i'm not shaming you i'm pointing out that your logic is dumb as shit and many of those options are in fact harmful to society at large if people do them at scale. it's not just about you.

Wow, seriously? How does grocery shopping and cooking at home, growing a large garden and eating plant based or picking up carry out on the way home from work harm anyone else? Should we just not eat then? And you are shaming without knowing a thing about what I eat or if I cook.

xie specially called out "requiring someone to bring it to you in their car"

You never know someone’s reason for ordering a meal to be delivered. Not everyone does it daily or to purposely harm the environment. The person could be recovering from a surgery, going through cancer treatments, exhausted after a long work day and have kids to feed. Have some grace.

Those are special cases. Not everyone doing it all the time, "at scale", which is what xie was calling out.