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Sara Luterman @slooterman.bsky.social

A possibly unique autistic parent problem: Next week is my first week back at work from parental leave and I am *freaking out* because it means making an enormous change to my routine.

jul 28, 2025, 10:06 pm • 43 2

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Sara Luterman @slooterman.bsky.social

The #1 utility for me in getting an autism diagnosis has been Understanding Why I Am Like This.

jul 28, 2025, 10:07 pm • 29 1 • view
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Sara Luterman @slooterman.bsky.social

I am very excited to be going back. I honestly miss work. A lot of Disability News has been happening. But man. The anxiety of a Major Schedule Change is just. Yeah.

jul 28, 2025, 10:09 pm • 25 1 • view
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Beth Hawkins @bethhawkins.bsky.social

I had many words of wisdom. None of them will truly help since you are new people on a new journey. So many of us love you and want to have your back. Whatever you need, fam fam.

jul 29, 2025, 5:44 am • 2 0 • view
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ifollowonlyos.bsky.social @ifollowonlyos.bsky.social

Good luck with the transition. Glad youre back!

jul 29, 2025, 12:28 am • 2 0 • view
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Jay Edidin @edidin.bsky.social

Solidarity

jul 28, 2025, 10:16 pm • 1 0 • view
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Lauren @grobielauren.bsky.social

What can you do to start getting in that routine now? That might help.

jul 28, 2025, 10:09 pm • 0 0 • view
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Sara Luterman @slooterman.bsky.social

I’ve started doing some stuff. I know how to manage it. It still sucks!

jul 28, 2025, 10:10 pm • 2 0 • view
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Stephen R. Fox @f6x.bsky.social

I go through this when school gets out/starts back up. My coping mechanism is checklists. I capture my potential anxieties at the time they arise, and can then relax in the moment when I need to implement the new routine as a check off the steps on my list. Also, congratulations and good luck!

jul 28, 2025, 10:12 pm • 3 0 • view
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Helen Rottier @helenrottier.bsky.social

My experience of routines, disruptions, transitions, and the unknown is so impactful to my life and my autistic self/identity. Routine and planning is how I survive. For this and other reasons, I deeply struggle to live through “unprecedented times.”

jul 28, 2025, 10:15 pm • 1 0 • view