I have mostly just made my peace with it because I would much rather watch everything on my ceiling projector and covid broke my memory so bad I forget spoilers at this point (lolcry) but when the new Star Wars were coming & I didn't want to be spoiled, it was crushing.

Especially because when you're trying to avoid spoilers, people can be SO MEAN. There's a very "how dare you think you should be able to do this, if you wanted to not be spoiled YOU SHOULD HAVE SEEN IT ALREADY" yeah I wish I could have, too! please back off!