It shouldn't be work to consider others, be kind, be respectful. It's kindergarten lessons.

If these men spent as much time doing the work as they spent trying to get out of it, this (and so many related systemic issues) would've been solved ages ago! It's every group project ever, where someone wants the A, the pat on the pack - and everyone else to do the work for them! "But I can't..."

I view it as a lack and failure of imagination that keeps the egocentrism bubbling. But then I was "that kid" that actually "thought about what I did" in timeout after going up the slide backwards. It is a skill but not hard.

Well you will die alone and it will be your own fault

enjoy being alone then, don’t know what to tell you!

How many hours a day do you spend consuming media, including video games?

Not being a total dick is free and you can practice any time you like.

It's a responsibility, not a privilege you dipshit

“I’ve done nothing and it hasn’t worked”

you need money and time to be a decent person? What’s the matter with you?

What exactly do you think “the work” is here? Actually while we’re here what do you think Love is and what Social Standard are people being expected to meet? Because I think your definitions might be fucked.

Fine stay an unpleasant misogynist and stew in it i guess not our problem 🤷🏼‍♀️

I'm not a misogynist, or particularly unpleasant according to the people who know me. You DON'T know me, nor do any of the 30+ replies that have dogpiled on me all morning basically telling me to kill myself. Your opinion of me based on a single online interaction is not my responsibility.

The people who know you are lying to you. They all think you're a whining prick.

To be fair, they're not lying to him, because they don't exist.

it's a really fucking dumb post though, one that makes you sound like a massive crybaby dipshit, so maybe it is your responsibility? much too think about, except you're too busy for self-reflection of course

Aye you are - you’re a disgusting misogynist prick who will die alone and unloved

Nobody forced you to say that women owe you love, you decided to do that yourself. Your inability to understand why people consider that freakish is not anyone else’s problem.

Well, your single online interaction was about straight men being owed romantic love. If straight men are owed this, then someone owes it to them, yes? Women? And if women owe men romantic love, then they don't have the right to refuse, correct? That's not romantic love, that's rape.

Not a single post has come anywhere close to telling you to kill yourself. You just can't cope with people thinking you're a dick.

Playing devil's advocate gets you treated like the devil, dummy.

If you're telling people that men don't have the time and energy to not be a piece of shit, which is basically what you said, yes, you're a misogynist.

Women. Don't. Owe. Men. Anything.

I've had a quick skim of your timeline to see if that helps matters and I gotta tell ya buddy, it really doesn't! Gamergate-adjacent posting, Rowling defending, blue-Maga whining...

If you think it takes that much to not be a piece of shit, I have bad news for you...

sorry you don't have the privilege of viewing women as fully autonomous people in their own right I guess?

Fuck off, you ridiculous cunt.

Honestly, yours is one of the most pathetic comments I've ever seen.

Every man owes himself the mental and emotional work to achieve well being. Wtf. You owe ot to yourself.

So ur too lazy to self reflect but also co-opt therapy language got it

i would recommend they practice some self-care. however, the online safety act has made that more difficult

So just turning "men need to get laid" into "men need porn/other objectifications of women for self-care." FYI, the government - like women, the internet, or whatever other BS to avoid personal responsibility - isn't the impediment to your growth or self-actulization. It's still a you-problem.

Or, it's a joke about the puerile interpretation of the phrase self-care and isn't saying shit about "men needing porn" Wouldn't be Bluesky without the random manufactured outrage, though...

What a weird thing to say!

Tough shit, Jimmy

Die mad.

So like what's your solution? Does society have to issue you a girlfriend that has to put up with you? How is it a societal problem that you can't do the work to find love? I just don't get the problem you're having unless you're the problem and you need to grow and change as a person to fix it.

But 'not being a prick' is free, doesn't take any extra time, and is a decent proportion of 'the work' ??

Sure, you may not have the resources to do *all* the work, at this moment. However, due diligence requires that you work on what you can, now.