We've been having to mask at work lately and i really dont think its the masks that make my glasses fall off, every mask i ever wore from an n95 to a cheap dispo to a fun fabric one have not left enough room on my ears for both the earpieces of both glasses and mask.
Have you looked at FloMask respirators? They have a little indentation for glasses! Plus their framework keeps the mask away from the mouth. (I have an EnvoMask Pro, but it's a little less glasses-friendly in that way, even if it has the lovely squooshie seal.)
Oh man, that sucks ass. I don't know if they'd allow a gaiter in a workplace, a lot of people think that the look is too casual or something. I'm sorry you have to go through that.
Haha, no need for the "so sorry," it's a minor annoyance at worst, just like when i hear people say how obviously comfy masks are so there must be something wrong with anyone who doesnt wear one forever.
Masks are not comfy! Neither are shoes, or bras, or (frequently) trousers! But I can't be in just knickers and a tank top always, for health and safety reasons. And a mask is part of that.