Thus the aphorism, if I’d only known then what I know now. Not all trauma can be “dealt with” I believe people need to find work arounds to their specific triggers.
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I think that’s still dealing with it. Even to do that you have to acknowledge that it exists. Some people bury things very deep and make the same mistakes over and over again without taking anything away from them.
aug 25, 2025, 8:12 pm • 1 0 • view
If I could turn back time..I have so many things I would like a do over on. That’s the thing about life, “100 bad things make 100 great stories, 100 great stories make you interesting at parties.”
aug 25, 2025, 8:17 pm • 1 0 • view
You know. If I could change things there are probably only 2 or 3 big ones that I actually would. Those changes may have lead to me not making some other mistakes later. Then again they may have lead to worse. The past is the past. Only dwell on it enough to learn.
aug 25, 2025, 8:32 pm • 1 0 • view
I don’t dwell remember what I said a long time ago, “rearview mirror” stuff. You can glance just don’t stare.
aug 25, 2025, 8:44 pm • 1 0 • view
It’s always good to check the mirror from time to time. Keeps you grounded
aug 25, 2025, 9:29 pm • 1 0 • view