I just don't look very good in a more feminine style.

I get the most compliments when I wear my bright pink shirt & I'm a brick shaped straight dude with a beard. Flair demonstrates confidence. Your body language won't change.

Oh I'm not afraid of being feminine - and let's be clear, I'm gay and have no problems being perceived as feminine. I know my boss is going to rock the hell out of this scarf and he's big and bearded like I am. I just don't think that the more feminine shapes with my features at all.

What can I say but: report to your local fashion police, keep your hands away from your face, & follow all instructions they give you. Good luck.