I still, btw, find copies of Matt’s health care proxy form squirreled away. I used to have one in every bag, the back of every planner/journal, anywhere I *might* think to look in a panic, so I would have it when I needed it.
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Wait did you guys finally get married 👀
aug 13, 2025, 7:59 pm • 2 0 • view
We still haven’t thrown a party (….. someday?!), but, well:
aug 13, 2025, 8:04 pm • 6 0 • view
Congratulations, my dear friends! My heart is so happy to see this ❤️❤️
aug 14, 2025, 7:58 am • 0 0 • view
As a January 2021 zoom wedding haver, I can relate! Mazel tov!!!!
aug 13, 2025, 8:05 pm • 3 0 • view
Because I knew the digital copy COULD work in a pinch, but I also knew the nurses liked the convenience of handing them a copy they could scan.
aug 13, 2025, 7:54 pm • 6 0 • view
Which was a thing I knew based on the number of times I handed off copies to scan!!!!
aug 13, 2025, 7:58 pm • 5 0 • view
I can’t tell you how much time and energy and strategizing was spent to get as many of the parts of marriage we needed to protect each other without the parts that would make it impossible to survive as disabled people, it was awful and near impossible.
aug 13, 2025, 7:58 pm • 6 0 • view
I will never take marriage for granted. It is not the ONLY important right, but it is one important right.
aug 13, 2025, 8:01 pm • 8 0 • view
After 9 years of working in critical care, and the hell of last year with Ryan’s stroke/heart/cancer/sepsis, I understand this far, far too well. ❤️
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