical dependence, but trust, love, and being truly seen. That’s why I want to choose him—to see him just like he sees me. 🏳️‍🌈 ♿

28/8/2025, 1:23:41 PM | 32 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Where are the husband-material type of guys hiding? 💭❤️

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28/8/2025, 11:05:56 AM | 13 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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I never understand this whole “project child” thing. Really, why put so much weight on kids? Even Jesus was God’s project child, and they still crucified him.

28/8/2025, 10:55:25 AM | 14 1 | View on Bluesky | view

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The biggest discovery of authoritarian leaders is hopeless youth and, of course, criminals too.

28/8/2025, 9:45:34 AM | 13 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Parental pressure is real—if it weren’t, Jesus wouldn’t have ended up on the cross.

28/8/2025, 6:43:08 AM | 11 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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If he say so 😊

28/8/2025, 6:29:24 AM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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“Who came up with morality?”

28/8/2025, 6:20:18 AM | 9 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Yeah, but they just want to remove the elections

27/8/2025, 12:55:18 PM | 3 1 | View on Bluesky | view

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Lately, politics isn’t talked about just for the sake of politics. It’s also about freedoms, rights, and minority rights. Politics isn’t just debate material—though it never really was. 🗳️

27/8/2025, 12:48:18 PM | 25 6 | View on Bluesky | view

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2️⃣ I’m not saying I ignored politics, but you know, we’re just everyday people. We have the right to enjoy life—going out, doing what we like, relaxing, traveling, eating what we love (sushi is my favorite 🍣) and not constantly talk about the orange guy.

27/8/2025, 12:23:26 PM | 10 1 | View on Bluesky | view

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Around 3-5 years ago, politics wasn’t such a big part of my life. But seeing things from the books I’ve read actually happen now makes me pay a lot more attention to it. 📚

27/8/2025, 12:17:13 PM | 79 6 | View on Bluesky | view

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When an authoritarian leader talks about stability, it usually means they want to silence opposition and keep the mainstream media under control.

27/8/2025, 11:33:29 AM | 52 12 | View on Bluesky | view

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In my area, listening to podcasts at night is truly relaxing.

26/8/2025, 10:04:21 PM | 14 1 | View on Bluesky | view

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What do you mean? 🙂

26/8/2025, 6:11:54 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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He might be a good Christian, Jew, or anything else, but that doesn't necessarily mean he's a good person.

26/8/2025, 2:49:48 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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An old man thinks he’ll go to heaven, but feels he should do something good first. He carries pain, guilt, and regret from his life

26/8/2025, 2:45:32 PM | 11 2 | View on Bluesky | view

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They are gathering people, handing out colorful beads, and inviting them to create jewelry, such as necklaces or similar things.

26/8/2025, 2:36:13 PM | 3 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Giving a bully a taste of their own medicine has always brought me a strange kind of satisfaction. I don't believe some people can truly be saved.

26/8/2025, 2:15:51 PM | 40 4 | View on Bluesky | view

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Modern world is on our side, the thinkers, the doers, the ones who speak up

26/8/2025, 1:57:34 PM | 9 2 | View on Bluesky | view

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Some young parents don’t get this: from the outside your kid looks like your little extension. A tiny human with weak emotional control and high impulsivity. Sometimes cute, that’s it. Knowing this and moving on makes life a lot happier. 🙂

26/8/2025, 1:24:38 PM | 6 2 | View on Bluesky | view

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Since I started posting here I realized I’ve developed a kind of hyper-focus on certain topics I like it but don’t want to bother anyone I just felt like saying it I don’t even know why 🙂

26/8/2025, 12:57:08 PM | 14 1 | View on Bluesky | view

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3️⃣ I’m just saying this because some people think they’re helping disabled folks… but really, they’re just patting themselves on the back.

26/8/2025, 11:54:41 AM | 18 1 | View on Bluesky | view

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2️⃣ Man, I have a personality, my own hobbies, things that actually keep me busy. I don’t need that.

