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PortiaMcGonagal @portiamcgonagal.bsky.social

And when you won't, you're labeled difficult, angry, unforgiving etc. I can live with that (and have).

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jun 22, 2025, 1:30 pm • 715 126

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thxchef.bsky.social @thxchef.bsky.social

Sadly true. Terrible.

jun 23, 2025, 12:28 pm • 1 0 • view
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John Pollack @johnpolecat.bsky.social

Be difficult, angry, unforgiving. Who cares what those who label think. It’s all they have. Otherwise, they’d be more compelling with their attacks against victims. Scumbags.

jun 23, 2025, 11:59 am • 8 0 • view
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WriteatHome @writeathomestkitts.bsky.social

Yup. Me too.

jun 23, 2025, 2:02 pm • 0 0 • view
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doc2marines.bsky.social @doc2marines.bsky.social

I quit going to a cigar shop after the election and told a few of the guys, they can hang out at my house or we can go to each other's but I refuse to hang around the magats. I go grab my cigars and walk out, I dont even acknowledge them if I see them.

jun 22, 2025, 2:03 pm • 6 0 • view
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PortiaMcGonagal @portiamcgonagal.bsky.social

I hear you. Hubs enjoys his at home. We have a little cigar patio set up. He went once to a very cool looking place and it was all masters of the universe conservative men and he was OUT.

jun 22, 2025, 2:06 pm • 4 0 • view
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doc2marines.bsky.social @doc2marines.bsky.social

My morning view of the Franklin Mountains. a weekend visit, have to deal with drama and then go pay my respects to my mom and stepdad.

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jun 22, 2025, 2:27 pm • 3 0 • view
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PortiaMcGonagal @portiamcgonagal.bsky.social

Nice!!

jun 22, 2025, 2:30 pm • 3 0 • view
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mjlinde.bsky.social @mjlinde.bsky.social

Indeed.

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jun 23, 2025, 1:43 pm • 3 0 • view
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notintimidated.bsky.social @notintimidated.bsky.social

Except it’s the Billionaires sitting at the side without the hole.

jun 23, 2025, 2:25 pm • 1 0 • view
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mjlinde.bsky.social @mjlinde.bsky.social

That they are...

jun 23, 2025, 2:27 pm • 0 0 • view
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Magz98610 @magz98610.bsky.social

Exactly 💯

jun 23, 2025, 3:47 pm • 0 0 • view
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tydog33.bsky.social @tydog33.bsky.social

Not quite true that’s why you have a lawyer ! Cause your lawyer won’t be emotional and blow the case

jun 23, 2025, 2:43 am • 1 0 • view
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Lisa Nicole @lisa7nicole.bsky.social

Friend you spitting truths this morning.

jun 22, 2025, 1:52 pm • 3 0 • view
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watertigernyc @watertigernyc.bsky.social

Come sit by me. /pats sofa cushion

jun 22, 2025, 5:08 pm • 2 0 • view
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Zadett Rosslyn @zadett.bsky.social

I have always in my life, looked down upon by others for being unforgiving for the injustice that fall among us. In my deathbed, I will have a pride standing by my convictions.

jun 23, 2025, 4:22 am • 0 0 • view
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Meli ✨ @wayofthelotus.bsky.social

It's that "Christian" mindset of forgiveness that's warped everyone's brain.

jun 22, 2025, 1:45 pm • 3 0 • view
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jezz5150.bsky.social @jezz5150.bsky.social

You shouldn’t have to

jun 23, 2025, 1:07 pm • 0 0 • view
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Her Soldier: 🇺🇦🇨🇦🌈🦄🌸💙💜 No MAGA’s @hersoldier.bsky.social

Our abuser stabbed my 6yr old brother’s hand w/ his fork for touching the chicken. I was 8. I oicked up my fork and stabbed him back.”How does it feel you son of a bitch, now get your sht and get out”! He did & we didn’t put up w/ bs after that.

jun 23, 2025, 1:41 pm • 0 0 • view
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Lori @tygergyrl17.bsky.social

Exactly what Scientology does

jun 23, 2025, 12:08 pm • 2 0 • view
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Proud member of 92 who carried through! @kaptruthbetold.bsky.social

I live in a mindset that abuser will fall asleep! Then 💥⚡️🔥…great movie with the late actress Farrah Faucet called The Burning Bed! IMO! IJS! 🤷🏽‍♀️

jun 22, 2025, 1:41 pm • 4 0 • view
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💧WOWBAGGER 🇵🇸 Israel Is Evil 🇵🇸 @eschertology.bsky.social

