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Andrew H-K @beauchamp45.bsky.social

Everyday homophobia. Sainsburys guy, smiley friendly chatty when I opened the door. When Paul came he didn’t quite pull a face but turned round and barely spoke. Didn’t say anything but you know, don’t know why I expect to be surprised nowadays. 🙄😂

sep 1, 2025, 9:18 am • 46 2

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BeardyNick @bearybeardy.bsky.social

Bye bye Sainsbury’s.

sep 1, 2025, 9:26 am • 1 0 • view
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Andrew H-K @beauchamp45.bsky.social

They’re normally so nice, first time in 5 years.

sep 1, 2025, 9:28 am • 2 0 • view
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Thaddeus Maximus @thadmessenger.bsky.social

Shoulda gone to Waitrose. They treat everyone with the same disregard and vague disdain.

sep 1, 2025, 11:02 am • 5 0 • view
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Andrew H-K @beauchamp45.bsky.social

😂😂😂

sep 1, 2025, 11:07 am • 1 0 • view
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Bikey Mikey 🏳️‍🌈 @bikeymikey.bsky.social

That’s disappointing. It’s worth pointing out to Sainsbury’s and ask for him not to be your delivery driver in future. You don’t need to be made to feel uncomfortable in your own home.

sep 1, 2025, 11:57 am • 8 0 • view
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Andrew H-K @beauchamp45.bsky.social

I know, very disappointing and they’re usually so good. He didn’t say anything, just changed his demeanour.

sep 1, 2025, 12:03 pm • 3 0 • view
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🦄 endofthenight99🌈 @endofthenight99.bsky.social

Probably thought he had a chance with a rich gay daddy in a large house but was so disappointed to see you were taken. Totally understand his disappointment.

sep 1, 2025, 10:13 am • 4 0 • view
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Andrew H-K @beauchamp45.bsky.social

Hehe! Good way of looking at bab … he was older than me though

sep 1, 2025, 10:16 am • 2 0 • view
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🦄 endofthenight99🌈 @endofthenight99.bsky.social

Cost of living crisis hun. Everyones trying everything nowadays. Keep you nightie closed when answering the door unless its the kebab man.

sep 1, 2025, 10:21 am • 4 0 • view
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Andrew H-K @beauchamp45.bsky.social

😂😂 Oooh the kebab man … must order another 🥵😜

sep 1, 2025, 10:26 am • 2 0 • view
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🦄 endofthenight99🌈 @endofthenight99.bsky.social

Keep the local economy going

sep 1, 2025, 10:27 am • 2 0 • view
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Andrew H-K @beauchamp45.bsky.social

I’m just dreaming about his sexy beard and hairy chest bab …

sep 1, 2025, 10:32 am • 2 0 • view
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🦄 endofthenight99🌈 @endofthenight99.bsky.social

Tell him youll eat it in the bedroom

sep 1, 2025, 10:34 am • 2 0 • view
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Andrew H-K @beauchamp45.bsky.social

I’ll turn the heating on and say ooh it’s rather warm in here …

sep 1, 2025, 10:47 am • 2 0 • view
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🦄 endofthenight99🌈 @endofthenight99.bsky.social

Good thinking hun

sep 1, 2025, 3:27 pm • 1 0 • view
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Andrew H-K @beauchamp45.bsky.social

😂😂

sep 1, 2025, 4:08 pm • 1 0 • view
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Carolfaebeith @robsoncarol.bsky.social

That's vile. I'm so sorry.

sep 1, 2025, 9:28 am • 1 0 • view
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Andrew H-K @beauchamp45.bsky.social

Thanks Carol, it’s a first from Sainsbury’s which is why I’m surprised xx

sep 1, 2025, 9:29 am • 1 0 • view
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BGJ @bgj.bsky.social

I’d have closed the door and sent the delivery back, then he could explain to his manager why the order has been returned

sep 1, 2025, 11:34 am • 2 0 • view
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Kwadwo🏳️‍🌈 👨🏽‍🍳 @charliewinns.bsky.social

