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BW Bernstein @bwbernstein.bsky.social

I have a trans kid. I can’t afford to be a purist.

sep 2, 2025, 4:11 pm • 4 0

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Donna M (she/her) 🌈🐍🎹🇺🇦🇵🇸🇨🇦🇲🇽 @littlepythonmom.bsky.social

I have a trans kid, too, and it’s why I want to see a primary where we have choices, rather than endowing the person who’s social media team is tweaking Trump’s ear three years in advance.

sep 2, 2025, 7:27 pm • 3 0 • view
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Kevin McGee @jigtime.bsky.social

I hate that you’ve been put in such a rotten position.

sep 2, 2025, 4:14 pm • 0 0 • view
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The Nerdskull @nerdskull.bsky.social

He hasn’t. He has jumped headfirst into hatred of trans people.

sep 2, 2025, 4:43 pm • 11 0 • view
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Blåhaj Blast @dalton.run

Wait until you find out who you're arguing with!

sep 2, 2025, 4:16 pm • 34 0 • view
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🎃Captain SLAY-os👻 @captainchaos.bsky.social

My guy this was not the thing to say. "I have a trans kid ao I'll support someone adamantly opposed to my kid's existence" ain't the own you think it is

sep 2, 2025, 5:00 pm • 8 0 • view
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mossyfox @mossgrowsonher.bsky.social

can you afford to have a fucking spine? Voting for a blue transphobe is still a slap in the face to your kid

sep 2, 2025, 5:21 pm • 6 0 • view
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The Nerdskull @nerdskull.bsky.social

No you fucking don’t. If you did you wouldn’t support taking away trans people’s human rights.

sep 2, 2025, 4:42 pm • 15 0 • view
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猫くノ一 @nekokunoichi.bsky.social

You a 💩 parent for throwing your transgender 🏳️‍⚧️ child under the bus. Fucking cisgender supremacist.

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sep 2, 2025, 5:34 pm • 5 0 • view
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Tubbles @tubbles.bsky.social

You should be, otherwise your trans kid is going to lose their rights.

sep 2, 2025, 4:49 pm • 8 0 • view
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Sex Bob-Ombadil @dirtynerdy.bsky.social

i dont believe you you have a trans kid and you somehow think supporting a dem who agrees with fascists about trans ppl will help your kid?

sep 2, 2025, 8:35 pm • 4 0 • view
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Slackermom @slackermom.bsky.social

OMG - I can see why you would vote for him IF he was the nominee. BUT HE IS NOT YET. And I do not understand WHY you would be pushing others to support him as the nominee if your child is actually trans. The parents of trans kids and trans adults that I know are 100% against Newsom.

sep 2, 2025, 9:18 pm • 2 0 • view
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Lazylizzie @lazylizy.bsky.social

You think it’s being a purist to not want to ever vote for someone who agrees with fascists about your child?

sep 2, 2025, 4:49 pm • 9 0 • view
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The Morning Star @morning-gold.bsky.social

I have a trans kid who is now in his young 20s and you are wrong. Transphobia is absolutely a red line. My child deserves to feel safe and be allowed to be who they are without worry of retribution, especially from the government. You're okay with electing people who would limit your kid's rights.

sep 2, 2025, 6:51 pm • 5 0 • view
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Alt Wormhole Aliens Department @pahwraithfan.bsky.social

Your kid can't afford for you to NOT be a purist on their rights. What kind of fucking parent are you

sep 2, 2025, 4:45 pm • 18 1 • view
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Giackal (Giancarlo) 🔞NSFW🏳️‍🌈🔜 AFC @giackal.bsky.social

Newsom is a bad candidate and has been a bad Governor. Why not choose someone better than that? And I'm nonbinary. I can't afford to back the American Keir Starmer.

sep 2, 2025, 4:24 pm • 24 0 • view
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Parker Molloy @parkermolloy.com

I don't believe you. You've just started posting in the past week about your "trans kid," who almost certainly doesn't exist.

sep 2, 2025, 4:45 pm • 33 0 • view
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BW Bernstein @bwbernstein.bsky.social

I guess that’s your response.

sep 2, 2025, 4:52 pm • 1 0 • view
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Parker Molloy @parkermolloy.com

Because you don't have a trans kid. You're making it up to use as a shield. You're a liar.

sep 2, 2025, 5:02 pm • 13 0 • view
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Julie Faenza @juliemfaenza.bsky.social

He might actually have a trans kid, but since it's his trans son, apparently trans women are still disposable.