26/8/2025, 11:54:41 AM | 13 1 | View on Bluesky | view

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1️⃣ Being 31 and a full-blown adult with a disability, I’ve always stayed distant from groups that claim to “engage” us. All they did was pass beads and call it crafts.

26/8/2025, 11:54:41 AM | 47 5 | View on Bluesky | view

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Sipping my coffee and sharing stuff has kinda become part of my routine like a little mental stretch. And yup, next comes some reading.

26/8/2025, 11:04:08 AM | 11 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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As societies decline, stats show people get crueler. Tough-guy culture, crypto-bros, rigid traditionalists spike. Scarcity and unfairness feed the trend—humans act like stressed, overcrowded rats losing it.

26/8/2025, 10:49:43 AM | 112 26 | View on Bluesky | view

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When it comes to opening up about my disability, it doesn’t make me feel insecure or anything like that. I just don’t know where to start, but I still want to talk about it anyway.

25/8/2025, 11:39:18 AM | 18 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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It’s probably around four there, but I still have things to write here.

25/8/2025, 8:48:48 AM | 7 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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As a gay man in my early thirties with a disability, being seen as a gratitude mascot or an object of inspiration feels like being treated as an android—stripped of emotions and desires, like a programmed machine. Honestly, it’s exhausting. 🤖

24/8/2025, 8:12:22 PM | 23 1 | View on Bluesky | view

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In every community, someone is always the ‘other’s other,’ ignored by the majority within the group.

24/8/2025, 7:59:35 PM | 10 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Can anyone explain how the Bluesky algorithm works? It seems slow, but it works well. On other social networks, things are faster, but the algorithm boost makes it feel a bit artificial.

24/8/2025, 3:51:06 PM | 8 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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I didn't know it was old news; in any case, the orange is either rotten or rotting then. 😗

24/8/2025, 3:30:14 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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I don’t know maybe depends on news sources I was just scrolling like I said

24/8/2025, 3:23:19 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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A long time ago I joined Bluesky and decided to use my real name because some people use usernames just to say things they can’t say out loud in real life

24/8/2025, 2:37:52 PM | 20 1 | View on Bluesky | view

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That’s literally me 😆

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24/8/2025, 2:12:42 PM | 26 6 | View on Bluesky | view

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You can’t truly grow if you are kept captive you need space to bloom 🌱 🍃

24/8/2025, 2:02:40 PM | 17 2 | View on Bluesky | view

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If standing up for my rights in this crazy far-right world makes me WOKE, then yeah… I’m way too WOKE

24/8/2025, 12:45:51 PM | 111 7 | View on Bluesky | view

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So true

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24/8/2025, 10:04:42 AM | 229 24 | View on Bluesky | view

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Cognitive decline is running countries.

24/8/2025, 9:16:46 AM | 72 13 | View on Bluesky | view

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Sipping on my fruity soda 🥤, watching an old Turkish sitcom, and sharing my thoughts here 📱 all at once!

23/8/2025, 8:55:52 PM | 8 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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I think being lonely makes you want to write more.

23/8/2025, 8:01:22 PM | 9 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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X veya diğer metin tabanlı sosyal medya uygulamaları genellikle algoritmayı şişirerek daha hareketli bir ortam izlenimi yaratıyor. Yeni, hükümet destekli sosyal medya uygulamasında da durum aynı 🙂

23/8/2025, 5:28:35 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Kidnap a teenage girl, lock her in a castle, make her fall for a hairy beast who used to be a prince? That’s romantic. But two grown men loving each other? Suddenly, that’s where society draws the line.

23/8/2025, 5:17:23 PM | 60 2 | View on Bluesky | view

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È stato scortese. Lo ripeterò: usare la foto di qualcuno senza il suo consenso è sbagliato, indipendentemente dalle tue intenzioni. Anche se hai buone intenzioni, questo comportamento è brutto.

23/8/2025, 4:56:38 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Ho usato il traduttore, ma non ho capito cosa hai detto se è possibile puoi rispondermi in inglese?

23/8/2025, 4:33:11 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view