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lilcoppertopšŸ‰ @lilcoppertop.bsky.social

As a woman, this argument has always baffled me. I don't know a single woman with a guy who fits that description, nor do I know any who are looking for a guy like that. And I know many women who are happily in relationships with men. I'm glad you got out.

aug 14, 2025, 4:55 pm • 4 0

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Andy of Maps @andysmaps.bsky.social

There are some people (I am one) who are attracted to simple Just-So stories asserting universal rules of human behavior. If someone hasn't learned that the world is messier than that, they can be persuaded of many untrue things. I'm glad I got out too.

aug 14, 2025, 5:00 pm • 3 0 • view
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lilcoppertopšŸ‰ @lilcoppertop.bsky.social

I am also one of those people. It's been hard learning to live in nuance and "gray" areas...I like things to be cut-and-dried or one-size-fits-all. My poison was religion.

aug 14, 2025, 5:03 pm • 2 0 • view
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lilcoppertopšŸ‰ @lilcoppertop.bsky.social

But I just realized you said "get laid" and I said "relationship"...and yeah, if a guy is ONLY looking to get laid, all those 6s definitely help your chances. It's not gonna fix the loneliness though...just improve your chances of one night stands.

aug 14, 2025, 5:00 pm • 2 0 • view