it's not an innate trait that makes women not like you, it's that you haven't fucking tried to be interesting like this dude says he goes to the gym. cool man, I do that too. what the fuck else do you do? you have any hobbies? do you play ball with friends? anything?
Being 5’5” and not using the word “bitchless” has worked out pretty well for me. 🤷♂️
I feel like the word "bitchless" is a giant, flashing red flag here.
As someone who is 5'3, anyone above 5'10 gets mentally classified as tall* to me so yeah I don't think this dude is actually getting rejected due to his height but rather the fact that he says he's currently "bitchless" *once you're over 6'3, that gets reclassified to Giant
yea that word was a massive tell also i do the same thing but for kids lmao -<10: small child -10-15: medium child -15-20: large child
He says he's 5'11 on dating apps and then shows up and he's 5'8, a completely reasonable height if he hadn't lied initially. Does that count as a hobby?
He's one inch from six foot. Forget the protein, get some high heels
Is this guy also incapable of using Google? He is above average height.
This is not a hardware issue. This is user error.
"problem in personality not in physique", the new pebcak
Pipnip
Ha!
I'm also 5'11 and go to the gym to work out and lose weight. Unfortunately, I've only attracted women online via dating apps who want my money, and I haven't gone out to socialize with other people because of my money concerns over my car gas, as I'm saving all of it to buy a hybrid car.
five eleven point six is sending me
does he think women show up to a date with a micrometer and are like "You said you are 6ft but are actually 0.4in shorter than that!"
Before we can sit down and order dinner, please stand next to the Wall Of Verification
How so many men are super insecure about their hight is nuts. Even other gay men lie to me about their height constantly. Being tall isn't a personality.
hey let's leave gay men who lie about their height out of this
we really need to normalize saying "skill issue" to people
No im pretty sure “empire eric” is “bitchless” because women are evil
excuse me that's Empire Epic, smh (i didn't even notice the username wtf
Oh even better
“Never had a girlfriend, only hooked up with women I wasn’t attracted to” Fella should try self respect
“Refers to himself as bitchless” But it is not true - for he is the Bitch
also, like, not to toot my own horn but i've figured out that you get way more friends & relationships by just being yourself instead of Trying to be something that a podcast told you is how REAL MEN(tm) act [and yes, i'm 6ft1 so maybe my expeirence isn't "the same" but i'm also basically ace so...)
dunno man, i feel like rather than 'be interesting' as a way to attract women, we should probably be encouraging people to find ways of enjoying themselves despite bein on a cold streak....
we can do both
lol we didnt though...and i feel like we chose to indulge the least productive/most enjoyable path 😂
like just to Everything is Gender for a moment, once I figured out that I didn't ID as a man and just started letting myself do my own thing without fear of what Other People thought about it was not only immensely liberating but *dramatically* improved my relationships with everyone in my life
it should not come as a shock, but regularly does, that others are not interested in a constructed version of a person. they are interested in an actual person (and all that comes with) "DRIVE LAMBO BE TALL" is as thin of a constructed personality as the dorm room poster paper its printed on
My wife and I celebrated 11 years together on Sunday and I cannot stress enough that I look like a fit hobbit, with everything that entails. You don't have to be some incredible stud. You just have to give a shit and try to be good to those around you and you can muddle through, I promise.
drive lambo be tall will attract the sort of people with whom you can only drive a lambo and be tall
If you borrow a really cool car for a day, what you discover is that only guys care about it. The kind of car adjusts the kind of guys you attract. Very few women notice beyond if the car is clean and smells good.
I cannot stress this enough that if you work on your own emotions enough, someone out there will love you and be attracted to you.
on top of the fact that even if the constructed version does help you succeed at initially forming a relationship with someone, to keep that relationship there *has to* be more there than your height and car. but also these guys dont really think of the other person in a relationship anyway so...
Just be yourself and stop trying to fit in to a fake construction is really simple advice and yet nearly impossible for a lot of people to do. Read some books! Watch some shows! Be interested in life! Being the SMACKS OF GENDER guy for everything is, shockingly, never going to work
Also, the expectation from DRIVE LAMBO BE TALL guy is "unless I'm dating the hottest porn star, it's all an unattractive failure" is really driving so so so much of this
I really thing "bitchless" might be the clue to why he has such rancid, off-putting vibes to women. (key part of my lore is my dad is 5'2" and my mom is 5'11" so I know a short guy with rizz can snag an Amazon.)
Even this post doesn't do the one thing that might help -- ask a question.
i mean, do you think he's interested in other people's opinions
No evidence of that so far!
Asking questions is a magical technique that allows people to learn about others and become more interesting to them.
How about a sense of humor? Is he kind? Does he like dogs?
Stuff you do isn’t even that important to women in my experience, that’s a very male construct. Women like to talk and be emotionally validated and if you’re bad at talking and emotionally validating you are cooked.
i'm 5'7 and somehow i present as taller than this jabroni
I'm the same height as this guy and never had issues meeting women. I dated one for a year that was taller than me. I suspect this guy just sucks
I'm 5'7" and very not "built" (I weight 135 lbs)... and I never had any issues meeting women before I got married. I also dated many women who were taller than me. My height was never a problem.
almost as if you aren't a douchebag. there's a lesson here somewhere
Women are, on average, much nicer and more empathetic than these manosphere douchebags are! They're shooting themselves in the face by imagining they have a parallel set of psychoses.
“being completely bitchless” yea no he seems well
Also, like, he's 20! At 20 I also did not understand how to be attractive to people. Then I made friends and played it bands and pit orchestras and had fun and realized people liked me when I was having fun, and that as a side benefit I also liked having fun! SHOCKING