I got that when I left my abusive ex and refused to be in the same room as her

jun 23, 2025, 2:22 pm • 0 0 • view
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THEE Widow Empress of Death J.D.❤️‍🩹🐝 @oreginal49ers.bsky.social

Nah. I'd watch you do this to them and tell folks I never saw a thing.

jun 22, 2025, 3:41 pm • 2 0 • view
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JT♍️🐞 @jt9701.bsky.social

I refuse. I've already rocked that boat.

jun 22, 2025, 1:35 pm • 7 0 • view
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jlfrussell.bsky.social @jlfrussell.bsky.social

Same…same…

jun 22, 2025, 4:17 pm • 2 0 • view
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Mad Girl @boomer4bs.bsky.social

Live is the key word. Live with that or be unalived. Not really a choice is it.

jun 22, 2025, 2:16 pm • 1 0 • view
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ws75.bsky.social @ws75.bsky.social

That is absolutely true!

jun 23, 2025, 2:24 pm • 0 0 • view
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newandabitalarming.bsky.social @newandabitalarming.bsky.social

If you’ve ever been an abusive relationship, you know exactly what’s going on right now.

jun 23, 2025, 1:13 pm • 1 0 • view
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notintimidated.bsky.social @notintimidated.bsky.social

Always speak Truth, Always!

jun 23, 2025, 2:27 pm • 0 0 • view
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gwpda.bsky.social @gwpda.bsky.social

'People' are entitled. That's all.

jun 22, 2025, 5:06 pm • 2 0 • view
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marikomarie.bsky.social @marikomarie.bsky.social

Our friends all chose me.

jun 23, 2025, 3:44 am • 0 0 • view
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marikomarie.bsky.social @marikomarie.bsky.social

I haven’t sat at a table with mine since 2008.

jun 23, 2025, 3:45 am • 0 0 • view
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Self Driving Humans @selfdrivinghumans.bsky.social

☝️

jun 23, 2025, 2:25 pm • 0 0 • view
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littlecesar70.bsky.social @littlecesar70.bsky.social

The toxicity was so bad my own brother became the abuser" disavowed detachment engaged.

jun 23, 2025, 5:09 am • 0 0 • view
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GloriaLynn @glorialynn.bsky.social

For years, I had to be in the presence of my ex, the serial abuser, because we had children together. I'd go out of my way to grab the kids/grandkids and get as far away from him as possible. Fortunately, I haven't had to deal with him for several years now.

jun 23, 2025, 2:29 pm • 0 0 • view
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suzythealpacagoth.bsky.social @suzythealpacagoth.bsky.social

I've long said i don't forgive and forget because it leads to more abuse. I learn and leave.

jun 22, 2025, 5:31 pm • 15 1 • view
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PortiaMcGonagal @portiamcgonagal.bsky.social

I love "learn and leave".

jun 22, 2025, 5:49 pm • 4 0 • view
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Bird Nerd Is Proud And Free 🌈 @vozderaquel.bsky.social

Especially if something bad happens to the abuser and you're glad it did. Oh yes. Then you're a horrible person. Nope. Abuser was horrible. Horrible things should happen to the abuser.

jun 22, 2025, 3:33 pm • 0 0 • view
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Kathy @queensk.bsky.social

Very true.

jun 23, 2025, 12:44 pm • 1 0 • view
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Adestia.Liam @xerxerses.bsky.social

Bees 🐝 can go pfuck themselves.

jun 22, 2025, 8:26 pm • 1 0 • view
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Monica @mouse63.bsky.social

I'm so sorry that happened to you.

jun 23, 2025, 11:32 am • 2 0 • view
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thejoysmith.bsky.social @thejoysmith.bsky.social

What are we labelled if we chose to sit at the same table if only to stare at them without saying anything just to remind them of what they did and they never asked for forgiveness? Whether it is given or not, the acknowledgement without threat of incarceration or loss of fortune means something?

jun 25, 2025, 1:02 am • 0 0 • view
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sundene 🇳🇴 📎 @sundene.bsky.social

Me too. Apparently, in part because I am a small woman, I’m sometimes invisible and on mute. So when I really speak up, it’s “why are you so angry?” Maybe bc you’ve been talking over and around me like I’m not here? Went through a bunch of this when I (ME, not hubby) bought a car 2 years ago.

jun 23, 2025, 12:33 pm • 6 0 • view
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Abbe Normal🇺🇸🇨🇦🇺🇦💙 No DMs please! @originalabbenormal.bsky.social

Hell NO!!

jun 23, 2025, 1:11 pm • 0 0 • view