I’m in the same position. I asked my mom not to ask me to take care of her.

Yeah, I doubt I'll be keeping in touch with either sister after mum is gone. They'll swoop in and start ravaging the house to take all the stuff they want I'm sure. Then I'll probably never hear from them again. Fine with me. They've done nothing to help with mum, at all.

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It's why I kept wanting mom to spend her money on herself vs. leaving what she did...