It just blows my mind! We were raised in the same household with the same values. How did he turn out so different??? Of course, I don't know how I turned out the way I did, either. He's retired military so I guess he was indoctrinated there. I would like to ask if he is willing to kill me if it .

comes to civil war but I'm afraid of his answer! We love each other and get along, as long as we don't bring up politics at all. That is our agreement for now.