Yes, but my point was about whether hanging flags outside/on/in your house is 'normal' full stop. There's a carnivalesque atmosphere during international football tournaments (when England's competing!), during which a lot of things temporarily become normal. That's not where we are now.
The funny thing about this is that if Tory-minded or just non-leftwing people started pointing out funny bits of behaviour done by relatively few people (hanging up pride flags for example) and saying it's "not normal", I bet more leftwing people would think that was well dodgy.
What's the difference? Why would we see one flag as normal and okay for people to display, the other not?
You're interpreting 'not normal' as 'weird and not OK', which (as I've already stressed) isn't how I'm using it. In terms of whether it's an ordinary thing to do outside of special occasions, something that would excite no comment if you saw it, hanging Pride flags isn't normal either.
As it goes, I wouldn't want to be pressured into hanging a Pride flag, and if I were I'd be glad when the chance came to take it down. Which is also how I feel about England flags - with the exception that I'm dubious about the motives of anyone hanging England flags outside of special occasions.
In my lifetime at least, demonstrative patriotism - outside of special occasions - has never been normal (unexceptional, ordinary, exciting no comment) in this country. That's the history that's being ignored by Starmer, Cooper et al.
Maybe that's changed a bit, and not necessarily because of the far right. Maybe it's just part of the general Americanisation of our culture. I bet some people put their hand on their heart when singing the national anthem nowadays.
Obviously I agree about not being pressured to fly flags. And I'm not into flags as an ideological symbol. I do see your point about England flags. But I do also think that if we start seeing a national flag as a divisive ideological symbol, that will really help those who want it to be one.
What I'm hearing is "we can fly it too - it's ours to identify with as well as theirs!". What I'd like to hear is "we can carry on not flying it and not having any strong feelings about it, without that being a problem for anyone".
I'm fine with both. I also (unlike apparently a lot of people here) am not bothered if the PM has one in his house.
The Daily Mail might have said that! There are lots of flags around, on pubs and cafes for example, and on people's profiles here, going without comment all the time. It seems to me displaying flags is pretty normal!
The initiative that started the current conversation about flags consisted of ordinary people displaying flags in residential streets. That's what I've been talking about, and it isn't normal (by which, I stress once more, I don't mean that it's weird or censurable).
I'm saying nothing about flags in online profiles, nothing about flags put up by commercial ventures, nothing about flags put up by local councils, and nothing about flags put up to mark a major patriotic occasion or sporting tournament.
Okay, but why are e.g. flags in online profiles different? That's as demonstrative or performative as anything else.
[shrugs] I've got a Ukrainian flag in my ID on X. Never in a thousand years would I put up a physical Ukrainian flag outside my house.
Good example! Lots of people did that in 2022, I saw it everywhere.
How about the Scottish or Welsh flags? What makes them better, if they are? I think the only rationale that makes any sort of sense is if we've decided we will just give the far right the English and British flags because they want them.