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Alex Andreou @sturdyalex.bsky.social

"It's not all about you," says person who ranted at me, wrongly assuming what I posted was all about them. Is there a name for this? Realising you got it arse-over-tit and backing off, while trying to style it out by still shouting "I'M SORRY, BUT ALSO FUCK YOU!" Can we come up with a name for it?

Alex Andreou‬ ‪@sturdyalex.bsky.social‬ · 17h Of all the bullshit positions, the one I loathe most is
aug 1, 2025, 2:21 pm • 75 2

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mattevansc3.bsky.social @mattevansc3.bsky.social

There’s a bit of Sealioning going on, as well as Strawmanning and they are clearly having a strop. Stroppy Strawman? Strawlioning?

aug 1, 2025, 2:44 pm • 4 0 • view
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Alex Andreou @sturdyalex.bsky.social

I quite adore "strawlioning".

aug 1, 2025, 3:10 pm • 4 0 • view
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mattevansc3.bsky.social @mattevansc3.bsky.social

Let’s see if it catches on better than fetch

aug 1, 2025, 3:57 pm • 1 0 • view
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Equiton Press @equiton.net

Sometimes I disagree with your position. BUT. You have your view, and I have mine. And that's completely fine. If we didn't we would be the same person. The thing we have lost in this modern age is being able to disagree yet be able to be 'at one' with this concept.

aug 1, 2025, 6:31 pm • 1 0 • view
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Maz @maz42.bsky.social

Behold, the enlightened centrist!

aug 1, 2025, 8:30 pm • 0 0 • view
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Kat Trimble @tangocat.bsky.social

I'm wondering if it's sheer jealousy. You write exceptionally well. That must aggravate the hell out of 'also rans' who can't and don't!

aug 1, 2025, 3:33 pm • 1 0 • view
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Kat Trimble @tangocat.bsky.social

I can think of a few but they're mostly unprintable, or in Irish - which isn't much use to you!

aug 1, 2025, 2:32 pm • 3 0 • view
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What good are notebooks? @whatgoodrnotebooks.bsky.social

That, Alex, is "fuckery."

aug 1, 2025, 2:38 pm • 5 0 • view
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Dawn B @dawnbritten.bsky.social

Twatting.

aug 1, 2025, 2:49 pm • 4 0 • view
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paliman.bsky.social @paliman.bsky.social

"it's not all about you" is iconic gaslighting.

aug 1, 2025, 2:51 pm • 1 0 • view
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Cerulean Man 🐝 🏳️‍🌈 🌹 🐶 @ceruleanman.bsky.social

The word is projection Alex. Next patient please.

aug 1, 2025, 6:30 pm • 1 0 • view
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Teresa M @teresasm.bsky.social

I'm not going to offend cats and compare it to that stretch they do after missing a jump, but if there's something sinilar from some less cute creatures: that.

aug 1, 2025, 2:35 pm • 3 0 • view
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Alex Andreou @sturdyalex.bsky.social

OMG. I know that stretch. It's either that stretch or switching instantly to cleaning themselves as if they're been at it for hours.

aug 1, 2025, 2:36 pm • 7 0 • view
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Teresa M @teresasm.bsky.social

I think I found it: there's a weird sniff I've seen people do when you point out something daft in their argument. It's rather an affronted sniff and I'd not noticed it in Italy, only here in England.

aug 1, 2025, 2:46 pm • 2 0 • view
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Ceri Shields @cerishields.bsky.social

bsky.app/profile/shou...

aug 1, 2025, 2:48 pm • 3 0 • view
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Nono Knight @mak-nono.bsky.social

That’s best known as a “Vicky” in our house, after a neighbour famously went full throttle at me when I messaged to say I’d found her kids alone, throwing stones at my car, but it’s ok because I’ve put them back in her house and closed her front door… she’s neither apologised nor spoken to me since!

aug 1, 2025, 2:38 pm • 3 0 • view
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markmcan.bsky.social @markmcan.bsky.social

Doing a Carly Simon?

