Which we all agree isn't normal. Who fucked her up that badly? I hope that when her story is revealed we get an answer to that whether it's cruel or just excessive permissiveness (which is kinda cruel for her to turn out like she has. on her and literally everyone she comes into contact with)
She's a terrible person by her own choice. Because if Stolas, Blitz, Moxxie and Loona can come out to be decent people despite being abused in various ways, well. It's not about who fucks someone up, it's about what they do with it after Stella clearly chose to be violent, sadistic and cruel
Very valid point but in counter, Stella has many egging her behaviour on. You see it at the Not-Divorced party and with Fucking Andy. She also hasn't hit rock bottom yet-Blitz, Stolas etc al all have.
She chose to abuse Stolad and Octavia all this time. She had Stolas willing to be cordial and it was never enough. She had chances. There is no blaming others for it. SHE chose to. No one is making her do anything. There's no coming back from her abuse. She's a terrible person and chooses to be
Stella is not a victim of the system. She’s a product. She fully embraces high class society in all its snooty glamour. You can try and make excuses and blame this all on her family or brother, but at the end of the day, this is who she is and who she wants to be. She likes being a rich bitch.
There’s no one to blame but Stella herself for her behavior. She could’ve made the marriage to Stolas at least tolerable and be a decent mother to her own daughter, but she didn’t. Why are we so insistent on shifting the blame to someone else as a reason for why Stella acts the way she does??