why do you get to decide who 'they' is? I clarified it, so don't tell me what I'm saying

I read your post as not understanding the pronouns used by @stankyyankee.bsky.social in their post — I share OP’s hope that all will be unharmed & safe.

I understand pronouns and her (or his, hence their) use of them just fine. Quoting...."not take out THEIR aggression". I think you are the one who misread/misunderstood.