Sorry this happened 🫂❤️

sep 1, 2025, 9:29 am • 1 0 • view
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Andrew H-K @beauchamp45.bsky.social

Thanks xx

sep 1, 2025, 9:30 am • 1 0 • view
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iPoof @ipoof.bsky.social

You're what?!

sep 1, 2025, 11:36 am • 2 0 • view
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Chris: a European friend @chrissavoy74.bsky.social

... sorry to hear Andrew ... what a silly and rude man ... It'd do him good to report him and have him sent to a Diversity & Inclusion training course! 🤭

sep 1, 2025, 11:22 am • 1 0 • view
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Andrew H-K @beauchamp45.bsky.social

It was his demeanour changing so obviously rather than anything he’d said. I was surprised because it’s so long since I’ve experienced it.

sep 1, 2025, 11:39 am • 2 0 • view
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Joe 🏳️‍🌈 @jmcl1980.bsky.social

Did Paul have his lad out though?

sep 1, 2025, 9:20 am • 6 0 • view
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Andrew H-K @beauchamp45.bsky.social

Next time bab 😂😂

sep 1, 2025, 9:23 am • 5 0 • view
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Joe Cap @capjd.bsky.social

Any value in feeding it back to them? If they're not told, then he'll keep getting away with it with you and others. He may well have his opinions about the likes of us, but he can and should still maintain a professional composure in a public facing role while representing his employers.

sep 1, 2025, 10:54 am • 3 0 • view
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Andrew H-K @beauchamp45.bsky.social

I don’t know, he didn’t say anything it’s just his demeanour changed when Paul appeared and I don’t suppose you can complain about that.

sep 1, 2025, 10:57 am • 1 0 • view
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Bruce P 🐻🏳️‍🌈🇪🇺🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿 @bearden64.bsky.social

I can’t remember which one it was but during our move one of the blokes that came to do something thought Mackenzie was my Dad.

sep 1, 2025, 11:41 am • 4 0 • view
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Andrew H-K @beauchamp45.bsky.social

Hehe! I’ve had that a lot over the years. Did you correct him? I’ve tried with a checkout woman at Sainsburys but she wouldn’t have it that he was my husband not my Daddy. Laughed her head off! 🙈😂

sep 1, 2025, 11:44 am • 2 0 • view
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Bruce P 🐻🏳️‍🌈🇪🇺🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿 @bearden64.bsky.social

I did and there was a bit of awkwardness 🤣

sep 1, 2025, 1:10 pm • 2 0 • view
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Andrew H-K @beauchamp45.bsky.social

😂😂😂

sep 1, 2025, 2:03 pm • 0 0 • view
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Michael @lusotart.bsky.social

Sorry you experienced that Andrew x

sep 1, 2025, 10:38 am • 1 0 • view
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Andrew H-K @beauchamp45.bsky.social

Thanks Michael. Only small but I’ve not experienced it for ages.

sep 1, 2025, 10:47 am • 0 0 • view
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Ivancatdad @ivancatdad.bsky.social

That is terrible.

sep 1, 2025, 9:26 am • 1 0 • view
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Andrew H-K @beauchamp45.bsky.social

I’d forgotten what they’re like Ivan, oh well c’est la vie xx

sep 1, 2025, 9:28 am • 1 0 • view
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Ivancatdad @ivancatdad.bsky.social

It is still terrible. Did not happen to me in a long time.

sep 1, 2025, 9:43 am • 1 0 • view
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Andrew H-K @beauchamp45.bsky.social

Nor me Ivan, sadly with politics like they are here now people think they can be rude again xx

sep 1, 2025, 10:03 am • 2 0 • view
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Ivancatdad @ivancatdad.bsky.social

😔

sep 1, 2025, 10:10 am • 2 0 • view
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Andrew H-K @beauchamp45.bsky.social

🥰

sep 1, 2025, 10:11 am • 1 0 • view