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The Atlantic @theatlantic.com

Parents are taking over dorm-room furnishing—and, in the process, robbing their kids of an opportunity to practice independence. Meagan Francis on the era of peak dorm decor: https://theatln.tc/80yeu93J

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aug 31, 2025, 8:15 pm • 46 4

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like_a_bosstonian @wilkos.bsky.social

What happened to constructing furniture out of leftover cases from Old Mil bar bottles?

aug 31, 2025, 8:38 pm • 3 0 • view
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Carrie @carriekyte.bsky.social

A wooden door on crates made a great table.

aug 31, 2025, 8:57 pm • 4 0 • view
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Ozaukee County Democrats @ozaukeedemocrats.bsky.social

you had room for a table in your dorm room?

aug 31, 2025, 9:15 pm • 2 0 • view
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Carrie @carriekyte.bsky.social

No, we went to the maintenance shop and the nice guys cut it to size for us and on the way out said they better not see it left behind in our room.

aug 31, 2025, 9:25 pm • 2 0 • view
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Carrie @carriekyte.bsky.social

It was the 70’s. We had our connections on campus. The cafeteria workers gave us trays to use as sleds, the campus cops kept an eye on us. We needed our parent’s love and support. That’s all.

aug 31, 2025, 9:31 pm • 2 0 • view
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KerboTx.bsky.social @kerbotx.bsky.social

First world problems

aug 31, 2025, 11:58 pm • 0 0 • view
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That Cookie Lady @cookiebkr.bsky.social

So out of touch

aug 31, 2025, 8:24 pm • 0 0 • view
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mjteacher.bsky.social @mjteacher.bsky.social

When I went to State U in the late 70’s, I had a suitcase of clothes, a typewriter, and a bucket for shampoo and soap!

aug 31, 2025, 10:34 pm • 0 0 • view
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Shiboof @oldpostie.bsky.social

Yeah, Atlantic wants me to pay for this? 😁

aug 31, 2025, 8:23 pm • 1 0 • view
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Aries Sanders, Ed. D @theariessanders.bsky.social

Slow Sunday!?

aug 31, 2025, 8:16 pm • 5 0 • view
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Blanchi the global trotter. @batbitch1957.bsky.social

Maybe, but I'm sure they won't be infested with lice or bed bugs.

aug 31, 2025, 8:16 pm • 1 0 • view
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Susan Greenwood @susansees.bsky.social

Bret Easton Ellis and his room mate hated each other so laid a line of broken glass down the middle of the room overcast.fm/+AAePJjND3qg

aug 31, 2025, 8:23 pm • 2 0 • view
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brk-ms.bsky.social @brk-ms.bsky.social

You all are missing the point. Decorating for the student is just one symptom of helicopter parenting. Parents make all the decisions & handle things students should be learning to handle.

aug 31, 2025, 8:40 pm • 1 0 • view
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Carrie @carriekyte.bsky.social

And what’s with the parents renting an Airbnb off campus for whatever time it takes to ensure their freshman college student is happy and well adjusted?

aug 31, 2025, 8:54 pm • 1 0 • view
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Kim Ash @kash19958.bsky.social

Pearl clutching at its finest.

aug 31, 2025, 8:24 pm • 0 0 • view
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draya1980.bsky.social @draya1980.bsky.social

Independence via struggling? Are y’all okay?

aug 31, 2025, 8:17 pm • 1 0 • view