Hey, so, just because an author uses they/them pronouns, that doesn't mean they "don't want to make their gender known," it means they are somewhere on the nonbinary spectrum. In my case, I am agender, and if that "annoys" you, ask yourself why and work on your issues 😘
I really hate how shitheads have created a space where authors have to scream their sexuality or gender identity as if to prove themselves. Frankly, I wouldn't have mine anywhere because I don't believe it's the world's business. I should be able to choose, always, but alas, here we are😑