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Leetle feesh, chillin een his leaf
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Good to know!
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Thank you! Reading the premise for A Dark Song it sounds familiar but I can’t recall if we actually saw it. Pulse looks cool. Thanks! :)
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Films that feel small, claustrophobic, isolated; thinking MOON (2009), THE LIGHTHOUSE (2019). What else we got?
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💯
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Alt text, because apparently the alt text I write for video does not attach: A gray cat with white mitts, socks, and bib enjoys a shredded chicken meal, looking up intermittently at the camera.
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Gremel emerges from beneath his chair haven for meal times:
Pessoptimist (@pessoptimist.bsky.social)
Shout to the cashier who gave me my produce for free because the weight scale was broken and he didn’t feel like the effort of moving my purchase to a different register.
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Once overheard a couple of folks in an elevator talking about this (generally: the joy of complimenting strangers). One stopped mid-sentence to compliment my lipstick then turned back to her friend, saying: “Sometimes you just gotta adjust each others’ crowns, ya know?” That really stuck with me. 💖
Lorelei (@alorelei.com) reposted
goo goo g'joob
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Brought him home to foster about 3wks ago. He first lived behind the living room futon, now he’s under my reading chair. Still a very shy boy.
Pessoptimist (@pessoptimist.bsky.social)
Belated announcement: This cute little creature lives under my chair. His name is Ash.
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Run through them!
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Off to such a GOOD START
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Wow, looking back, it got SO GREEN
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I’d used the add alt text function to add a description of the contents of the video. Like on photos you can see a little ‘ALT’ to tap on and see the alt text. No such thing here though :-/ Wondering if it’s a bug I should report.
Pessoptimist (@pessoptimist.bsky.social)
I added alt text to this but can’t see it. Am I missing it? Has this happened to others?
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Among the best things
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Here, enjoy a bee
Pessoptimist (@pessoptimist.bsky.social) reply parent
Movers are ✨AMAZING✨ Worth every penny.
Pessoptimist (@pessoptimist.bsky.social)
My partner convinced me to participate in Terrible Comic Day. Here’s my terrible comic about terrible bugs I have made peace with (with a shout-out to MBMBaM):
American Birding Association (@aba.org) reposted
Have you ever seen a gull eat something weird? A new citizen science project, Gulls Eating Stuff, is tracking what gulls gobble, and anyone can participate! Submit your photos, explore the observations of other gullers, and help document the changing diets of gulls for science.
Pessoptimist (@pessoptimist.bsky.social)
A PSA and a brag - PSA: COVID is still out there! I know! I because I have it! Grrrrargh Brag: I’m now sequestered to my corner of our home to keep @alorelei.com from getting it, and she very thoughtfully came home today with a bouquet of roses to spruce it up special. Such a sweetheart.
Pessoptimist (@pessoptimist.bsky.social)
Can confirm: The gochujang - peanut butter brownies turned out deliciously. Ate way too many of them today. Wonder why. (spoiler: it’s the stress)
Pessoptimist (@pessoptimist.bsky.social)
If you see this, share a skeleton (this is my foot)
Pessoptimist (@pessoptimist.bsky.social)
This morning, my first meditation without him. Thankful to @alorelei.com for joining me. We sat together on the couch where I administered Link’s fluids every morning. Grateful to have each other at this time.
Pessoptimist (@pessoptimist.bsky.social)
Our last meditation together this morning. It was our daily tradition for the last 4 of his 19 years with us. He’d been with us through so much. Taught us so much. I experienced a lot of spiritual growth, sitting with him like this. I will miss him forever. My perfect precious boy. ♥️♥️♥️
Fishtopher and Friends (@fishtopher.bsky.social) reposted
"Even a wounded world is feeding us. Even a wounded world holds us, giving us moments of wonder and joy. I choose joy over despair. Not because I have my head in the sand, but because joy is what the earth gives me daily and I must return the gift." (Robin Wall Kimmerer, Braiding Sweetgrass)
Pessoptimist (@pessoptimist.bsky.social)
Seriously fuck this guy
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I love *you* so much! ♥️ ♥️ ♥️
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You could try being all, “Look, you got bubblegum flavor back there for kids, right? I’m feeling nostalgic, do me a solid.”
