I've seen bumper stickers that warns; "In case of rapture, this vehicle will be unmanned". Which is hysterical, but my situation is making me really sad for him.

Yes, I understand. I don't have that particular struggle, but I suppose that a number of the wisdom Tmtraditions have taught us to try to be present for someone else's suffering, even if it results from a self-imposed version of the Bardo.