What's the best way to delay the inevitable? I worry that I'll make myself seem like I don't want the other person to touch me for fear of setting things off too soon, so to speak.

How can I get out of my head and focus on, and follow, the pleasure of myself and my partner(s)?

Focus on the physical sensations and try to immerse yourself there. If intrusive thoughts come up, accept that you've been distracted and let it go. Try and return to the physicality, grounding you in the moment. Also, give yourself permission to BE distracted, and remember, it's about having fun! ♥️

Aw thank you Bandit, that was very insightful and helpful 🥰💜

I honestly would like to massage a muscle guy like yourself. Feel the power and work in each square inch of body.