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Kate Bevan @katebevan.com

that's right up there with "gifted" when "given" exists and is perfectly fine

aug 29, 2025, 7:36 pm • 19 1

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Sandettie Lumiere @lightvessel.bsky.social

“Blessed” when “Boy, the randomness of the universe really is scary when you think about it” will suffice.

aug 29, 2025, 7:49 pm • 1 0 • view
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Kate Bevan @katebevan.com

ha ha, yes

aug 29, 2025, 7:50 pm • 0 0 • view
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Dave Lee @davelee.me

Ahhh I don't know on this one. Surely "given" is neutral whereas "gifted" suggests a kind act/intention? (Unless used sarcastically)

aug 29, 2025, 7:42 pm • 0 0 • view
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Kate Bevan @katebevan.com

"gifted" reeks of influencer-speak to me: it feels incredibly insincere. "Thank you to Big Lipstick, who gifted me this incredible tube of lippy."

aug 29, 2025, 7:45 pm • 0 0 • view
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Dave Lee @davelee.me

In that context, sure. But "I was given a book" could be taken to mean anything from a gift to a grotty boring textbook handed out on the first day of school. May have to give it back. vs "I was gifted a book" ... someone gave me this book as a gesture; it is mine now etc etc

aug 29, 2025, 7:49 pm • 1 0 • view
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Kate Bevan @katebevan.com

"I was given a lovely book" exists

aug 29, 2025, 7:50 pm • 0 0 • view
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Jan Jones @janjonesauthor.bsky.social

I hate 'gifted' as a verb so much.

aug 29, 2025, 7:42 pm • 0 0 • view
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Kate Bevan @katebevan.com

me too. I'm mostly reasonably sanguine about how the language changes, but this one really grates on me

aug 29, 2025, 7:46 pm • 0 0 • view
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Nick Tordoff @briandrian.bsky.social

“Obligated” and “administrated”?

aug 29, 2025, 8:28 pm • 1 0 • view
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Kate Bevan @katebevan.com

😫😫

aug 29, 2025, 8:31 pm • 0 0 • view
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Nick Tordoff @briandrian.bsky.social

Wow. Here’s an idea! Why don’t we create a secret list of words to show that we are human. Obliged, administer, give. I would add “use” (not “utilise”).

aug 29, 2025, 8:47 pm • 0 0 • view
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Chris Davies @crd37.bsky.social

The ongoing advance of Americanisms My favourites are: burglarize for its redundancy and pressurize when they mean to pressure someone, for the fact that actually pressurizing other people should be banned as cruel and unusual

aug 29, 2025, 9:37 pm • 0 0 • view
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Jennifer Williams @jenwilliamsft.bsky.social

I’ve always found skyrocketed annoying. Rocketed is sufficient

aug 29, 2025, 7:41 pm • 8 0 • view
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Kate Bevan @katebevan.com

YES.

aug 29, 2025, 7:46 pm • 1 0 • view
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Richard K @rkemb.bsky.social

But Afternoon Delight doesn't scan otherwise.

aug 29, 2025, 7:47 pm • 3 0 • view
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Kate Bevan @katebevan.com

that is such a terrible lyric, though

aug 29, 2025, 7:48 pm • 2 0 • view
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William @filbyhead.bsky.social

Says someone who’s never enjoyed any Afternoon Delight.

aug 30, 2025, 3:16 am • 2 0 • view
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Richard K @rkemb.bsky.social

Sturgeon's Law applies to lyrics too.

aug 29, 2025, 7:49 pm • 2 0 • view
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Richard K @rkemb.bsky.social

But regifted is quite a useful word.

aug 29, 2025, 7:39 pm • 1 0 • view
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Kate Bevan @katebevan.com

it means "I didn't like that present and I've lumbered someone else with it", which, like "gifted", reeks of insincerity

aug 29, 2025, 7:47 pm • 2 0 • view
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Richard K @rkemb.bsky.social

I mean we need insincere words too, we have a subtle language

aug 29, 2025, 7:48 pm • 1 0 • view