You know what's *actually* progressive? dealing with the actual Problems, rather than what someone arbitrarily thinks *might* be a Problem based on Vibes and an "ick" response I will never understand ABDL personally, but that is no reason to typecast anyone who does as being "dangerous" or "gross"
As someone who was raised in the LDS Church, a place I consider a cult, this right here. There's many things I'm not into & give the ick & things I find morally reprehensible. Guess what I do? So long as people are not unconsensually harmed, I hit mute & do not recommend. Because it's not my biz.
Thank you for being a reasonable sane person! 💙
It's such a reactionary tendency to give people so much shit over something that doesn't affect you or anyone else in any way whatsoever. I'm not into ABDL personally, but you know what I do about it? I don't look at it. I look at things I like. It's so fucking easy to just leave people alone.
i will speak to a separate issue for this specific kink as well, the more people rally hatred towards ABDLs the more my life as an incontinent person becomes a living fucking hell just because i NEED diapers. I'll defend the community that shows me more respect & dignity than my own doctors, thanks.