Tom [PositiveLad] π³οΈβππͺπΊ
@positivelad.me
Gay guy living with HIV - working in HIV & Sexual Health. 𧬠Often seen on TV, radio & print. Husband to @jimmyavenger.me π¬ Dog dad πΎ Often found aboard a cruise ship π³οΈ Love a wine and a good sit down π· Proud sponsor of @deck.blue πLondon, UK
created August 18, 2023
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Tom [PositiveLad] π³οΈβππͺπΊ (@positivelad.me) reply parent
I know that sticking oneβs head above the parapet on the Israeli-Gaza war is automatic social media suicide. But this cannot continue. The IDF cannot just keep attacking other countries because they feel like it. This way world wars lay.
Tom [PositiveLad] π³οΈβππͺπΊ (@positivelad.me)
The Israeli government needs to be stopped. They canβt just keep bombing everyone, perpetrating a genocide in Gaza. They risk becoming what they once feared. (it is important to recognise that the Israeli govt / IDF do not necessarily represent all people of Israel) www.bbc.com/news/article...
Tom [PositiveLad] π³οΈβππͺπΊ (@positivelad.me) reply parent
Fuck off.
Tom [PositiveLad] π³οΈβππͺπΊ (@positivelad.me) reply parent
He was in a patient only area. But thatβs the only area they had free. Thatβs not mine, or his, fault.
Tom [PositiveLad] π³οΈβππͺπΊ (@positivelad.me)
Really unpleasant, uncompassionate and unprofessional experience as a family member trying to see my husband at @uclh.bsky.social Emergency Dept tonight. 90 mins and counting left in reception. Not allowed to go through to see him. No news being conveyed to me. Just awful. @nhs.uk
Tom [PositiveLad] π³οΈβππͺπΊ (@positivelad.me) reply parent
So cute. Congratulations guys :)
Jones (@theearlofpowys.bsky.social) reposted
Morning all!
Frances Ryan (@francesryan.bsky.social) reposted
Tax aside, this is objectively a very sad end to Raynerβs political career: a teenage single mum from a deprived family who went onto be deputy prime minister. The right wing press detested her for not knowing her place. Their glee at her downfall will be palpable in tomorrowβs front pages.
Zack Polanski (@zackpolanski.bsky.social) reposted
Since this is apparently a resigning matter, Iβll just leave this hereβ¦ www.theguardian.com/politics/202...
Tom [PositiveLad] π³οΈβππͺπΊ (@positivelad.me) reply parent
Wholeheartedly agree.
ianVisits (@ianvisits.co.uk) reposted
Feeling a bit sorry frankly. A lot of families with a disabled child have to use trust funds to protect their child's economic future, and to miss what was basically one sentence about tax advice in the sort of lengthy paperwork a house purchase entails is an exceptionally easy mistake to make.
Tom [PositiveLad] π³οΈβππͺπΊ (@positivelad.me)
Ahh, FCF. The best day of the week.
Tom [PositiveLad] π³οΈβππͺπΊ (@positivelad.me)
NEWS: Toddler shits pants to gain attention www.bbc.com/news/article...
Tom [PositiveLad] π³οΈβππͺπΊ (@positivelad.me)
Saddened to read about the passing of Giorgio Armani. He only came out a year ago, at the age of 90.
Tom [PositiveLad] π³οΈβππͺπΊ (@positivelad.me) reply parent
I struggled to get past Ep 2. Just felt too drawn out, and I didn't really care about any of the characters.
Tom [PositiveLad] π³οΈβππͺπΊ (@positivelad.me) reply parent
Their loss, clearly!
Tom [PositiveLad] π³οΈβππͺπΊ (@positivelad.me) reply parent
It's a nightmare. Then in the process of opening that to report/block it you get a full screen video advert - and then just give up.
Tom [PositiveLad] π³οΈβππͺπΊ (@positivelad.me) reply parent
www.youtube.com/watch?v=STiP...
Tom [PositiveLad] π³οΈβππͺπΊ (@positivelad.me)
We use @grindr.bsky.social for work (outreach, advice etc). But between the whack-a-mole adverts and the endless spam bots it's becoming harder and harder to use. It's a mess.
