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redblair @redryder.bsky.social

it sounds like you're dissatisfied with a particular clique and that's fine, they might just not be your people. that doesn't need to mean something grander about your place in the world as a trans person

jun 16, 2025, 4:59 pm • 0 0

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internet hole @cerezaonline.bsky.social

it’s literally not a clique blair! I’m bemoaning the fact that some people get to date within their friend group and there are large structural factors preventing me from having the same experience. I don’t have confidence issues and i am saturated platonically. it’s okay to not understand

jun 16, 2025, 5:02 pm • 0 0 • view
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redblair @redryder.bsky.social

I do understand, believe me. I've been around a while. The world of trans people didn't come into existence in 2020 and it is not defined by whatever trends have emerged since then. I know a lot of people you think are on the other side of this could empathize.

jun 16, 2025, 5:10 pm • 0 0 • view
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redblair @redryder.bsky.social

If you want to meet up and talk about this I'd be happy to. I have similar experiences I could share

jun 16, 2025, 5:11 pm • 0 0 • view
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redblair @redryder.bsky.social

It might be worth a shot before you call it quits, you know

jun 16, 2025, 5:12 pm • 0 0 • view