Feel like I’m too awkward to make good conversation on dating/hookup apps and also too awkward in person to really attract someone…
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Same.
jul 6, 2025, 5:30 pm • 0 0 • view
I've found a simple "good morning" or "how's your day going" can do a lot to break down those barriers.
jul 6, 2025, 6:00 pm • 0 0 • view
I'm sure you're not, most of us are nervous meeting new people
jul 6, 2025, 4:41 pm • 0 0 • view
Also like what the fuck do people want on Grindr? Am I meant to just start with “sex now” like these creeps do?
jul 6, 2025, 4:47 pm • 10 0 • view
Grindr has gone significantly down hill this last 2 years
jul 6, 2025, 4:51 pm • 0 0 • view
I’m pretty sure it was always shit…
jul 6, 2025, 4:51 pm • 3 0 • view
True
jul 6, 2025, 5:07 pm • 0 0 • view
But seriously can I just meet a nice cute nerd around my age who lives not a million miles away?
jul 6, 2025, 4:40 pm • 7 0 • view
Know the feeling, everyone I get close to seems to live far away or just wants to be friends. It'll happen though so got to keep trying 😊
jul 6, 2025, 4:46 pm • 1 0 • view
I feel your pain. I have the same struggle.
jul 6, 2025, 4:45 pm • 1 0 • view
I agree. I'm too self conscious and have high anxiety to do the dating app thing. Plus I'm older so I'm over playing dating games. I enjoy the solitude of being free but I do get lonely at times. Also I prefer to meet people in person but at the same time I'm too shy 😩
jul 6, 2025, 11:36 pm • 1 0 • view
I feel this like dating is hard and I feel like it takes a while for me to warm up 🫤
jul 6, 2025, 4:42 pm • 1 0 • view
Yeah like kinda need someone to wanna gradually get to know me
jul 6, 2025, 4:44 pm • 1 0 • view
Yeah exactly like seeing if humour matches etc etc it really is brutal out here lmao
jul 6, 2025, 4:49 pm • 1 0 • view
I know what you mean. We need a gay nerds dating app.
jul 6, 2025, 5:23 pm • 0 0 • view
Same. I don’t use dating apps anymore.
jul 6, 2025, 4:56 pm • 0 0 • view
I feel you on that! 🫠
jul 6, 2025, 7:13 pm • 1 0 • view