Sarah OβConnell (@sarahoconnellshow.com) reposted
Fashion designer Giorgio Armani has died aged 91.
Tom [PositiveLad] π³οΈβππͺπΊ (@positivelad.me) reply parent
Woof!
Tom [PositiveLad] π³οΈβππͺπΊ (@positivelad.me) reply parent
Since when did Subway become Spud-u-like?
University of Oxford (@ox.ac.uk) reposted
NEW: An Oxford report warns that misleading media coverage is shaping public debate on immigration and human rights. The study finds the ECHR is frequently misreported in deportation cases, fueling misconceptions that erode trust in the legal system. π§΅ [1/8]
Tom [PositiveLad] π³οΈβππͺπΊ (@positivelad.me) reply parent
Of course they are. All the vaccine skeptics vaccinate their kids. They know the grift is fake -which makes it worse if anything.
moogal (@moogal.bsky.social) reposted reply parent
It's like there's some sort of competition for stupidity that they're working really hard to win.
Tom [PositiveLad] π³οΈβππͺπΊ (@positivelad.me) reply parent
So not only is America becoming a totalitarian state, but itβs going to become a quarantine zone too at this rate.
Tom [PositiveLad] π³οΈβππͺπΊ (@positivelad.me)
Florida plans to become first state to break preventable childhood death records apnews.com/article/flor...
Tom [PositiveLad] π³οΈβππͺπΊ (@positivelad.me) reply parent
I was told no exercise or side sleeping for 24 hours. So thatβs until tomorrow lunchtime.
Tom [PositiveLad] π³οΈβππͺπΊ (@positivelad.me) reply parent
Yeah. Itβs a subcutaneous fluid injection. If you lay on it, it could get squished into a place you donβt want it to be.
Tom [PositiveLad] π³οΈβππͺπΊ (@positivelad.me)
Arranging the bed into a mini-fort so I can sleep sat up tonight so the Botox doesnβt move overnight.
Tom [PositiveLad] π³οΈβππͺπΊ (@positivelad.me)
I should call him.
Tom [PositiveLad] π³οΈβππͺπΊ (@positivelad.me)
Wes Streeting once again campaigning for βWorst Gay of The Yearβ award.
Tom [PositiveLad] π³οΈβππͺπΊ (@positivelad.me)
Gmail: You have a HIGH PRIORITY email from βUK Power Networksβ. Me: Oh, Lord. What now??! The email:
Tom [PositiveLad] π³οΈβππͺπΊ (@positivelad.me)
Looking forward to my next round of Botox tomorrow lunchtime. Iβm going to enter my forties with a very smooth and wrinkle free face. As is my childless millennial right.
Tom [PositiveLad] π³οΈβππͺπΊ (@positivelad.me)
GOP: We need to show that heβs strong and capable of doing the job. Dispel these rumours of ill health, exhaustion and mental decline. TRUMP: *is 38 mins late (and counting) for his own last minute press conference*
Tom [PositiveLad] π³οΈβππͺπΊ (@positivelad.me)
Freedom of speech DOES NOT EQUAL freedom from consequences. www.bbc.com/news/article...
Dan Hartland (@danhartland.bsky.social) reposted
π§ New Critical Friends for your listening devices! This month, Sneha Pathak and @tansyg.bsky.social talk to me about texts often dismissed as too slight to review - books, films, genres with which we might be accused of merely passing time. How should critics approach this sort of work? And why?
Tom [PositiveLad] π³οΈβππͺπΊ (@positivelad.me) reply parent
Am I a Zombie stan now?
Tom [PositiveLad] π³οΈβππͺπΊ (@positivelad.me)
Well, this is an escalation-and-a-half from Putin. He's just trolling now, knowing no-one will actually bring any real consequences to his door. www.ft.com/content/3c33...
Mark (@munchkin68.bsky.social) reposted
#StandupagainstRacism
Tom [PositiveLad] π³οΈβππͺπΊ (@positivelad.me) reply parent
Was lovely to see you. **hug*^
Tom [PositiveLad] π³οΈβππͺπΊ (@positivelad.me) reply parent
No one. Thatβs his get out of jail free face card.
