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Asher Elbein @asherelbein.bsky.social

Farley passed today at around 11. My parents got him as a little puppy a year after I left for college, so he was always a presence there whenever I came back to visit. He liked to kick a ball back and forth and was extremely selective in who he liked. We liked each other a lot. I'll miss him.

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aug 21, 2025, 1:09 am • 125 1

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Gretchen Felker-Martin 🍉 @scumbelievable.bsky.social

i'm so sorry, Asher

aug 21, 2025, 1:31 am • 2 0 • view
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Tree Planter @edorko.bsky.social

Very sorry

aug 21, 2025, 1:29 am • 0 0 • view
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Lu 💙 @luful.bsky.social

😔

aug 21, 2025, 1:23 am • 0 0 • view
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Jason A Fleece @jafleece.bsky.social

I'm so sorry for your loss.

aug 21, 2025, 1:11 am • 1 0 • view
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chelsea g. summers @chelseagsummers.bsky.social

All the love from me and Bob the Dog.

aug 21, 2025, 1:40 am • 1 0 • view
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Curb Your Malthusiasm @manuclearbomb.bsky.social

My condolences buddy

aug 21, 2025, 1:22 am • 1 0 • view
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malorie @malorienilson.com

I am so very sorry.

aug 21, 2025, 1:33 am • 1 0 • view
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Jason @gadling.bsky.social

I am so sorry for your loss

aug 21, 2025, 1:16 am • 1 0 • view
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Illmatic on JK Rowling @buckrawheat.bsky.social

It sounds like you guys gave him a wonderful life. 🫂

aug 21, 2025, 1:32 am • 0 0 • view
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Alex Wild @alexwild.bsky.social

I’m so sorry.

aug 21, 2025, 1:15 am • 1 0 • view
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Ben @franzferdinand2.bsky.social

Ah shit.

aug 21, 2025, 1:28 am • 1 0 • view
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Asher Elbein @asherelbein.bsky.social

Happens, you know?

aug 21, 2025, 1:31 am • 1 0 • view
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Ben @franzferdinand2.bsky.social

Yeah, and it always sucks.

aug 21, 2025, 1:50 am • 1 0 • view
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Asher Elbein @asherelbein.bsky.social

What a thing it is, to love a being with a lifespan so much shorter than ours

aug 21, 2025, 1:10 am • 23 0 • view
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i'm just patrick, deep down @ouisequitur.bsky.social

you feel the love then feel the loss then the love comes around again

aug 21, 2025, 1:17 am • 1 0 • view
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Sane English @saneenglish.bsky.social

It's hard to grapple with. Recommend checking out Rachel Bloom's take on this topic in her Netflix special.

aug 21, 2025, 1:15 am • 1 0 • view
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Costa Koutsoutis @costakout.bsky.social

Oh I’m so sorry. He looks like he was so loved.

aug 21, 2025, 1:11 am • 1 0 • view
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Tina Hoggatt @thoggatt.bsky.social

Yes it is. A great privilege.

aug 21, 2025, 1:13 am • 1 0 • view
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Asher Elbein @asherelbein.bsky.social

I spent a six month period recuperating at my parents' house from a major round of surgeries, and Farley spent a very large chunk of that on the bed, keeping me company. He'd never done that before when I'd come to stay, and seldom did it afterward. But he did it when it mattered.

aug 21, 2025, 1:13 am • 26 0 • view
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Irma @eckslibris.bsky.social

I'm sorry for your loss, pets are family 💜

aug 21, 2025, 1:15 am • 1 0 • view
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Robin Baraybar @robinbaraybar.bsky.social

Dogs just know and I'm glad he was there for you.

aug 21, 2025, 1:14 am • 2 0 • view
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Asher Elbein @asherelbein.bsky.social

Anyway, I'm not really asking for condolences, as such. He was very old, and in a lot of pain, and it was time. I knew this was coming. I'm just struck by the fact of it, I suppose: academically, I knew I was going to out-live him. But now, here I am, on the other side of him. And that's how it goes

aug 21, 2025, 1:15 am • 21 0 • view
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Martha Crawford @whatashrinkthinks.com

Its always sad when they finish up their work caring for us and head on their way. Even when its time. A chapter closes. They always seem to leave at the end of one chapter or the start of the next.

aug 21, 2025, 1:17 am • 0 0 • view
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Michael Bazemore @deepwatermike.bsky.social

It's the very worst because they are the best. I have three right now, and two that I have had to provide the final kindness to. Each was devastating, and these will be, too. My heart breaks a little to think of it. But it's a bargain for what they give me. It's the best deal humans have made.

aug 21, 2025, 1:29 am • 1 0 • view
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Bowiesongs (C. O'Leary) @bowiesongs.bsky.social

it's always tough to say goodbye. hope you're doing okay: he looks like a great pup

aug 21, 2025, 1:25 am • 2 0 • view
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Vitanuova @vitanuova.bsky.social

It is sad that our lifespans don’t sync. These beautiful creatures that live their whole lives out while we are having some personal journey through a stage, they love us completely and we are their world. Bless you for making this little guy’s shorter journey as happy and comfortable as possible!

aug 21, 2025, 1:36 am • 1 0 • view
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Robert Simmon @rsimmon.bsky.social

He was adorable, and I’m glad you were able to share the time you had together.

aug 21, 2025, 1:22 am • 0 0 • view
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Jay Edidin @edidin.bsky.social

I’m so sorry, my friend. May his memory be a blessing.

aug 21, 2025, 1:19 am • 4 0 • view
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véronique emma houxbois @emmahouxbois.bsky.social

🫡

aug 21, 2025, 1:14 am • 1 0 • view
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Scott Moore @scottmoore.bsky.social

What a sweet pup! Thank you for the musings.

aug 21, 2025, 1:33 am • 0 0 • view