Pessoptimist (@pessoptimist.bsky.social) reply parent
I’ve been offered bubblegum polish as well in the US (as a kid in the South, never been offered as an adult in New England, so I don’t know if my current lack of exposure to bubblegum polish is a regional thing or an age thing).
Pessoptimist (@pessoptimist.bsky.social) reply parent
I do cinnamon. It’s nice!
Pessoptimist (@pessoptimist.bsky.social)
Officially in the clear! Comforting to know.
Pessoptimist (@pessoptimist.bsky.social)
Hey folks! I got a measles titer done today to see if I need a booster or not. You could do it too! 💫
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Booooo. You gotta go in every day now?
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A brand new notebook
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🍩
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@alorelei.com Been a year since donuts. We need donuts.
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SUBLIME!
Pessoptimist (@pessoptimist.bsky.social) reply parent
Ah! Yes yes! And avocado!
Pessoptimist (@pessoptimist.bsky.social) reply parent
Another regular go-to if spicy is not okay: Bed of fresh arugula topped with pasta tossed with pan-seared broccoli, garlic, and large-dice orange slices, with a splash of red wine vinaigrette
Pessoptimist (@pessoptimist.bsky.social) reply parent
If spicy is okay: This is a regular go-to for us. It says broccolini, but broccoli would be just as good: www.justonecookbook.com/japanese-pas...
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*hug*
Jarvis Yu (@jkyu06.bsky.social) reposted
Riposte if you fence.
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Not just cupe, beaupiful! 💖
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My partner and I regularly intentionally misspell “shrimp” tens of different ways and now autocorrect sometimes ‘correctly’ ‘corrects’ “shrimp” to “schmlirmp” or whatever the more common go-to’s are. Also “spinach” -> “sponch”
Pessoptimist (@pessoptimist.bsky.social)
Seriously, this jerk. Who is he?!
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He also loves hanging out at the filter outflow, like he’s chilling by a waterfall, living his best life.
Pessoptimist (@pessoptimist.bsky.social) reply parent
He eats super fast. It’s funny to think he’s under the impression some asshole is there to take his food so he has to hurry about it.
Pessoptimist (@pessoptimist.bsky.social) reply parent
Past fish have never minded the tank light being on during the day, but Turkish is *very* sensitive to his own reflection and picks fights with himself whenever the light is on, so I keep it off always except for mealtime.
Pessoptimist (@pessoptimist.bsky.social)
This little guy is new. His name is Turkish! It’s always fun to see their unique personalities once they’ve settled into their new home. They each have favorite places in the tank, places to sleep, different eating styles, different degrees of aggression towards the cat, etc.
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Probably treat. Yeah?
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🐌
Zane Schacht - Voice Goblin (@voicesbyzane.bsky.social) reposted
The "bluesky is an echo chamber" think pieces that keep popping up really tickle me because they show how certain people genuinely believe social media should be for debating and arguing and not talking about the things that make you happy and sharing art with the world.
Pessoptimist (@pessoptimist.bsky.social)
Ever have a dream so buck wild that, in it, you’re like, “This *cannot* be real. This cannot be my life actually.” Then lo, you wake up, so absolutely relieved? I would like to wake up please.
Louisa (@louisathelast.bsky.social) reposted
Give your pets extra treats the next few weeks while they’re doing the job of being 90% of your mental health
Pessoptimist (@pessoptimist.bsky.social)
Hooray, I forgot that a couple weeks ago I scheduled a massage for tomorrow afternoon. Good job, past-self.
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I then proceeded to sit in that leaf pile with leaves piled up to my chest, like one gets buried in sand at the beach.
Pessoptimist (@pessoptimist.bsky.social) reply parent
“Cooking for mixed crowds with restricted diets” I also enjoy this challenge! It feels good to cater to people who otherwise aren’t generally catered to.
Pessoptimist (@pessoptimist.bsky.social)
Who else is sick to their stomach most of the time now from election stress? What are you doing to mitigate it? I have no appetite but have to eat because I’m also training for an upcoming taekwondo test, and the sad feeling of not enjoying my food (I generally loooove food) is Adding To It All.
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I blocked three more since posting that. It’s madness and maddening.
