It’s incredible how calming it is once you set this boundary too. Those relationships cause so much anxiety and putting the emotional burden where it belongs is a huge relief.
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It’s amazing how mad other people get when you stop coddling every mood they have and actually make them say the thing out loud so you can both acknowledge it, take accountability and find a solution together. People really just want you to read the tea leaves of their feelings.
sep 2, 2025, 8:58 pm • 52 4 • view
And it’s also very calming to watch them get mad cause it’s like “you’re literally doing this to yourself right now and absolutely none of this has anything to do with me 🤷🏻♀️” LOL
sep 2, 2025, 9:01 pm • 34 1 • view
Yes, you are right. I understand that it can be difficult to express oneself, to express one's own wants and needs, but no one is a mind reader or Sherlock Holmes either.
sep 2, 2025, 9:07 pm • 3 0 • view