This is when it gets annoying again, doesn’t matter from which side. Because he doesn’t have to. He also doesn’t have to explain anything. He minds his own business and is happy like this, all up to him. Just stop telling people how to live.

I know he doesn't have to. I guess because I'm British and curious, I'd want to be able to communicate better, so I'd learn a bit of Spanish. Suppose that's the difference between being European or American.