Pessoptimist (@pessoptimist.bsky.social)
It’s getting so much worse. I’m blocking at least 5-10 addresses *a day* now. And it’s *all* GOP bullshit.
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That sounds delicious
Pessoptimist (@pessoptimist.bsky.social) reply parent
The Pyramids of Giza!
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They were genuinely delicious!
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Spaghetti taco dinner! (TY @wigu.org for the idea) Here we have hard corn shell, a layer of refried black beans, collards slow-cooked in turkey broth, and a simple marinara sauce & spaghetti.
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Same thought :-/
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Re: time-management - Our boy has a pretty good appetite and each batch of food there lasts us around 6-7 days. So, it’s roughly 30-45 minutes of work beginning-to-end for a week’s worth of food.
Pessoptimist (@pessoptimist.bsky.social) reply parent
Happy to share the recipe I use if you like! Of course I’d recommend running it by your kitty’s doctor first before committing. We have had a lot of luck with it though
Pessoptimist (@pessoptimist.bsky.social) reply parent
Ours also refused to eat KD food and we ended up consulting an animal nutritionist for a recipe to make his food at home. It’s easy, he loves it, his labs have been stable, and he’s even gained a few ounces! Been roughly 2-3 years making his food now.
Pessoptimist (@pessoptimist.bsky.social)
Seeing lots of folks post excitedly about encountering a praying mantis lately. I wish to also encounter a mantis.
Pessoptimist (@pessoptimist.bsky.social)
Finally, I get to show the world this pill bug of a cat who hangs out by the seafood restaurant in our neighborhood
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On one hand: he came off as the hateful buffoon that he is. On the other hand: his diehards love the hateful buffoonery specifically and probably think he did a great job. What do we do with this, besides hope they are few enough?
Pessoptimist (@pessoptimist.bsky.social)
All hate and lying and fear mongering from him. Good god.
Pessoptimist (@pessoptimist.bsky.social) reply parent
Particularly pre-debate prompting about fallacies would be so good. Folks’ attention spans are short, so I don’t know, 15-30 minutes of: “This is a strawman. This is a hasty generalization. This is a gish gallop.” Then nip that shit in the bud. Respect peoples’ time and let them learn something.
Pessoptimist (@pessoptimist.bsky.social) reply parent
Then post-debate have an annotated list of each cut-off and what fallacy criteria it met or evidence of how it’s a lie
Pessoptimist (@pessoptimist.bsky.social)
Idea: Make a list of commonly used logical fallacies / fallacious rhetorical techniques. Define them concisely & clearly ahead of the debate, then state: “As soon as any one of these definitions are met, or demonstrable lies are stated, we cut your mic.” Then fucking do it. Reign that shit in.
Pessoptimist (@pessoptimist.bsky.social)
Got my COVID and flu vaccines! You can too! 💉 ♥️ 💉
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I love so much that that’s a thing you do 🥬 ♥️
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So good! If you’ve ever had tomato on a grilled cheese, it’s vaguely similar to that but of course more firm and tangy. The kimchi I keep is vegetarian and on the sweeter side, so gouda works. Depending on your kimchi you might want to experiment with different cheeses.
Pessoptimist (@pessoptimist.bsky.social) reply parent
Kimchi, apple, and gouda
Pessoptimist (@pessoptimist.bsky.social)
I’ve worked for the same parent company since 2010. So, this is the 4th presidential election I’ve experienced in my time here. I can’t recall ever getting political spam/scam emails to my work address. And now it’s like, 1-2 a week. Soooo straaaange…
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I’m stuck at the RMV having not had lunch (for no good reason at all) and ravenously hungry. That stew sounds good enough that thinking about it is tiding me over.
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That is an *excellent* idea
Pessoptimist (@pessoptimist.bsky.social)
A college friend’s parents hired me to be her body guard on a 3wk trip to Russia - all expenses paid including visa, flight, housing, language classes, and a food stipend.
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If you haven’t seen that whole show yet you’re in for a treat: youtu.be/9FX7orppiu8?...
Adam P. Knave (@adampknave.com) reposted
Idea: Crone Scouts. Old women, teaching things to others, to earn badges, and drinks.