Tom [PositiveLad] π³οΈβππͺπΊ (@positivelad.me)
My hand must be held - at all times.
Tom [PositiveLad] π³οΈβππͺπΊ (@positivelad.me)
If you see this, post a monster
Tom [PositiveLad] π³οΈβππͺπΊ (@positivelad.me) reply parent
Oh, I donβt think thatβll ever happen. I like my things crisply pressed.
Tom [PositiveLad] π³οΈβππͺπΊ (@positivelad.me)
Really making the most of the last few weekends of my thirties. Watching streaming re-runs, drinking wine and ironing my pillowcases.
Tom [PositiveLad] π³οΈβππͺπΊ (@positivelad.me) reply parent
We struggle on.
Tom [PositiveLad] π³οΈβππͺπΊ (@positivelad.me) reply parent
Heβs away.
Tom [PositiveLad] π³οΈβππͺπΊ (@positivelad.me) reply parent
Never! Heh.
Tom [PositiveLad] π³οΈβππͺπΊ (@positivelad.me) reply parent
And the pants? :p
Tom [PositiveLad] π³οΈβππͺπΊ (@positivelad.me) reply parent
Ah, damn.
Tom [PositiveLad] π³οΈβππͺπΊ (@positivelad.me) reply parent
Three toddlers in a maga hat and golf poncho.
Tom [PositiveLad] π³οΈβππͺπΊ (@positivelad.me)
Did I miss something? Whatβs going on with TrΓΌmp?
Tom [PositiveLad] π³οΈβππͺπΊ (@positivelad.me) reply parent
TO THE FINE WRIDGE!
Tom [PositiveLad] π³οΈβππͺπΊ (@positivelad.me) reply parent
Excellent choice. Be sure to share with us!
Tom [PositiveLad] π³οΈβππͺπΊ (@positivelad.me)
Given up on Saturday already. Shanβt be moving. Except to pop to the wine fridge.
Tom [PositiveLad] π³οΈβππͺπΊ (@positivelad.me) reply parent
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Tom [PositiveLad] π³οΈβππͺπΊ (@positivelad.me) reply parent
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Alt CDC (they/them) (@altcdc.altgov.info) reposted
Would you like that outbreak with biscuits or cornbread? π¦ π #backlashthis
Tom [PositiveLad] π³οΈβππͺπΊ (@positivelad.me)
#HIVsky #IDsky and #GUMsky knew this and were the first large cohort to flock here. Itβs so much better, and more productive, here. π apple.news/AXsjru5PhTGu...
Tom [PositiveLad] π³οΈβππͺπΊ (@positivelad.me) reply parent
Stay classy βοΈ
Tom [PositiveLad] π³οΈβππͺπΊ (@positivelad.me)
Oh, I donβt know. I lost a couple of kilos and had a lovely drug-induced nap.
Tom [PositiveLad] π³οΈβππͺπΊ (@positivelad.me) reply parent
Oh, I never claimed to be old money. I donβt have the chin for that.
Tom [PositiveLad] π³οΈβππͺπΊ (@positivelad.me) reply parent
Oh, if that were the case.
Tom [PositiveLad] π³οΈβππͺπΊ (@positivelad.me) reply parent
I wish (but thank you)
BK. Titanji (@boghuma.bsky.social) reposted
Maybe the only we survive this is with a twinge of sarcasm and very dark humorπ.
Tom [PositiveLad] π³οΈβππͺπΊ (@positivelad.me) reply parent
I have aged like a fine cheese. On a hot day.
Tom [PositiveLad] π³οΈβππͺπΊ (@positivelad.me)
Let's see you at 21 (ish)
Tom [PositiveLad] π³οΈβππͺπΊ (@positivelad.me)
Regretting buying the makings of a healthy salad for dinner tonight, instead of the steak I was eyeing up...
Tom [PositiveLad] π³οΈβππͺπΊ (@positivelad.me) reply parent
Perhaps, but they're unsightly. I don't want the Waitrose clientele thinking I don't care.
Tom [PositiveLad] π³οΈβππͺπΊ (@positivelad.me)
Current Friday night level of excitement: watching a documentary on nuclear waste reprocessing, and debobbling my Waitrose freezer bag.