aug 1, 2025, 2:24 pm • 1 0 • view
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Stephenbc @stephenbc.bsky.social

Like Schroedinger's reply - it's both aimed at you, but also not aimed at you 🤔

aug 1, 2025, 2:45 pm • 1 0 • view
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Godtår @spacegull.bsky.social

Crapologising

aug 1, 2025, 3:48 pm • 1 0 • view
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Richard James Foster @richardjamesfoster.bsky.social

Being a div?

aug 1, 2025, 2:23 pm • 3 0 • view
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Jane Thurber @thurberteam.bsky.social

ISBAFU now takes its place alongside WTF, AYFKM, GTFO. IYKYK

aug 1, 2025, 2:44 pm • 1 0 • view
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Jane @swimbikerunjane.bsky.social

Narcissism Alex. I have an (ex) friend who did exactly this to me. They just shout and scream hen you call them out.

aug 1, 2025, 3:11 pm • 1 0 • view
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Rick Lehane @ricklehane.bsky.social

Beleidigungschuldigung Definition: Apologetic remark crafted to simultaneously convey disdain, superiority, or a passive-aggressive jab.

aug 1, 2025, 3:07 pm • 2 0 • view
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Austin @ozziesmith.bsky.social

Reformage

aug 1, 2025, 9:51 pm • 1 0 • view
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Liebre Roja 🇮🇹 🤝 🇪🇸 ❤️🚴‍♂️ @redhare.bsky.social

“Crapology”

aug 1, 2025, 9:09 pm • 1 0 • view
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Thirteen @abitof.bsky.social

I'm sure there's a German word for it.

aug 1, 2025, 2:25 pm • 1 0 • view
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Kat Trimble @tangocat.bsky.social

I bet there is. Great language.

aug 1, 2025, 2:33 pm • 3 0 • view
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Paul TM 🇪🇺 Secret Agent Man @trogdouser.bsky.social

"Milgram's 38th"

aug 1, 2025, 2:44 pm • 1 0 • view
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Francesca S. @stefafra.bsky.social

Embarrassment?

aug 1, 2025, 2:25 pm • 1 0 • view
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Alexandra Citron @alexcitronella.bsky.social

Jack-knife-boomeranging?

aug 1, 2025, 2:30 pm • 2 0 • view
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David Boughton @davidjboughton.bsky.social

I thought we settled on schrodingers arsehole with this kind of thing

aug 1, 2025, 2:38 pm • 4 0 • view
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Kat Trimble @tangocat.bsky.social

😅🤣😂

aug 1, 2025, 2:39 pm • 2 0 • view
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Martyn Brunt @skybluebrunty.bsky.social

Faraging.

aug 1, 2025, 3:29 pm • 1 0 • view
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Sarah, sauntering vaguely downwards @jarmara.bsky.social

Apolograndising

aug 1, 2025, 3:42 pm • 5 0 • view
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Lance Walton 🇬🇧 🇺🇦 @lancewalton.bsky.social

That’s spectacular. (Not the thing I’m replying to. Something else entirely. Obviously.)

aug 1, 2025, 4:26 pm • 2 0 • view
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Channing Walton @channingwalton.bsky.social

Yelling at a different cloud.

aug 1, 2025, 8:53 pm • 3 0 • view
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Laurie Dunkin Wedd @ldw1.bsky.social

“Ignorance.”

aug 1, 2025, 4:43 pm • 1 0 • view
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tru @trutill.bsky.social

‘Brambling’?

aug 1, 2025, 2:25 pm • 2 0 • view
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The Secret Balloon Lady @colonelescargot.bsky.social

Gotoutofthewrongsideofbedism

aug 1, 2025, 2:32 pm • 2 0 • view
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diamofiasco.bsky.social @diamofiasco.bsky.social

Rebrand-ing seems awfully appropriate

aug 1, 2025, 9:09 pm • 1 0 • view
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Kuntie Plopkins @kuntieplopkins.bsky.social

Is ReBrand Russel's sister by any chance?

aug 1, 2025, 3:19 pm • 3 0 • view