I was trying to let all the terrible responses go, but I can't. This is what dismissing women's feelings, opinions and experiences looks like. Do you have a no means yes kink in your marriage? I guess good for you, but posting it to the world is not helpful. I remember being made to watch
The Virgin Suicides. Apparently he had such a charmed life that he'd never gone through it. I had 8 in my high school (of 1400 students) my senior year. This wasn't entertainment; it was abuse. Or the time I was browbeat into riding a Rollercoaster. Then threw up and the rest if my day was ruined.
But at least he had fun, and thought it was funny that I threw up. So yes, I'm no longer as fun as I was. And I choose the bear.