A space that enables abusers and refuses to remove them isn't a safe one. A space that stays silent when victims speak isn't safe for anyone and deserves to fall apart. I refuse to exist in, participate, or enable these behaviors ever again. I've been the victim, and the "sole one to speak up with
victims. If reading this and the other things that I and others have said makes you not want to be around myself and those affected/also speaking up? You're part of the problem. I love what I love because of WHAT those things are. Not because hyperfixated manchildren refuse to engage with anything
and they make it their entire personality, thinking anyone else that also does this auto-makes them a good person. So, if you notice my absence and wonder what happened? Just know your inaction and enabling led to my departure. I'll survive, and I'll have less things to roll my eyes at each day.