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sep 2, 2025, 5:13 pm • 5 0 • view
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Giackal (Giancarlo) 🔞NSFW🏳️‍🌈🔜 AFC @giackal.bsky.social

Oh he might. My hateful dad who believes furries use litter boxes has me. A queer nonbinary furry lol. Anyways if he isn't lying, and does have a trans kid, I feel so bad for that kid.

sep 2, 2025, 5:02 pm • 7 0 • view
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aaron @hillenjoyer.bsky.social

i have a trans kid and i’m terrified about the future and i will never vote for gavin newsom or any other transphobe so help me god

sep 2, 2025, 4:51 pm • 21 0 • view
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The Morning Star @morning-gold.bsky.social

Same.

sep 2, 2025, 6:54 pm • 3 0 • view
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Lexical Lushes @lexical-lushes.bsky.social

Newsom has already quietly blocked and shut down pro-trans legislation. He is anti-homeless, anti-immigrant, anti-trans. If we wins, those things will not change - it will simply help to establish a political consensus on BOTH sides that trans rights should be rolled back. Look at Labour in the UK.

sep 2, 2025, 4:42 pm • 18 0 • view
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Lexical Lushes @lexical-lushes.bsky.social

If you care about your trans kid, you need to understand that right now the struggle isn't between pro-trans Democrats and anti-trans Republicans - it's between a minority of pro-trans Democrats and a rising majority of anti-trans Democrats. If the Democrats pivot on this, trans rights are doomed.

sep 2, 2025, 4:44 pm • 14 0 • view
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Giackal (Giancarlo) 🔞NSFW🏳️‍🌈🔜 AFC @giackal.bsky.social

I'd like to hope pro-trans Democrats are a majority, but sadly you likely are correct. It's disheartening.

sep 2, 2025, 5:08 pm • 2 0 • view
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Lexical Lushes @lexical-lushes.bsky.social

For what it's worth, voters tend to be much more progressive than elected officials - that's part of the problem, that the Democrat party itself is out of touch with its base.

sep 2, 2025, 5:25 pm • 7 0 • view
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Giackal (Giancarlo) 🔞NSFW🏳️‍🌈🔜 AFC @giackal.bsky.social

Indeed. Very out of touch.

sep 2, 2025, 5:40 pm • 1 0 • view
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Tim Banks: VibeRel Advocate @elchefe.me

I do too, which is why I’m not going to vote for a transphobe. What better way to say you don’t give a fuck about your kid than to vote for someone who hates them.

sep 2, 2025, 4:31 pm • 28 0 • view
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Sarah has a suggestion @goatsarah.org

I was a trans kid. Were I in the US I would not vote for this Newsom character under any circumstances. He seems like someone who’d send me to a death camp.

sep 2, 2025, 4:39 pm • 14 0 • view
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Living Dead Girl @indiescent.bsky.social

Human rights are not a purity test. They are a baseline. If the Democratic Party can not produce anyone better than GN, then the party needs to be dissolved. Luckily for all of us, it can and has produced better, so no one needs to swear fealty this far out.

sep 2, 2025, 4:39 pm • 23 0 • view
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Giackal (Giancarlo) 🔞NSFW🏳️‍🌈🔜 AFC @giackal.bsky.social

This much. If this is all they have, it's time to come up with a new party.

sep 2, 2025, 4:40 pm • 3 0 • view
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pluckylump @pluckylump.bsky.social

I hope you have the humility to recognize this moment for what it is when you find yourself wondering under a Newsom presidency how you are going to keep your child safe from his cruelties.

sep 2, 2025, 4:25 pm • 20 1 • view
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A Tribe Called Kvetch, PhD @atribecalledkvetch.bsky.social

You have a trans kid, which is why you're going out of your way to defend a politician beginning the laziest choreographed pivot against trans rights we've seen from anyone not on the right?

sep 2, 2025, 7:13 pm • 5 0 • view
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Deny Defend Depose @htownqueer.bsky.social

You will vote for Trump Lite then.

sep 2, 2025, 4:57 pm • 7 0 • view