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MsEvelyn @msevelyn.bsky.social

Dr Daskalakis and I will probably never meet, but despite that he made me feel like a person for a few moments and I'm thankful.

aug 29, 2025, 1:36 am • 94 2

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♣️TotsAndPears🍌 @herrari.bsky.social

You don’t feel like a person? That’s what I don’t understand. I’m not being snarky. But I don’t get it. You’re a living breathing communicative entity walking the Earth. How can you not feel like a person”? What else is there to feel like?

aug 29, 2025, 2:13 am • 6 1 • view
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cr4sh0v3rr1d3 @g4tv.net

This.

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aug 29, 2025, 3:20 am • 2 0 • view
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Virtualis Habilis @virtualis.bsky.social

Dehumanizing is a thing for a reason: the constant grind of hearing that you don't or shouldn't exist takes its psychic toll on everyone exposed to it.

aug 29, 2025, 10:03 am • 5 0 • view
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ghosty @ghostymost.bsky.social

dehumanizing rhetoric and policies towards a group of people can make members of that group feel dehumanized. it’s not exactly difficult to understand.

aug 29, 2025, 3:02 am • 14 0 • view
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♣️TotsAndPears🍌 @herrari.bsky.social

I’ve been called all sorts of names in my 55 years. How I choose to see myself as my choice. Not dictated by others. Stop letting them win.

aug 29, 2025, 6:29 pm • 0 0 • view
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ghosty @ghostymost.bsky.social

you seem a bit self absorbed

aug 29, 2025, 8:12 pm • 2 0 • view
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Angry Persian Gardener 🏳️‍⚧️ 🏳️‍🌈 ✊🏾 @angrypersiangardnr.bsky.social

You’re making this about you

aug 30, 2025, 12:52 am • 0 0 • view
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AlexJChambers @alexjchambers.bsky.social

Then you don’t understand what trans people are going through. On his first day in office, chump ordered all fed agencies to stop recognizing the existence of trans people. Republikkkans have 658 anti-trans bills circulating through the country. Texass is trying to pass a bill that makes being trans

aug 29, 2025, 11:19 am • 3 0 • view
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♣️TotsAndPears🍌 @herrari.bsky.social

I literally said I don’t understand it. I cannot put myself in the shoes of a trans person and feel it. I am a woman, so I’ve had my fill of having to work twice as hard to be ignored twice as often as my white male peers. So I get that. But I don’t feel dehumanized. I’m not unseen or a victim.

aug 29, 2025, 6:27 pm • 0 0 • view
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AlexJChambers @alexjchambers.bsky.social

Until then, shhhh

aug 29, 2025, 6:32 pm • 1 0 • view
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AlexJChambers @alexjchambers.bsky.social

When you’re government says don’t recognize YOUR existence, then you’ll understand 🙄

aug 29, 2025, 6:30 pm • 0 0 • view
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AlexJChambers @alexjchambers.bsky.social

transgender a FELONY. The constant hate especially towards trans women is dehumanizing.

aug 29, 2025, 11:20 am • 3 0 • view
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my mamas child @2024fighter.bsky.social

When you are literally called a “creature” by a graduate level professor, are told by the government that you literally do not exist, are called, “defective” and “deformed” consistently…. Yeah. , and told constantly that your only worth is in being a servant….. yeah, that takes a toll.

aug 29, 2025, 2:44 am • 12 1 • view
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♣️TotsAndPears🍌 @herrari.bsky.social

Oh you mean like women? Girls? Our whole lives? At some point, you have to stop being the victim, and toughen up, and stop letting other people dictate how you see yourself. And how others see you. Victimhood emboldens them. Stop letting them win.

aug 29, 2025, 6:31 pm • 0 0 • view
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my mamas child @2024fighter.bsky.social

Um…. No. However, being called an “earthen vessel,” and being told, “women aren’t people,” and, “your only purposes for existing is to have babies and be a slave for a husband,”— you get the idea that men do not see women as actual human beings. And unfortunately, many of these men are in

aug 29, 2025, 6:38 pm • 0 0 • view
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my mamas child @2024fighter.bsky.social

