Bro asked me how to get his family back but ain't willing to do the one thing she asked: BE AVAILABLE FOR HER AND THE KIDS. "I work all week. I should be able to blow off some steam!" His wife is a lawyer at a large firm. She spends the evening going over homework and weekends on family time.
I'm also a workaholic when i hate going home. I get it, but I will hazard a guess: this is the battle the love was lost. It's a hell of an excuse to have a 3 piece suit family and say (i have to work so much). No job is that important or interesting.
This is the battle if the love was lost*
Men are allowed so much space to be self-centered that some of us really can't see how much weight we expect our partners to carry. "It's hard being a Black man." Absolutely. And not only do Black women have it hard TOO, but you expect them to give you grace you don't reciprocate.
Go home, Roger.
The perfect end to this thread.😹
Thank you my favorite!
😩😩😩 go on and GIT
Literally
Good advice. Nothing caused more problems in my own marriage than me being up my own ass.
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If they end up splitting custody, he'll be in for a rude awakening on his days. The little that she is asking for now will seem like a vacation
I also wonder why blowing off steam involves being “outside”? I blow off steam daily, quiet time reading, dates w/hubby, lunch w/girlfriends, kickball w/my kids, sleeping on my parents couch…. folk are just immature, corny and selfish.
THIS! My person and quiet time at home is exactly how I blow off steam. He's just not done being outside and shoulda left that lady alone instead of building a family with her. 😮💨
How he want his family back, when he don’t even want to BE in a family???
He's gonna be 🤬the she's back outside.