Tom [PositiveLad] π³οΈβππͺπΊ (@positivelad.me) reply parent
Tom [PositiveLad] π³οΈβππͺπΊ (@positivelad.me) reply parent
Pfft, hardly.
Tom [PositiveLad] π³οΈβππͺπΊ (@positivelad.me)
Absolutely honoured to have had a lorry named after me.
Tom [PositiveLad] π³οΈβππͺπΊ (@positivelad.me) reply parent
And remember, Iβve known you longer than your daughter.
Tom [PositiveLad] π³οΈβππͺπΊ (@positivelad.me) reply parent
Agreed. I was sure today was Friday.
Tom [PositiveLad] π³οΈβππͺπΊ (@positivelad.me)
π«±ποΈπποΈπ«² Thurrrrsssday
Tom [PositiveLad] π³οΈβππͺπΊ (@positivelad.me) reply parent
Tom [PositiveLad] π³οΈβππͺπΊ (@positivelad.me)
I just pulled out a long eyebrow hair, and now the associated eye wonβt open. So thatβs where I am as an aging mammal.
Tom [PositiveLad] π³οΈβππͺπΊ (@positivelad.me) reply parent
That would be a perfect waste of good footwear.
Tom [PositiveLad] π³οΈβππͺπΊ (@positivelad.me)
Just discovered that some F1 drivers celebrate by drinking champagne from their trainers on the podium.
Tom [PositiveLad] π³οΈβππͺπΊ (@positivelad.me)
A reminder that AI Large Language Models (which are just spicy autocorrect) are NO SUBSTITUTE for sharing your mental health concerns with friends, family and mental health professionals. I hope the courts side with Adamβs family. www.bbc.com/news/article...
Tom [PositiveLad] π³οΈβππͺπΊ (@positivelad.me)
Possibly the best-worst automated email I've ever had. Well played, Lenovo.
Tom [PositiveLad] π³οΈβππͺπΊ (@positivelad.me) reply parent
I should have expect this from the gecko.
Tom [PositiveLad] π³οΈβππͺπΊ (@positivelad.me)
Someone just sent me a work email with the phrase βto all intensive purposesβ My face as I try not to reply and correct them:
Tom [PositiveLad] π³οΈβππͺπΊ (@positivelad.me) reply parent
I wish I had the body confidence to do this more. Sigh.
Tom [PositiveLad] π³οΈβππͺπΊ (@positivelad.me) reply parent
I like seafood night
Tom [PositiveLad] π³οΈβππͺπΊ (@positivelad.me)
Mmmn. Bed wine.
Tom [PositiveLad] π³οΈβππͺπΊ (@positivelad.me) reply parent
Tom [PositiveLad] π³οΈβππͺπΊ (@positivelad.me)
Air-con related cold bed dance π πΊ π§
Tom [PositiveLad] π³οΈβππͺπΊ (@positivelad.me)
Oh lord, @itsnovabish.novympia.com is going to be insufferable. Poor Lymp. ;)
Tom [PositiveLad] π³οΈβππͺπΊ (@positivelad.me) reply parent
What is sleep? #InsomniaLife
Tom [PositiveLad] π³οΈβππͺπΊ (@positivelad.me) reply parent
No worries! HIV related inflammation and meds can lead to increased cardiac risk. So if you can get statins where you are, might be worth asking? bhiva.org/wp-content/u...
Tom [PositiveLad] π³οΈβππͺπΊ (@positivelad.me) reply parent
Heh. My cholesterol is just fine. Actually better than average. In the UK now they recommend anyone living with HIV aged over 40 be given statins :)
Tom [PositiveLad] π³οΈβππͺπΊ (@positivelad.me) reply parent
Pill sorter filled. First dose down with a nice crisp Sauvvy B.
Tom [PositiveLad] π³οΈβππͺπΊ (@positivelad.me) reply parent
Tom [PositiveLad] π³οΈβππͺπΊ (@positivelad.me)
WELP. I guess that this means Iβm officially old now. Thanks, @drlaurajwaters.bsky.social. π ππ
Tom [PositiveLad] π³οΈβππͺπΊ (@positivelad.me)
Thatβs enough Tuesday.