Charge of our government. And they are doing things like refusing to allow a dead woman (whose death they CAUSED, btw) to be buried with dignity. They are taking away birth control. They are forcing 10-year-olds to marry. They are taking away the ability for women to divorce, and to vote. And to

aug 29, 2025, 6:39 pm • 0 0 • view
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my mamas child @2024fighter.bsky.social

Have a job. They USED that woman’s dead corpse to grow an embryo. Against her will. You DO realize that DNRs are invalid if you’re pregnant? You can’t divorce while pregnant Yeah, those things impact women. Daily. And are yet more ways women are told they aren’t human beings and men despise them

aug 29, 2025, 6:42 pm • 1 0 • view
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my mamas child @2024fighter.bsky.social

You are completely ignoring that when people who have legal authority are telling you these things, it’s not about “how you see yourself.” It’s about how you are ALLOWED to exist in the world, and being punished, often legally, often physically, and even killed for it.

aug 29, 2025, 6:43 pm • 0 0 • view
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Angry Persian Gardener 🏳️‍⚧️ 🏳️‍🌈 ✊🏾 @angrypersiangardnr.bsky.social

This feels like you may be having main character syndrome

aug 30, 2025, 12:56 am • 1 0 • view
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Angry Persian Gardener 🏳️‍⚧️ 🏳️‍🌈 ✊🏾 @angrypersiangardnr.bsky.social

Are you telling everyone how to feel?

aug 30, 2025, 12:53 am • 1 0 • view
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Angry Persian Gardener 🏳️‍⚧️ 🏳️‍🌈 ✊🏾 @angrypersiangardnr.bsky.social

Who is the “you” that you’re referring to? Are you saying that to all trans ppl? The language we use isn’t always about ourselves, sometimes it’s a way to shift the world to seeing an othered person as well, a person

aug 29, 2025, 3:57 am • 4 0 • view
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♣️TotsAndPears🍌 @herrari.bsky.social

The “you“ I was referring to was the person who I responded to. The specific person who said those words.

aug 29, 2025, 6:35 pm • 0 0 • view
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MsEvelyn @msevelyn.bsky.social

Sometimes the othering, dehumanization, delegitimization, etc. makes me feel disconnected from people. I'll feel more like a ghost, or a non-human animal, or an intellectual exercise, to name a few. It's been especially difficult since the shooting.

aug 29, 2025, 2:21 am • 65 1 • view
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Laurie🇺🇸🦅~ 1,219,487 dead Americans bec of Drumpf @loccconsulting.bsky.social

MsEvelyn, I’m truly sorry you feel this way. Pls know that there are many of us who have your back and would gladly give our own lives to save your skin (no hyperbole, I totally mean it!).

aug 29, 2025, 7:46 am • 2 0 • view
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Laurie🇺🇸🦅~ 1,219,487 dead Americans bec of Drumpf @loccconsulting.bsky.social

I’m tired of ppl living in fear or not feeling they are worthy while these dickheads & racists mfers think they can prance around dictating who can live w/ peace & who needs to go into hiding. Well f*ck them. I’m over these f’ing bullies. The best way to deal w/ bullies is to punch them in the face

aug 29, 2025, 7:49 am • 3 1 • view
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♣️TotsAndPears🍌 @herrari.bsky.social

Agree 100%

aug 29, 2025, 6:32 pm • 0 0 • view
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Hillwoman @hillwomans.bsky.social

👊

aug 29, 2025, 6:32 pm • 1 0 • view
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Hillwoman @hillwomans.bsky.social

Yes yes yes

aug 29, 2025, 6:32 pm • 2 0 • view
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sunnygrapefruit.bsky.social @sunnygrapefruit.bsky.social

I'm sorry.

aug 29, 2025, 2:45 am • 0 0 • view
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ghosty @ghostymost.bsky.social

terfs like tots are incapable of empathizing with this

aug 29, 2025, 2:58 am • 20 1 • view
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Deborah Elizabeth Finn @deborahelizabeth.bsky.social

Empathy not cruelty
aug 31, 2025, 12:51 pm • 1 0 • view
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⚜️ Johanne Leroux 🇨🇦 @joler.bsky.social

Sending a virtual hug from an aunty in Canada.

aug 29, 2025, 5:25 am • 0 0 • view