We had a great sexual relationship before but obviously that dynamic has changed and I’m struggling a lot more with that, than Lynn. Lynn has said that sex isn’t important to her anymore and is content, but that’s were we can’t agree on. I’m not content, I miss the love making…
Big hugs. I hope you both navigate your ways around the situation. Xxx
I need lesbian love that Lynn can’t give me, because Lynn is heterosexual. We do cuddle and caress but it’s just not enough. I just can’t talk to her about it, without causing distress for both of us. We do not intend to break up, because we love each other but it’s not easy adjusting to a new life.
Age has played a factor in all of it and menopause, so I need to be considerate and patient and grateful for her not giving up on me. Because she is my rock and I love her. I should think a lot of you can relate to my feelings.
Absolutely can relate, in the same boat, almost every word.
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It's such a difficult journey and the amount of work, and it's a process to that kind of self-awareness. Hope you're both ok and always happy to hear you out if you need it.