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nickforbrains 🏳️‍🌈 @nickforbrains.bsky.social

See this is where I’m like, the bus cuts is a point. So that’s a point. It is 2/3 of a mile (there are sidewalks) which in my mind is not age appropriate for a 5yo (even tho I did it lol). I always walked with or drove for kinder and first grade. But like, they got more competent and I let them.

sep 1, 2025, 9:17 pm • 1 0

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Flames on the side of my face. @artificialmcb.bsky.social

Yeah that all sounds very reasonable to me. I gotta say one of the factors that kept me from having kids is the American style of intensive parenting that’s hyper restrictive & paranoid. A lot of sociological studies have shown that most American parents would actually like to give

sep 1, 2025, 9:27 pm • 1 0 • view
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Flames on the side of my face. @artificialmcb.bsky.social

their kids more responsibility & autonomy but basically default to what the most restrictive parents in their peer group do because those parents are so vocal/judgmental. You’re bucking the trend letting your kids safely walk themselves to school & it’s good for them.

sep 1, 2025, 9:27 pm • 1 0 • view
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nickforbrains 🏳️‍🌈 @nickforbrains.bsky.social

I’ve not read any of that but it’s absolutely how it works. My neighbors and I have the free-range philosophy which makes you sound like an activist but honestly it’s just like mind your own business unless it’s a problem

sep 1, 2025, 9:30 pm • 1 0 • view
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Flames on the side of my face. @artificialmcb.bsky.social

My neighborhood is pretty free range too which I think is more normal for our area. I’m a porch lady, I keep an eye on the kids without being intrusive. Neighbor kids know they can come to my house if there’s an emergency while their parents are gone.

sep 1, 2025, 9:41 pm • 1 0 • view
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nickforbrains 🏳️‍🌈 @nickforbrains.bsky.social

That’s the thing. No one has the habit of casting an eye without getting involved.

sep 1, 2025, 10:36 pm • 1 0 • view