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Thomas Frampton @tframpton.bsky.social

If you know us in real life, you probably know Kelly & I have spent the last 4 years trying to have a biological kid. (We've been pretty open about IVF, miscarriages, D&C, etc.). So, some good news: kid coming (🤞) Jan. '26! Not much to add beyond what Kelly wrote, but I guess a few extra thoughts...

aug 30, 2025, 11:18 pm • 91 0

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Liz Sepper @lsepper.bsky.social

Congratulations! And look at that excellent academic timing! (I have a 12/31 baby myself). I hope everything goes smoothly and easily from here on out. Babies are magical little jerks. Sending good thoughts your way!

aug 30, 2025, 11:23 pm • 2 0 • view
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Thomas Frampton @tframpton.bsky.social

Hahaha, totally. Thanks!

aug 31, 2025, 12:45 am • 1 0 • view
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Guha Krishnamurthi @ggkrishnamoomoo.bsky.social

❤️❤️❤️

aug 31, 2025, 1:39 am • 2 0 • view
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Christopher A Gilbert @chrisagilbert.bsky.social

My crim law professo is in Australia/se Asia?

aug 30, 2025, 11:42 pm • 2 0 • view
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Christopher A Gilbert @chrisagilbert.bsky.social

In all seriousness congratulations

aug 30, 2025, 11:43 pm • 2 0 • view
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Corey Rayburn Yung @coreyryung.bsky.social

Congratulations!! That's awesome!

aug 31, 2025, 12:46 am • 2 0 • view
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Kim Krawiec @kimkrawiec.bsky.social

Congrats to you both! I didn’t know any of this, but so sorry for all that you’ve been going through

aug 30, 2025, 11:58 pm • 3 0 • view
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Thomas Frampton @tframpton.bsky.social

Thanks, Kim! It’s been (and still is) a ride…

aug 31, 2025, 12:44 am • 1 0 • view
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Thomas Frampton @tframpton.bsky.social

1. IVF is amazing (damn near miracle, even). But we can expand our family this way only bc we’ve got 2 good jobs, insurance, access to quality reproductive healthcare. It’s not classical eugenics, but it rhymes. Other countries have made IVF widely available and accessible; the U.S. chooses not to.

aug 30, 2025, 11:18 pm • 5 0 • view
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Thomas Frampton @tframpton.bsky.social

2. I was pro-choice before all *this*. I'm more so now. A strange thing about this "journey" is that we've been on it together, and we very much haven't. When Kelly had her D&C, we both mourned the loss, but in fundamentally different (and incomparable) ways....

aug 30, 2025, 11:18 pm • 7 0 • view
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Thomas Frampton @tframpton.bsky.social

... thankfully that happened in Virginia, where (for now) she was able to get medical treatment, from a doctor in a safe facility, within 24 hours. But yeah, unending contempt and loathing for those politicians with the hubris to decide they know best, to limit personal bodily autonomy in that way.

aug 30, 2025, 11:18 pm • 9 0 • view
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Thomas Frampton @tframpton.bsky.social

3. Did you know, amongst all the other horrors in Gaza, that this happened? Statehood for DC and Palestine. That's all.

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aug 30, 2025, 11:18 pm • 14 0 • view
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Jeremy Neely @jeremyneely.bsky.social

Our infertility saga had that effect on me, too.

aug 31, 2025, 12:02 am • 1 0 • view
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Thomas Frampton @tframpton.bsky.social

Yeah, it’s a trip, huh? Thanks for sharing; it’s a lot!

aug 31, 2025, 12:46 am • 1 0 • view
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Jen Taub @jennifertaub.com

Much love to you all

aug 30, 2025, 11:55 pm • 2 0 • view
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johnedwinmason @johnedwinmason.bsky.social

Good luck!

aug 31, 2025, 1:33 am • 2 0 • view
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Sam Brunson @smbrnsn.bsky.social

Congratulations!

aug 30, 2025, 11:27 pm • 2 0 • view
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Geohead @geohead.bsky.social

Awe...

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aug 31, 2025, 5:27 am • 0 0 • view
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Geohead @geohead.bsky.social

Lol Sorry for the friendly jab. Congratulations!!!!

aug 31, 2025, 5:28 am • 1 0 • view
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Sarah Milov @allofmilov.bsky.social

One million mazels.

aug 30, 2025, 11:58 pm • 3 0 • view
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Rick Weinmeyer @rickweinmeyer.bsky.social

Congratulations! Until the baby arrives, more pictures of your dog, please. Thx.

aug 30, 2025, 11:50 pm • 2 0 • view
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Thomas Frampton @tframpton.bsky.social

Feedback noted. Thanks! - Ruth (the dog)

aug 30, 2025, 11:52 pm • 1 0 • view
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Bart Malloy @bartmalloy.bsky.social

Congratulations! It took us a much longer and harder road than we expected but totally worth it and no regrets (other than I wish we’d started sooner). Best wishes to you all!

aug 31, 2025, 12:45 am • 2 0 • view
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Melinda Bmore @melindabmore.bsky.social

Congratulations

aug 31, 2025, 2:19 am • 1 0 • view
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Andrew Ferguson @epikt.bsky.social

ayy pulling for y’all!

aug 30, 2025, 11:26 pm • 2 0 • view
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Brian L. Frye @brianlfrye.bsky.social

Congratulations!!!

aug 31, 2025, 12:49 am • 2 0 • view
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Jeremy Neely @jeremyneely.bsky.social

Congratulations!

aug 31, 2025, 12:01 am • 2 0 • view