I think you’re generally right *but* I think many more men think they are romantically disadvantaged than actually are, and also straight men have more ways to make up for physical disadvantages than straight women
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I don't think I have an opinion either way, but why do you think men have more ways to make up for physical disadvantages?
aug 2, 2025, 12:59 am • 3 0 • view
I think straight men tend to be shallower than straight women when it comes to physical attractiveness
aug 2, 2025, 1:00 am • 9 0 • view
All of these are obviously gross generalizations
aug 2, 2025, 1:01 am • 3 0 • view
I agree, but how is that a way to make up for physical shortcomings? I thought you had something like "be rich" or "build muscles" or things of that type in mind.
aug 2, 2025, 1:02 am • 0 0 • view
Oh I mean yeah, I think status can definitely improve a straight man’s desirability, but I also mean stuff like charisma, humor, interesting hobbies etc
aug 2, 2025, 1:04 am • 3 0 • view
Ah, gotcha.
aug 2, 2025, 1:05 am • 0 0 • view
It's not a law of nature or anything, but it's definitely how our society works
aug 2, 2025, 1:01 am • 5 0 • view
partly, I think, there's always a gap between "I want to be desired by EVERYONE" and "I want to be desired by this person in particular" and then the reality of "I am desired by some cool people"
aug 2, 2025, 12:53 am • 49 1 • view
Being desired by everyone would be an absolute nightmare. Like bad genie curse shit.
aug 2, 2025, 5:16 am • 10 1 • view