An always-useful reminder to anybody who buys the whole incel shit: your deep and true passion for a thing will always be more attractive to most women than almost anything to do with your body or looks. Yes, some women will think you're a dork. Thankfully there's four billion women on this planet.
"nice guys" don't finish last, boring ones do
Correct! If you're single and wondering what you can do to attract a partner, ask yourself what you bring to that relationship. If the best you have is "Well I'm a good person", I've got bad news. That's the bar. That's not a selling point, it's the bare minimum you need to clear.
Seriously, I harp on this sometimes but only because I really think it's fascinating. I'm a tubby (if I'm being kind) crossdresser who plays DnD and memorized all of the Nine Inch Nails Halo numbers.
And yet? My wife is a funny, gorgeous, and brilliantly smart woman who thinks the least attractive parts of me are my occasional lack of self confidence and those times when I'm not true to my word. Neither of which have anything to do with my face or how much time I spend in the gym.