Sometimes I'll talk to folks about the gendered feelings I have about my body. Not just about the yearning i had for a vulva but also my want for a womb, to experience pregnancy, to breast feed, etc. And then sometimes I get asked The Question: "Have you considered that you're just a trans woman?"
I.. well.. 1.) I feel called out, in a good way. Never knew others felt the same about gestational desires. 2.) The fact that it wouldn’t be 100% functional is why I’ll more than 99% likely be going nullo, lest it cause dysphoria still. 3.) Thank you for your candor and eloquence. Is appreciated!
This feeling resonates with me.
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I mean, as a cis dude, I'm curious about it. Maybe I was too young when I watched Junior. Maybe it was that moment in time when MPREG was big. But an inquiry sits in my mind: what if not "woman" but pregnant?
It's enticing for a variety of reasons! For me it's mostly due to Gender™️, but i feel like whatever motivation a man would have to experience that is a valid one
The short answer is yes, and have I concluded that I am not in fact a trans woman The long answer is that sometimes enbys that pass for cis men wanna get pregnant, push out a baby, and have big milky tits to feed the thing with It's basically the logical extreme for the paternal instinct
OMG someone else feels this way...
Gender is complicated, lots of people have lots of different aspirations and dreams for their bodies that might well vex you, and you're just gonna have to be fine with that Your lack of imangination is not my problem, nay, my problem is I cannot get knocked up But i will continue to try
Fucking preach. As a masc nb I heavily relate, granted my goals aren't exactly like yours but they still are pretty similar. It's rough knowing that I want to try throwing some more fem stuff into my presentation and that a uterus doesn't half bad to have even if I really don't want kids
That’s the spirit! Lol I can’t even begin to imagine what you feel but I love that you have this open dialogue with your self and what you want.
Linking this to my oomfs
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I don’t understand the science behind why we all have a different appreciation of our own gender. But I do understand that we all want to be ourselves, feel comfortable with ourselves and for others to accept us without having to fit into defined categories that just don’t fit who we really are.
holy shit hello I've never heard someone take the words out of my brain like this before. all of this is a fuckin gender-is-a-weird-soup mood.
In my experience, gender is complicated = non-binary. *hugz*
It's beautiful to read what this thread sparked in others and I appreciate you sharing your own perspectives.
Same dog. Lol
As a trans woman I do have a lot of these same desires (really strong lately cause a friend just found out she's pregnant) my stance is this: if being referred to as a certain gender makes you happy, that's all you need. You're he/they enby because that makes you happy ❤️ Everyting else is confetti.